WOW!! Thank you, Hood-Winked, for your very telling story. I was a student at Hyde in the 70's, and I so very much appreciate hearing the parents' side of the story. Thankfully your ordeal did not last longer than a year.
Your little story about the Dorm Captain is a priceless example of "Life At Hyde". It captures, all too well, the rampant hypocrisy epitomizing the place...
My child's roommate, the dorm captain, ran a tight ship. There was a chronic Dorm thief and this captain punished the group collectively. At one point, accusing my child of being the thief, which was very distressing for my child. Come to find out, at almost the end of the year, they found the thief - the thief was the Dorm Captain.