Folks, if we can remove the anger and judgement from this discussion, and let go of being 'right,' then perhaps we can see things from both sides. I don't like to use the word 'cult,' because it is such a loaded word, like racism. On the other hand, the characteristics of cults are certainly something to be aware of with any group that I associate myself with.
But - but! Why did the Seed exist? And why so many programs today? Because there is a need, real or perceived. There is something wrong with growing up in America today, and parents are scared while kids are unhappy.
So let's figure out what it is that is missing, and try to supply in our own families and society. And if you tell me it's just a lack of love or attention, well maybe, but even kids from happy families get screwed up.
Sometimes I think Ginger and Greg too will rub people's faces in the 'c' word, hoping that they will say, 'alright, alright - the Seed was a cult!' Not going to happen - certainly not for Maggie and Ft. Lauderdale, who had positive experiences (and I have no reason to doubt - I know Ft. Lauderdale and he is a kind, intelligent person). Look, my brother and sister swear by AA, and I have read all of the anti-AA literature, and I agree with it, but I have no arguments for the fact that it did work for them, and that they feel that it was needed and successful. So I have to respect their experience. Although I do disagree, why should I try to make them agree with me? We can share our own experiences and let the chips fall where they may. Merry Christmas!