Thank You again, and I meant to say your post not email...It sounded nice and concerned, and I have ran into a lot of "sorry can not help..she committed the crime & now she has to pay" or hire a lawyer...and I have tried, but when all this happened I tried to get dcf to arrest my ex my daughters dad...needless to say he is gone from here, But Not arrested!! and lawyers don't want to work on payment plans.They don't belive my daughter!
My daughter was 14 1/2 years old when she started acting out, she was always proud that she was a virgin and wanted to stay that way untill marriage, but all of a sudden I started finding out that she was seeing a boy, now she was not allowed to date so I couldn't figure out how she was able to see any boy. She was homeschooled most of her life and her and I went to church, she was adopted at birth by myself and I have always told her she was my special gift from God and she still is. At 15 she tore her daddys truck with a hammer,flower pot & a brick. This was Not like her, she has always been a good girl and Not violent. When I tried to stop her she shoved me backwards. She was arrested put on probation. I talked to her over & over asking "What was going on with her...had anyone messed with her ..and I asked if her dad had ever touched her, she said no. A few weeks later she was washing dishes and her and her dad was arguing and he went toward her, she turned around and the pot she was washing caught his arm...he was Not hurt, but the police report was written up that she attacked him with a deadly weapon! I did not know that until we was standing in court and the judge read it. My daughter & myself looked at each other and tried to tell them that was Not true. It didn't matter they didn't listen. I agreed to a 30 day Christian program,(this program is Not Christian based or any faith based) because they said she could get 7 years!! This for a child that had Never been in any trouble! Once she was sentenced, about 2 or 3 weeks later they told me it was a 4 to 6 mos. program, but my daughter would not be in there that long. I cried, begged,pleaded but they said No. She needed to be in the program because of the sexual abuse. After about a month they said they knew kids and parents were lied to a lot about the time they would be in the program. Every time I tried to do something or to talk to them about her time ...her time gets longer. We were just told last week she will be in there for a least 12 to 14 mos. before they will even consider letting her go to the transition , which is another 6mos.. My Daughter is about to fall apart and so am I. I get to see her once every 6 weeks. My daughter gets nothing but good reports from there. she has completed her Master Treatment Plan, they state she is helpful, kind and tries to keep the peace in her group. There are other girls that have gotten their time reduced, some by getting their felony reduced to a misdemeanor, but I can't afford a lawyer unless it is on payment plan. I have FMS and have really gotten sick these last few months. I had started a cleaning service about a year and a half a go and some really big accounts, some of them were famous people, I was so proud of myself because I had always depended on the thing i was married to but since all this has happened to my baby girl I only have one , but important client left, I just was to sick to do the work so it is impossible to hire a lawyer
My Precious Daughter is in control of a place that I have No faith in, while her sorry father is somewhere in Florida living life up...I did have the boy that was with my daughter arrested. It was her father that was taking her out to get high, drunk, he would pick up this boy to be with my daughter get them high and so much more sick stuff, and he molested our Daughter!! That scum bag (I apologize for using slang words) has Never even been questioned! It tore my heart into when I found all of this out.
There is even more heartbreaking things, but I know this is already to long. If you are anyone can just guide me in what to do for
