comments to zen agent... i was in the seed, long ago, i hope this will help.. first, those pictures you wife took are invaluable.. keep them, copy them, yse them judiciously...secondly, investigate 'age of majority" in your state.. third.. people are often more resilient than we think. just knowing that there is someone onher side is awe-fully important.. whn she's out, letting her talk about it,maybe not to you, and simply recognizing tht abuse of that kind iswas not her fault,or yours, and recognizing evil and malice for what it is, will go longway toward healing. now, may i address both you and 'what assumptions you make, sir" i am simply stunned that you would say that a sexually deviant interest, pronounced enough to be publically advertised by that individual has no bearing ? you don't need to know a damned thing about me yet i will tell you this. i have considerable experience dealing with crime and offenders at every level. i hold a clearance. i've spent years in classes and workshops pertaining to violence, domestic and otherwise. i am eligible for state licensure as a therapist. if anyone under my authority had exhibited such interest publicly, and was in ANY position of authority. i would have them removed.. and you may liberally intepret 'removed"