Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform > Benchmark Young Adult School / Benchmark Transitions
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--- Quote from: ""exhausted"" ---I do wish my eldest was a complete bastard all the time though, it would make things so much easier, he's so lovely half the time, I'd prefer it if I could hate him, but no one can hate him, he's a devil sometimes but such a loving caring lad other times
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That's how most abusers are. When they secretly feel guilty they try to make up for it by being extra nice. It's a pretty standard pattern.
exhausted:
--- Quote from: ""Truth Searcher"" ---Honestly Exhausted ... you have some very serious boundary issues with these kids. If my older son was hitting my younger ones with golf clubs, I would have tossed his sorry ass out so fast he wouldn't know which end was up. Let him go back to jail for crying out loud. His behavior is criminal. It is abusive. You are teaching your oldest that his behavior is acceptable. You are teaching your younger children that it is OK to abuse smaller, weaker people.
You honestly would be better off to place your younger ones in foster care than to continue to allow them to live in such a hostile and volatile situation.
You don't have to put up with this. That is lie ... I might remind you that you are the parent, the adult, the one who pays the bills. To reiterate: throw his sorry ass out and let him fend for himself.
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In order to place your children in foster care, they have to agree to go - was told this only a few days ago, that is unless I remove myself from the hoouse and they will then be under neglect.....and yes you're right, they do think it's okay to treat me like the eldest - why wouldn't they? He gets away with it every time
I can't kick the eldest out!! Don't you think I would have done by now? The police were called last night on a 999 call and they wouldn't arrst him because they said it would mean them chasing round trying to find him....that was the result of me trying to kick him out, I got a belting off him, this lad is tough as they come and didn't hesitate to beat ten barrels out of me because he wasn't getting what he wanted when he wanted it.
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