On 2003-09-08 16:21:00, hedwigfan wrote:
"I never heard of anyone being forced to have an abortion in Atlanta. However, any young woman who was bleeding outside her normal period should have received an immediate medical evaluation.
I know of two; one in Sarasota and one possible in The Seed in Ft. Lauderdale.
One day in Group, a girl who'd split and stayed gone for around a month or two got stood up by staff. While 20 years later I can't remember the exact words used to tell the story, this is what I remember.
They asked her about her boyfriend and why he was not in her best interest. They asked her if there was anything more she wanted to say about that and she said no. So they asked her about the pregnancy and abortion she'd just had. She still didn't want to talk about it, she just cried. So they asked her if she understood it was all her fault for getting pregnant in the first place and to say that the abortion had been the best thing to do. I don't remember what she said or how she said it. I just remember her crying and my realizing what the fuck these lunatics were talking about.
The other girl in The Seed was someone I knew prior to and after the Program. The prosedure was done in a hospital without the girl's consent or knowledge until after the fact. They told her there was something wrong and they had to perform some procedure. They didn't tell her they'd taken the baby till a few days later.
We're not talking about spontanious abortion here. We're talking about surgicaly removing a healthy baby against the mother's will.
I agree that no one should tell such information without the victim's permission. I wish both of these ladies would think more of the girls in these programs today and less about those people in their lives who can't stand the difficult moments. But it's not my choice.
You can lead a camel to water but you can't make it stink (any more than it already does)
-- Job
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