GMDP; I too am puzzled by your frequently naming people trolls or liars. Your are to quick to judge in most cases; and your comments are doing more harm to the debate than good. Make an effort to be still and see how they mature on the board, before making such decisions.
TSW; You might be a little less hostile with GMDP. Using these forums are something of a learning process. Given time and experience he'll learn to be cautious with snap judgments. I think, Partly, it is a natural tendency to totally blame the parents for this industry's issues. A knee jerk reaction to think them all stupid and selfish and everything else negative in the human makeup. I suspect, in time, with more experience, he'll learn to view the parents posting with a more moderate and balanced reaction. At least, I hope so.
GMDP; you can't help the kids in the programs by alienating the parents. People do not listen to those who are attacking them. And while some see any kind of criticism as an attack, others can be reasoned with, if you are more diplomatic in your arguments. They are the ones you can reach and make allies of; and this is an important and worth while goal.