Jnzmom and any other program parent reading this (and I know that if you have the least bit of curiosity for what the other side really is, you're still reading this): We're human beings. This is what human beings happen to do to each other from time to time. No one is forced to participate and no one on Fornits speaks for anyone but himself and it's easy to forget that. This is not a "rap" and there is no "group", despite anyone's wishes (and despite the parodies).
I've heard that Jnzmom is gone. Consequently, this thread has morphed into people giving you feedback about your potential role in that, and in general.
Re: the statement in the above quote, we do speak for ourselves, and I personally would appreciate you noticing how often you use the word "we", and sometimes when you're being "mean". I'd prefer you speak for yourself. There is no consensus on Fornits. No one can speak for everyone. Because you are listed as an Administrator, anyone new to the site might assume that your use of the word "we" does constitute a consensus.
Jnzmom, I'll tell you a secret: Most of the locals are of the opinion that you can't handle the truth stated bluntly, and this is why they're jumping down my throat.
Just my perspective, but this isn't about the "truth stated bluntly". That happens everyday on Fornits.
It appears to me to be a race... to be the first to identify a troll. Not wanting to be taken/deceived by a troll.
It will happen.
Anything's possible, but I saw no indicators that this woman was a troll.
And, if you are concerned about being taken, just as you said to the alleged troll, you don't have to read. You can avoid any thread in which others are engaged in dialogue with someone 'you' think is a troll.
There. Let the throat-jumping commence!
That is not my intention. But, I do think you've been given some "truth stated bluntly" to consider. I know that several people have discussed this with you in private, just a matter of time before the boil errupted on the forum.
