Ah, but you'd be surprised to know how many do come here and read. Most of them never post, they just take in all of the info. A few of us have been contacted by some of them to say they in fact DID change they're minds and decided not to place they're kids with the places or they've pulled them out if they were already there. You can believe it or not, really makes no difference to me. I know it for a fact as I'm one of the ones who's been personally contacted. Makes my day whenever it happens.
