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I lost my virginity at Hyde.
Anonymous:
I thought of the poor girl tonight who went to Hyde and wrote about loosing her virginity.
On the news was a report about a young girl who traveled from California to DC on a plane to visit her father. There was a young man who was prosecuted for gropping her on the overnight flight! Of course the first question was, "why didn't you scream or let the flight attendant know what was being done to you at the time."
This young girl explained how she went into a state of shock and how she didn't know what to do or how to respond. She was paralized. Once the young man left the seat next to her she told the flight attendant what had happened. The man was arrested and found guilty. There were many passengers who had heard him say previously that he wanted to do sexual things to her.
I don't think a male can understand the panic state of mind this girl went through. It is amazing how some people posted messages saying that if she didn't want it to happen she should have spoken up. This reminded me of the female Hyde student who is posting on this site. Although she did not stop the sexual encounter, she did not want it but didn't know how to respond. This insecure young girl who had a poor self image was taken advantage of by a very secure young man who then tried to make her look like she wanted it.
To the girl who posted, don't blame yourself. If you haven't been able to deal with it, go seek counseling. I feel so badly that your father took your Mother's life insurance money and placed you at a school that was not capable of handling your problems or looking after the well being of the students. The school knew this and needs to take responsibility. Your father should try to plead with the school or the NEASC to get your tuition back. I am sure your Mother would have wanted this money spent on your future not on something wasteful like Hyde.
Anonymous:
so she should get her money back because she always wanted to fool around with this guy and let it happen, before she knew she didn't want to.
Hey I feel really bad for this girl, no one should be taken advantage like that, but is Hyde responsible for this? Go after Hunter *Bob's family!
Anonymous:
--- Quote ---On 2006-05-11 03:53:00, Anonymous wrote:
"so she should get her money back because she always wanted to fool around with this guy and let it happen, before she knew she didn't want to.
Hey I feel really bad for this girl, no one should be taken advantage like that, but is Hyde responsible for this? Go after Hunter *Bob's family!"
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Hyde should not enroll students who have severe psychological problems unless they have an on site licensed Psychologist, which they don't. Hyde's "one size fits all" is not appropriate and hurts more than it helps. This girl never should have been in a school like Hyde and Hyde never should have accepted her.
Anonymous:
--- Quote ---On 2006-05-11 20:56:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2006-05-11 03:53:00, Anonymous wrote:
"so she should get her money back because she always wanted to fool around with this guy and let it happen, before she knew she didn't want to.
Hey I feel really bad for this girl, no one should be taken advantage like that, but is Hyde responsible for this? Go after Hunter *Bob's family!"
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Hyde should not enroll students who have severe psychological problems unless they have an on site licensed Psychologist, which they don't. Hyde's "one size fits all" is not appropriate and hurts more than it helps. This girl never should have been in a school like Hyde and Hyde never should have accepted her. "
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I'm all in favor of adolescents learning how to accept responsibility for their decisions and actions. But, anyone who has ANY close contact with Hyde knows that it is notorious for accepting tons of students who walk in the door with very substantial mental health struggles, diagnoses and challenges (and with Hyde's rumored enrollment problems, the pressure to accept these kids probably increases). No one should be surprised that so many kids have problems like this at Hyde. They're dealing with things like depression, suicidal thoughts, eating disorders, cutting, etc. and Hyde assumes that it's "character education" model is what they need. That's plain naive. Character education, implemented by staff who have proper training and know what they're doing, is a fine model for kids whose problems are mainly character related. But how can you expect all these Hyde students who have major mental health problems to function well at Hyde with its model that is designed for a different kind of kid? I agree wholeheartedly with the person whose post said Hyde never should have accepted this student in the first place. If Hyde wants to accept all these students with major mental health problems, Hyde needs to completely redesign its model, hire a very different kind of staff, and all that so that it can provide these kids with the mental health services they need. Admitting these students to Hyde is a set-up, a disaster waiting to happen.
Anonymous:
--- Quote ---I'm all in favor of adolescents learning how to accept responsibility for their decisions and actions. But, anyone who has ANY close contact with Hyde knows that it is notorious for accepting tons of students ......
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How many students to the ton? 10? 20?
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