Hi all
I must admit that I did not read everything on this thread before responding to you here. When I have more time, I will. Just wanted to say I sent my son to a Wilderness (for 6 weeks), then on to a TBS, and he graduated from high school (i was there for his graduation), and (he had dropped out of high school here, so he would not have graduated from high school), with almost all A's. He is not mad at me to this day. He told me that he knows why I did what I did, and that he was spinning out of control.
However I do want to say, that I think that the only thing he got out of all of this was that he was spinning out of control, he learned lots of things in the wilderness, and he is totally off drugs and he graduated from high school with high grades, however, he is back to gambling which should have been addressed more in counseling at the TBS and wasn't. All I can say is that he does admit that he is adicted to gambling, and the last month he went on a spending trip to CA with a "gambling friend", and spent thousands of $, and lost it all. He also neglected himself, and is a diabetic and wasn't taking his insulin and he finally called a relative who came and picked him up at the casino, and my son (18) was in really bad shape, dirty, and was taken to the ER, and his sugar level should not be over 180, and it was 668. If he had not been taken to the ER that day, they say his sugar level would have gotten higher since he was not taking his insulin and he would have soon, passed out and gone into a coma, and prob. died. So he realized what he had done to himself, but I know and he knows he is hooked on gambling. He is going to do counseling, but will this really help?
Just thought I would tell you our story.