*** This applies across the board to any parent who trusted their childs care to a neighbor, school teacher, baby sitter, uncle. If something happened to that child they would regret ever entrusting their child to any of these people, strangers who defrauded them and had no vested interest in their Childs well-being..
And you can bet that anywhere else in the civilized world, there would be criminal charges filed for any civilian that treated a child the way they are treated in programs.
***My point was that kids need to earn their privileges be it at school or at home or in life. You may label it as abusive, if you must, but one needs to apply it across the board.
Earning privileges is not necessarily a bad thing, depending on how it?s handled. And, no, we're not applying it across any board, because here in the real world only criminals treat kids with such utter disrespect. Only a sadist would consider contact with a parent a 'privilege'.
Kids are not earning ?privileges? in programs. They are loosing their rights, just like a criminal, and regain and loose them daily, based on their level of cooperation with their captors.
***If they are given everything for free without consequence you threaten their very self esteem. Kids need to earn and accomplish and achieve.
This doesn?t make sense. Kids shouldn?t be given everything without any ?effort?, not consequence. I don't include necessities in that category. Salt and fire to cook your raw grains and beans are considered necessities to anyone in the civilized world. Toiletries, toilet paper, human touch, taking a shit in privacy, etc etc etc are not 'privileges' to be earned. And denying a child's basic needs does not build self-esteem, not in program land or the real world.
Are you an Ed Con, Who?