You must be real good at your job! !st of all you are an idiot to have given a can and not a plastic bottle. I do the same job and you never give a can to a kid, for many reasons.
As for you getting any kind of understanding from this board, it will not happen. They will just go off on you. I have talked with these people before. Just do your job, know what you are doing is right and don't concern yourself with comments from these boards, where only a handful of the posters seem to have been through any kind of program. But I on the other hand have and know what most of these children are going through because i was there at one time in my life. They already hate me on this board, they will hate you too bob.
The One Who Cares