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Offline Nihilanthic

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« Reply #30 on: May 02, 2006, 02:58:00 PM »
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I have nailed the windows shut, put deadbolts on the doors and I sleep in front of her door on the floor, but she still manages to get past me and out the door. I could chain her to the bed, but I'd be arrested for child abuse.


You people are fucking idiots. This is a troll.
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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

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« Reply #31 on: May 02, 2006, 03:05:00 PM »
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On 2006-05-02 11:45:00, CCM girl 1989 wrote:

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On 2006-05-02 10:56:00, Anonymous wrote:


"This entire thread is trollbait. Complete bullshit. "




Exactly, or else I wouldn't be being a total sarcastic bitch!"


It may be hard to believe, but there are many parents facing the situation which was described here.  The poster may or may not be telling the truth, as you insinuate, but the situation is real for many people who may be ?lurking in the shadows? for advice.  This is a good opportunity to help a family(s) make the right decision for their child and I think the feedback has been constructive, for the most part and helpful.  The perception, here at formits (for many),seems to be that most of the kids in TBS and wilderness programs are there because they smoked pot, but it just isn?t true, many of the problems run deeper like the one described here.  If there is a chance that the poster is real we should try to help guide her a little to make a wise decision for her family.
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« Reply #32 on: May 02, 2006, 03:06:00 PM »
Really, Nihilanthic, have you had any experience with an out of control 12 year old girl?  It doesn't sound like bullshit to me at all.
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« Reply #33 on: May 02, 2006, 03:10:00 PM »
It's bullshit.
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« Reply #34 on: May 02, 2006, 03:21:00 PM »
That wasn't the question.  My question for Nihilanthic is this: do you have any expereince raising, teaching or treating an out of control 12 year old girl like the one mentioned below.  Yes, SHE may be fictional but there are millions of them out there.  I'm new to Fornits and, I'm just wondering, with over 1600 posts under your belt, where/how exactly did you become an expert on this subject?[ This Message was edited by: wild fig on 2006-05-02 12:21 ]
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« Reply #35 on: May 02, 2006, 03:29:00 PM »
One more question- this one for CCM: Did you or did you not post your own stories on this site?  It hardly seems different to me at all...or do survivor stories make one a martyr around here.  I'm just trying to learn the "culture" of Fornits.[ This Message was edited by: wild fig on 2006-05-02 12:31 ]
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« Reply #36 on: May 02, 2006, 03:47:00 PM »
Yes, I have posted my own personal experiences with Heritage School and Cross Creek Manor on here.....so what? And the great thing about fornits is, if you want to check them out everything is archived.

So, if you are really curious about my history with fornits or my 4 years of incarceration from the ages of 12-16......then look it up yourself.

I still stand by my first gut instinct. You may entertain this person if you would like, but I choose to believe the are full of shit.
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f you were never in a program, or a parent of a child in a program, then you have no business posting here.

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« Reply #37 on: May 02, 2006, 03:51:00 PM »
No, I really don't want to know what you did as much as you don't want to hear this woman's story.  I'm just wondering why it's OK for you to bear your soul and post your history but then she gets ridiculed for doing the same.  I can understand why you (since you had a bad experience) might attack a program parent but she isn't one -yet.  Alienating her might send her away before both sides of the story are revealed to her.  Get it?
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« Reply #38 on: May 02, 2006, 03:52:00 PM »
I'd have to go with CCM
This stinks of Trollshit.
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« Reply #39 on: May 02, 2006, 04:36:00 PM »
Okay, first of all I have a username. I never post ANON, and I have a long history with fornits.  

Okay, what mom  nails her daughters windows shut, uses padlocks, sleeps with her matress up against this girls bedroom door, and the daughter still manages to get out???

If this is true........this girl shouldn't be whoring herself out, she should be the next fucking Houdini.
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f you were never in a program, or a parent of a child in a program, then you have no business posting here.

Offline Nihilanthic

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« Reply #40 on: May 02, 2006, 05:13:00 PM »
Just stop replying and theyll go away. Posting replies is what they want.
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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

CCMGirl on program restraints: "DON\'T TAZ ME BRO!!!!!"

TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."

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« Reply #41 on: May 02, 2006, 05:24:00 PM »
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On 2006-05-02 14:13:00, Nihilanthic wrote:

"Just stop replying and theyll go away. Posting replies is what they want."


Its a forum, its what everyone wants isnt it?

very strange, who is this guy?
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« Reply #42 on: May 02, 2006, 05:30:00 PM »
Who are "they."  I came on just to read about this stuff-not in crisis-and I'm just asking a few questions.  I'm not nor have I ever been a program parent- but I did have a hellish time raising daughters that are now grown.  I guess this means that you won't be answering my questions Nihilanthic.  Is it because you don't have any answers?  I didn't come here to plug a program and I was just pointing out that your childishness is letting "them" win.  I appreciate your answers CCM and was not in anyway abusing you for posting your experiences. It's obvious that you have much more to say than Nihilanthic because you (at the very least)have been there.  Some people, like me, are interested in what you have to say preferably without the sarcasm.  I don't know where he's coming from.
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« Reply #43 on: May 02, 2006, 05:32:00 PM »
Sorry, but only programmies use the words "in crisis", and the rest of your posts clearly mark you as yet another programmie troll.

Fail.
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« Reply #44 on: May 02, 2006, 05:33:00 PM »
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On 2006-05-02 13:36:00, CCM girl 1989 wrote:

"Okay, first of all I have a username. I never post ANON, and I have a long history with fornits.  



Okay, what mom  nails her daughters windows shut, uses padlocks, sleeps with her matress up against this girls bedroom door, and the daughter still manages to get out???



If this is true........this girl shouldn't be whoring herself out, she should be the next fucking Houdini.



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Sorry I didn't mean that I thought you were trolling, but that i agreed with you that the OP was trolling.
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see the children with their boredom and their vacant stares. God help us all if we\'re to blame for their unanswered prayers,

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