pray more
watch a life get ruined by ever increasing intake of variety of mind-altering substances
put locks on everything of value in the house - lest it too get stolen
hope not to have to attend offspring's funeral
all this would have been after all tries at counseling, including parent involvement, therapy, alternative schools, and a long list of other things didn't stop the downward spiral
oh yeah, I read the advice about "being a parent". sometimes all that gets you is a right to ride the bus if you pay the fare