The whole time I was at Heritage I didn't come across a lot of my peers that were escorted there. I would say the majority were brought by their parents. As a kid nobody wants to be forced to do something or go somewhere they don't know. It's human nature, we'd rather do what we want, when we want, and how we want.
I ran away several times, and they had a team of people that went out and located me. They are responsible for you. What are you supposed to do, turn to the parents and shrug your shoulders and go geez I am really sorry we can't find your child, and their missing......here's a map, and good luck to you! Call us when you've found them.
I believe children should have rights, but you're treating them like adults that don't have a lot of life experience under their belts. They don't. Being on the run is scary, and you can get killed because you're so vulnerable. I don't approve when teens are tried as adults either in a court of law. It seems like just yesterday to me when I was a kid, and fucking up all the time. There was many reasons why I did it. Frusteration, to get attention, and just because I thought I knew what I was doing, but didn't.
They don't hand out referral fee's to my knowledge. They have one school, with plenty of good reputation backing it, and don't need to fill a massive amount of beds. They don't accept everyone. I do not believe they are like the other schools on this board. I talk to kids and ask them questions, and compare it to my experiences and I feel like I can say without losing a wink of sleep that it's a very good school.
I was one of their tougher cases, I physically abused the staff, and got into fights with other kids. Hell, I even bit a staff member once. She had to go to the hospital, and she lost feeling in her arm for a few months. There was no retaliation. There wasn't many of us there that did that sort of thing. Granted I was not like that when I first got there. It was only after a couple years that I got frusterated, and gave up. It was a 100% my parents fault, not Heritages. But, Heritage could not force my parents to take me home.
I will never convince the majority of people on here that placing children somewhere is ever exceptable. I realize that I am the minority. But, I don't give a shit. Really, I could care less. I pick and choose my battles. I know what I would like to see happen. I know certain programs that are abusive that need to be closed. This is not one of them, and it's not because I get kickbacks from them, or have decided to go to the other side and become an Ed Con. I say these things because parents come here looking for alternatives, and they have the money to send the kids away, and they're going to do it anyway. Why not speak up and say, if you absolutly must then I recommend so and so.
The sooner you realize that good programs for kids are here to stay, and you focus your energies to close all the ones that are abusive, then we might be doing some good around here.
Sorry, but as tired as you're getting of my shit, I am getting tired of yours too. But, whatever! A lot of us have known eachother for quite sometime now, and I respect you all having your own opinions. We are all different people with different experiences relating to all this!