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Son in program, grandmother on death bed.
« on: October 03, 2006, 08:48:21 PM »
Hello Fornits. I am struggling with a ery tough decision and I need to make it in 72 hours. My son is urrently in the middle of his program. He was always close with his grandmother. She is dying. I told my son and he begged me to let come home until she is buried.I asked the program for their thoughts and the director said if I were to take him out on leave, the program would have no choice but to dismiss him. He reccemended I just send him a prayer card. What would you all do?
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« Reply #1 on: October 03, 2006, 08:52:52 PM »
Okay Troll, I'll bite.

Are you going allow the Director of a Program to make your decisions for you? You are the parent. You decide. The program loses your tuition if you fall for his empty threat. Tell him the boy will be spending some time with his grandmother and return to the program when you, the parent in charge, are ready to return him.

Hopefully, that day (the return) will never come.
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this should be a no brainer
« Reply #2 on: October 03, 2006, 09:07:55 PM »
Ok this should be a no brainer...if the school place thinks that he would lose THAT much ground for just a few weeks being gone....then pull him out. The school will always be there (maybe), Grandma wont. Just my opinion.
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« Reply #3 on: October 03, 2006, 09:24:54 PM »
Kid is trying to manipulate you. Do not let him, stop him. Don't send him a card, send him a letter stating you believe in his program 100%, and what staff say, goes. If your son believes in any way that you might take him home, he will not fully submit to his program. Make your intentions clear with action, you are not paying hard earned money for your son to enjoy a vacation.
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« Reply #4 on: October 03, 2006, 09:39:11 PM »
I'd give this one a 2.  Not even remotely plausible.
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« Reply #5 on: October 03, 2006, 09:56:01 PM »
2 is too much, especially after so many poor ones.  0.8 ... tops
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« Reply #6 on: October 03, 2006, 09:57:00 PM »
Hey, troll? It doesn't get better with more attempts. It just gets worse. Post something plausible or buzz off.
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« Reply #7 on: October 04, 2006, 09:22:49 AM »
Quote from: ""KarenInDallas""
Kid is trying to manipulate you. Do not let him, stop him. Don't send him a card, send him a letter stating you believe in his program 100%, and what staff say, goes. If your son believes in any way that you might take him home, he will not fully submit to his program. Make your intentions clear with action, you are not paying hard earned money for your son to enjoy a vacation.


ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR FREAKING MIND?  This whole 'manipulation' crap is just their way of getting you to keep shelling out several thousand a month to torture a kid and leave absolutely NO measurable results that wouldn't have occurred anyway with a little maturity.  You'd be so cruel as to not let a kid see his dying grandmother just so Litchfield (or whoever) can keep him from looking out a window to develope 'character'?  Newsflash-everyone manipulates everyone, to some extent.  Any type of request, bargain or even an order is manipulation.  You're the parent, let the kid come home to see her.  You might even like where he is now.  You really think Litchfield and company will turn down the tuition if you DO decide to return him?  I don't think so.

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« Reply #8 on: October 04, 2006, 09:30:22 AM »
Yeah, the smart kids are onto something. That's why they were stealing cars, doing drugs, blowing off their educations. Can't understand why we would want to redirect their efforts.
Once a family has exhausted therapy (these kids, by their own admission, can lie to and manipulate ANY therapist they are seeing once or twice a week), has no ability to impose consequences- what then, oh wise ones???
Adults who manipulate to get what they want are called manipulative, just as kids are. Manipulation is an abuse of trust. I'm sure all of you on this board would be such wonderful parents (not that many of you have actually had that experience) that you would NEVER be manipulated by your child and would NEVER believe his or her lies. Sorry the rest of us are such sub-par parents.
And, my brilliant Deborah, are you contending that these troubled teens are manipulative solely because their parents have taught them to be so?
You really have a high opinion of parents, don't you?
You are such an angry bitch.
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« Reply #9 on: October 04, 2006, 09:30:25 AM »
Don't fall for that KareninDallas posting.  It is someone trolling just to get you to bite, which you did.  There is no KareninDallas on this forum, just RobertBruce who registered the name.
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« Reply #10 on: October 04, 2006, 09:32:48 AM »
I have not been identified, but I feel sorry for the person you think I am.
What is the big deal about identifying people, anyway. It's not like YOU are brave enough to reveal your personal information. Who cares? It's a message forum. Do you really think you are all that important to the world?
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« Reply #11 on: October 04, 2006, 09:35:33 AM »
Of course we know who you are -- you stupid cunt! Why should I sign in when you only will sign in for one out of a hundred of your posts? We know you post here all day long for years, Karen. You are such a pathetic loser, go watch your son's porn or something!    :rofl:
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« Reply #12 on: October 04, 2006, 09:35:35 AM »
I am very important to the world.  I'm sorry you feel you need to impersonate a woman to feel important.  You tell ME what's the big deal about being identified since you go to great lengths to check IP addresses and expose people and reveal all their personal information.  Gee, why would anyone be reluctant to post their identity on here? Such considerate and mature folks.
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« Reply #13 on: October 04, 2006, 09:37:49 AM »
Quote from: ""Guest""
I am very important to the world.  I'm sorry you feel I want you to impersonate a woman to feel important.  You tell ME what's the big deal about being identified since you go to great lengths to check IP addresses and expose people and reveal all their personal information.  Gee, why would anyone be reluctant to post their identity on here? Such considerate and mature folks.


Oh boy, that last post was a great example of insightfulness and biting humor combined.   :roll:
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« Reply #14 on: October 04, 2006, 12:57:04 PM »
I LOVE the canned responses.  It's so funny because NO MATTER WHAT anyone posts, Karen has already made a statement that can be reposted.  That know-it-all bitch has provided a troll script that people can just quote from under any circumstance.  It is HILARIOUS.
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