And Gary, please be patient.
When I first found this site, it was quite a while before I started posting. Notwithstanding personal fears about the long arms of Hyde (which I suspect are nowhere near as long as our fears would have believe), I also was under the misguided impression that the then current posters were having a personal conversation with one another and there was no way I could just jump in and participate. I would do a lot of reading up on older postings as well as then current ones, and then finally one day I posted as well. It takes a while to get to that point. And it takes a while to get from one or two sentence interjections to paragraphs. And it'll take me a while longer to get to some of the more soul-searing and very very personal stuff, if I dare to.
In the beginning, there was a tremendous need to see my hurt or indignation, or others' hurt and indignation, expressed in print. It was a bit cathartic, and very healing for me. I have read others who post of these same sentiments, having read of others who express the same feeling that they thought were unique to their family's alone. And perhaps that is where it ends for some people. They do not have need for it to go any further. However, I, for one, am very interested in seeing that your article makes it to print. But you must be patient.
I am not entirely sure why this is, but there has been a tremendous increase in traffic at this site. To be sure, the postings have been quite a bit more numerous, and I hear several voices that have not been here before. But the "views" have also increased, exponentially it seems. I just checked, this particular thread that this post is on has been opened and viewed 3827 times. Last Friday night, I believe it was, I remember that it just crossed the 2100 mark. That means that in approximately 4 days, this thread has been opened and viewed 1727 times.