Shelby, please don't read more into this than is there. Of course you didn't imply that Don is on staff or being treated as such or any other foolish thing.
However, MG did express some disapointment over Don's meeting with KHK staff without telling you. Don's response looked to me asif he thought he'd done something wrong or mean or made trouble for you or something.
I only wanted to point out that, organization or not, whatever his motives or anything else, I don't think the man should feel obliged to seek permission or to inform anyone but his wife what he does or who he talks to or why.
I was only trying to make Don feel better, not to wade into another brawl over nothing.
"I have seen the enemy. The enemy is us!", said Pogo.
Truth resides in every human heart, and one has to search for it there, and to be guided by truth as one sees it. But no one has a right to coerce others to act according to his own view of truth.
--Mohandas K. Gandhi