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SHH:
I believe you misunderstood that post. I didnt mean "We" as in I. I am an only child. I meant "We" as in our generation in general. I am not condoning being beaten with anything. I was whacked on the hand with rulers in school. And at one school the principal had a ping pong paddle he used for unruly kids. This was a public school by the way. But I do think that kids today have a skewed view sometimes of what is abuse and what isnt at times. Being made to do work around the house is not abuse. Being made to listen to your parents is not abuse. I cant tell you how many times I see kids in a store who have total control over their parents and do whatever the hell they want running around the store, whining, crying, screaming, hitting their parents, being brats in general. Anybody watch the Nanny show lately? If the parents take control of the situation when they are toddlers, and make sure the kids know their paremeters and the rules of the house at an early age, they do much better in the outside world. I dont spank my son, but I am firm with him. I have been firm with him since he was little. And he always does what I ask, says please and thank you, is polite to everyone, stays in his seat at restaurants, does well in school, and very helpful around the house. He also is a normal child in that he complains and whines sometimes, but not nearly as bad as kids who knew no boundaries as a toddler. That is what I think needs to happen. Parents think they are doing a favor to kids by giving into their every whim because they want to make their kids happy. But they are doing the kids an injustice by doing that. The world is not their oyster. They have to live in it with everybody else and respect other people.
Anonymous:
Devin?
Troll Control:
--- Quote ---On 2006-02-08 14:20:00, juniper2 wrote:
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On 2006-01-26 22:25:00, juniper2 wrote:
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Why does HLA still continue to insist that they do not have 'court -ordered children? And, please
don't play semantics..
Did they get rid of the 'Fall-out' book?
Did they stop having the children carry
boulders around on restrictions? THe front landscaping has been complete for ages...
Have they cleaned up the lower left field?
Is a frightened child's word still 'manipulation?
Oh, and by the way, Academia..Have you all figured out whether you have a Science Lab yet?
Has HLA gotten rid of every teacher, nurse and counselor that got too close to the children
and were honest with the parents..?
Any answers, respectfully of-course....Oh, and if anyone wants to know who "Truth' is...Private
message me...I have a strong feeling. 'Could be
wrong, but I doubt it...
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HLA TRUTH ..Now that you are back, could you please address these questions??? Why will no one at HLA answer a direct question about the court-Ordered children on campus. It is factual, we all know it, the children know it, most of the parents know it, what it the problem??"
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STILL waiting patiently for some answers... ::bangin:: ::bangin:: ::bangin:: ::bangin:: ::bangin::
RobertBruce:
--- Quote ---On 2006-02-09 05:59:00, SHH wrote:
"I believe you misunderstood that post. I didnt mean "We" as in I. I am an only child. I meant "We" as in our generation in general. I am not condoning being beaten with anything. I was whacked on the hand with rulers in school. And at one school the principal had a ping pong paddle he used for unruly kids. This was a public school by the way. But I do think that kids today have a skewed view sometimes of what is abuse and what isnt at times. Being made to do work around the house is not abuse. Being made to listen to your parents is not abuse. I cant tell you how many times I see kids in a store who have total control over their parents and do whatever the hell they want running around the store, whining, crying, screaming, hitting their parents, being brats in general. Anybody watch the Nanny show lately? If the parents take control of the situation when they are toddlers, and make sure the kids know their paremeters and the rules of the house at an early age, they do much better in the outside world. I dont spank my son, but I am firm with him. I have been firm with him since he was little. And he always does what I ask, says please and thank you, is polite to everyone, stays in his seat at restaurants, does well in school, and very helpful around the house. He also is a normal child in that he complains and whines sometimes, but not nearly as bad as kids who knew no boundaries as a toddler. That is what I think needs to happen. Parents think they are doing a favor to kids by giving into their every whim because they want to make their kids happy. But they are doing the kids an injustice by doing that. The world is not their oyster. They have to live in it with everybody else and respect other people. "
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Lady you are so full of shit. "We as in our generation"? Give us a fucking break. Can I have your home address cause Id like to send you a picture of this bridge I own that Id be happy to sell you. Seriously you try to cover your own bullshit and tracks with all the skill of a three year old. The one thing I cant decide is whether or not youre just that naive or just that stupid.
Oh and again the fact that you married two people with strong ties to the BM industry suggest you do have a thing for child abuse stories, plus the fact that youre still here always eager to hear more stories lend creedence to this.
Short Bus:
Whats up Brucey..
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