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« Reply #15 on: December 30, 2005, 10:45:00 PM »
For those who are not aware, the ads I am talking about are the text based ad units located at the top of this forum that say ?Ads by Google? on the left. These ads are automatically generated by the text on the page the ad is displayed on. So, as an example, the thread titled ?illegal things at WWASP? returned the following 5 text link options:

1) Sleep Away Camps
2) Boarding Schools
3) Troubled Teens
4) Juvenile Boot Camps
5) Cross Creek Manor

If you click on any of those they bring you to a page that lists links to behavior modification programs and EDCONS that many of us disagree with.

Ginger, I started this thread and I am sorry if it sounded like I was attacking you. I just strongly disagree with your decision to place these ads on your site. I have a real problem with Lon of strugglingteens choice to advertise such programs as WWASP, and you are doing the same by putting Google ads on your site.

I never was suggesting you would have a membership or a fee. Why not put a donate link at the top of each page?
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« Reply #16 on: December 30, 2005, 10:49:00 PM »
She explains her reasons here and is welcoming all comments and discussion.

http://fornits.com/wwf/viewtopic.php?to ... =10#159938
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« Reply #17 on: December 31, 2005, 12:01:00 AM »
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If you click on any of those they bring you to a page that lists links to behavior modification programs and EDCONS that many of us disagree with.

Or, if you're looking at the web forum hosting forum, there are ads for geek wear. If you're looking at hot topics, lately, there are ads for term papers and other junk. I keep seeing ads for free forum hosting. Doesn't bother me. The more the merrier. Less load on my server and more diversity in the marketplace of ideas.

In a free market, good ideas thrive and bad ones suffer. That's my gambit right there. Always has been. So now I'm testing it in nearby new waters.

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Ginger, I started this thread and I am sorry if it sounded like I was attacking you. I just strongly disagree with your decision to place these ads on your site.

Oh, no need to apologize at all! But please be responsive to my answers and questions. I think I made a pretty good argument toward overcoming some of the objections and now I want you to further support them.

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I have a real problem with Lon of strugglingteens choice to advertise such programs as WWASP, and you are doing the same by putting Google ads on your site.

Different in two regards that I can think of. If the book Come Clean turns up in a google ad, it'll turn up here. If Help at Any Cost by Maia Szalavitz has an ad, it'll be there.

Lon only accepts ads from private payors. I don't think he could afford to let in a random sampling of what the market reflects.

People around here will buy those books. But you couln't pay us to take private teen gulags. We're not buying. Do you think a prospective mark stands a better chance coming out of the encounter unscathed if they come accross the pitch here or somewhere else?

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I never was suggesting you would have a membership or a fee. Why not put a donate link at the top of each page?

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No, that was someone else's suggestion "why don't you pay the bills, then." And I don't want to panhandle. I've had to do that just once for this site, that's quite enough for me, thanks. Just ... distasteful to me, ya know? But I'll earn it and I'll earn it honestly or I'll see it through to bust and do something else.

O senseless man, who cannot possibly make a worm and yet will make Gods by the dozen!
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« Reply #18 on: December 31, 2005, 12:06:00 AM »
RFornit (12:02:36 AM): Oh, to be a fly on the wall first time someone calls up a WWASP hotline and says "well, I found your ad on this site called fornits? This is an escort service, right? Well..."  :rofl:

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« Reply #19 on: December 31, 2005, 01:19:00 AM »
I'm moving this to web forum hosting w/ the rest of the conversation. I'll leave a bread crumb trail back to here.

Everybody needs beauty as well as bread, places to play in and pray in, where nature may heal and give strength to body and soul alike.
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« Reply #20 on: December 31, 2005, 06:44:00 AM »
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"In a free market, good ideas thrive and bad ones suffer. That's my gambit right there. Always has been. So now I'm testing it in nearby new waters.
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People around here will buy those books. But you couln't pay us to take private teen gulags. We're not buying. Do you think a prospective mark stands a better chance coming out of the encounter unscathed if they come accross the pitch here or somewhere else?
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And I don't want to panhandle. I've had to do that just once for this site, that's quite enough for me, thanks. Just ... distasteful to me, ya know? But I'll earn it and I'll earn it honestly or I'll see it through to bust and do something else."


Sorry to be dense here, but which "free market" are you referring to exactly? Are you talking about U.S. economics or an idea about the free market of ideas on fornits, or what?

"People around here", "us", "we're"...  Gosh Ginger, you're starting to scare me...

Let's think carefully about this idea that panhandling is less honest than propagating propaganda, if I have you right there.
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« Reply #21 on: December 31, 2005, 11:29:00 AM »
I'll admit, I'm mostly a lurker around here.  I come here often to "hear" what's going on and try to remember that I'm not crazy and that what I experienced at one of these "schools" was far from okay.  I'm also an idealist.  And the idealist in me can't support a site that supports, in a round about way, the very programs that caused me so much harm.  I wish everyone well, especially Ginger, who has made such a lasting impact in my recovery by providing this forum.  Ginger, if you ever get past the "panhandling" guilt, I'll be the first in line to plunk down a few bucks.  Thanks again for everything.
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« Reply #22 on: December 31, 2005, 01:16:00 PM »
Of course, you're still just as welcome as ever to lurk and/or contribute.

It's not that I don't care what you think, I do. I just disagree with your premise. I don't think that those ads appearing in this context equate to helping or supporting the industry, even in a round about way. I think it'll backfire. I think they'll either demand from the ad providers (Google, in this case) a way to filter this site out of their allowed context or they'll just have to go on paying me.

And I think the faithful opposition is pretty much shooting itself in the foot by counting themselves out of the market. Why cede the entire economy to the bad guys? Why disallow yourself your birthright, as an American, to control that portion of the economy that you can gain without force or fraud? Taking a vow of poverty makes about as much sense as the Shakers' silly notion about lifetime celibacy. What, never heard of the Shakers? Well, it wasn't such a good idea after all.

If I spent lots of time and money and made my life an open book to sue them to get that money out of them, would that be better? I don't see how. If a thousand or three of us were to put ads in all of our private websites, we could accomplish the same thing without any coercion, stress or trouble. And it's fun, too!

There's something to the argument about repetition, brand familiarity and impressions. But it's not the WHOLE thing. Why do you think the industry spends so much time, money and energy on slapp suits? If all publicity were good publicity, why would they do that? They may be crazy but they ain't dumb. They do it because they have to in order to control the message. Well, I think this boneheaded move of mine will help to throw a little healthy chaos into that. If branding in negative context is just the same as promotional advertising, then how come those ad council ads against smoking are so damned effective?

So, I'm willing to take my chances, suffer the slings and arrows, be the guinea pig and see what happens with this.

It continues to amaze me to talk to law students -- college
graduates all and smarter than the average bear -- who will
seriously tell me about how dangerous mj is and how it
destroys the lives of those who use it and who, in the
very next sentence, will tell me how they and their
friends -- now CPAs, engineers, med students -- used
pot regularly through high school and college.  And
they don't see the contradiction between these statements.

We're not just talking ignorance here -- we are talking
deep down, serious, religious indoctrination.


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« Reply #23 on: January 03, 2006, 03:23:00 PM »
Many of us have brought up the issue of the online marketing web of WWASP and other larger program networks.

View a list of many WWASP related sites at: http://www.tbfight.com/wwasp/index.php? ... 3&Itemid=2

WWASP has a huge network of sites like some elaborate porn network and all your ads do is contribute to this trap for desperate parents.

How is it not a problem when a parent seeking information and help for their child is directed to a programs web site through this web site, and possibly thinks that web site is credible because they were referred through this web site?

Ginger I don?t understand your reasoning at all.

?I think they'll either demand from the ad providers (Google, in this case) a way to filter this site out of their allowed context or they'll just have to go on paying me.?

Why would companies like WWASP etc. want to filter out ads on this site?? This site helps expose the truth about these programs (up until someone clicks on a google ad and is lead to some marketing site that feeds them nothing but bullshit and lies). This site is like the last stop on the train for a parent seeking info, and if they?re lead off to some for profit referral site, what good is this site? Who cares how much your making, that 0.73 cent click might make a company like WWASP $60,000 for a year of tuition.

So what if that 0.73 cent click from this site was the contributing factor to having Billy sent off to some program in Texas where he endures 2 years of hell.

NOT WORTH IT!
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« Reply #24 on: January 03, 2006, 07:25:00 PM »
Ok, explain to me the essential, vital difference between WWASP advertising on Fornits and WWASP hiring Crackhead Bob as their marketing director.

The Christian God can be easily pictured as virtually the same as the many ancient gods of past civilizations. The Christian god is a three headed monster; cruel, evil and capricious. If one wishes to know more of this raging, three headed, beast-like god, one only needs to look at the caliber of the people who say they serve him. The are always of two classes: fools and hypocrites.
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« Reply #25 on: January 03, 2006, 08:45:00 PM »
The difference is, is that you care about the abusive/corrupt troubled teen help industry and Crackhead Bob doesn?t. What you do have in common though is that you?re helping WWASP make money while they ruin a child life.
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« Reply #26 on: January 03, 2006, 09:25:00 PM »
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 you?re helping WWASP make money while they ruin a child life.


I'm not at all convinced of that. I think I'm hurting their chances, quite frankly. Just hunker and watch and see what happens.

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« Reply #27 on: January 03, 2006, 10:39:00 PM »
Turns out advertisers can exclude sites already.
https://adwords.google.com/support/bin/ ... tx=sibling

And, judging by the ones that are and aren't showing up, it looks to me asif they've been excluding this site. Also looks like they're biding top dollar on the particular keywords. My cost per 1k impressions went from well over $2 on day one down to .08 today. But we're getting a better class of ads, I think.

Based on this, I'd highly recomend anybody w/ a web page about the industry watch this issue closely. If it keeps going the right way, ya'll might consider doing google ads. The industry will kick you off w/ high rates till they notice then they'll have to filter each offensive site out by name. There could be thousands.

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« Reply #28 on: January 04, 2006, 01:27:00 AM »
I noticed Greatful Dead ads on  the Let it Bleed thread.  :tup:
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« Reply #29 on: January 04, 2006, 12:46:00 PM »
Yeah, and tbfight.com has an ad too.

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