Right now, we need to find an attorney, show him everything and start all over. The counselor with the photography interest is one of the better ones, I've heard from alumni.
I did say something to that effect earlier in the thread. I'm not out to demonify anyone. I believe some people thought linking two disparate occupations was questionable. It was used as leverage, and on that level, it seems to have caused something, good or bad, I don't know. That's the hell of it, is the absolute shut-down of information. You have to wonder if a child is even alive, and not being able to pick up a phone and talk to them or even get someone to give you a report with out having to bring outside agencies in is soul crushing.
Now to start the legal shit all over. I'm sick to fucking death of seeing my significant other be lied to, denied basic rights and left out of this "process" because of concerns about the facility. Without a doubt, it's been proven abusive and lacking in educational programs and even proper sanitation that would prevent things like E.Coli. I'm sick of the whole fucking business.