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Former students - Our worst experiences
Anonymous:
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---i am in college, and have been. i spent three years at hyde. forgive any gramatical errors because i am horrible gramaticly.
i don't consider it treatment at all. Most kids are just whiney(i was also) and so they tend to exagerate a little.
i agree that it isn't a place that people with drug addictions sould go. they belong in a facility with proper treatment and not just A.A. I am not discounting the sobriety program because i have seen it save lives.
I have had friends with drug problems and this school has helped to give me the confidence to step up to tehm and put the friendship on the line.
Also teh way that brothers keeper is defined in the school is not realistic in the real world. there is no way that someone is going to run to their boss to tell them that another employee stole a pen, or paper. that is not the "essence" of brothers keeper. BK is more of looking out for people arpound you and halping them to lead productive lives.
i won't be saintly and pretend that all my friends live amazing productive lives but also there is a point when I want you to let people fail on their own. when I want you to remove all the training wheels and let them fail and then get back up on their own. most of these kids that go to hyde also have their parents still wanting to hold on the training wheels still. when all they really need to do is let tehm fail on their own and learn to ask for help. to know their limits
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Something is very fishy about the above posting. You are in college but you can't spell easy words? Sorry, but I really don't trust that you are who you say you are. Then again you say you spent three years at Hyde and you can't spell or write......hmmmmm.....not saying much about the scholastics at Hyde!!
Anonymous:
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---i am in college, and have been. i spent three years at hyde. forgive any gramatical errors because i am horrible gramaticly.
i don't consider it treatment at all. Most kids are just whiney(i was also) and so they tend to exagerate a little.
i agree that it isn't a place that people with drug addictions sould go. they belong in a facility with proper treatment and not just A.A. I am not discounting the sobriety program because i have seen it save lives.
I have had friends with drug problems and this school has helped to give me the confidence to step up to tehm and put the friendship on the line.
Also teh way that brothers keeper is defined in the school is not realistic in the real world. there is no way that someone is going to run to their boss to tell them that another employee stole a pen, or paper. that is not the "essence" of brothers keeper. BK is more of looking out for people arpound you and halping them to lead productive lives.
i won't be saintly and pretend that all my friends live amazing productive lives but also there is a point when I want you to let people fail on their own. when I want you to remove all the training wheels and let them fail and then get back up on their own. most of these kids that go to hyde also have their parents still wanting to hold on the training wheels still. when all they really need to do is let tehm fail on their own and learn to ask for help. to know their limits
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Something is very fishy about the above posting. You are in college but you can't spell easy words? Sorry, but I really don't trust that you are who you say you are. Then again you say you spent three years at Hyde and you can't spell or write......hmmmmm.....not saying much about the scholastics at Hyde!!
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Many people have difficulty spelling. I am among them. I have a measured IQ in the 140 range, have an engineering degree magna cum, etc, etc. I have a hard time spelling. Big deal. We are not submitting english papers to sumner hawley. We are exchanging thoughts about hyde. If the only wak thing you can come up with is ripping some one for spelling .......
Anonymous:
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---i am in college, and have been. i spent three years at hyde. forgive any gramatical errors because i am horrible gramaticly.
i don't consider it treatment at all. Most kids are just whiney(i was also) and so they tend to exagerate a little.
i agree that it isn't a place that people with drug addictions sould go. they belong in a facility with proper treatment and not just A.A. I am not discounting the sobriety program because i have seen it save lives.
I have had friends with drug problems and this school has helped to give me the confidence to step up to tehm and put the friendship on the line.
Also teh way that brothers keeper is defined in the school is not realistic in the real world. there is no way that someone is going to run to their boss to tell them that another employee stole a pen, or paper. that is not the "essence" of brothers keeper. BK is more of looking out for people arpound you and halping them to lead productive lives.
i won't be saintly and pretend that all my friends live amazing productive lives but also there is a point when I want you to let people fail on their own. when I want you to remove all the training wheels and let them fail and then get back up on their own. most of these kids that go to hyde also have their parents still wanting to hold on the training wheels still. when all they really need to do is let tehm fail on their own and learn to ask for help. to know their limits
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Something is very fishy about the above posting. You are in college but you can't spell easy words? Sorry, but I really don't trust that you are who you say you are. Then again you say you spent three years at Hyde and you can't spell or write......hmmmmm.....not saying much about the scholastics at Hyde!!
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Many people have difficulty spelling. I am among them. I have a measured IQ in the 140 range, have an engineering degree magna cum, etc, etc. I have a hard time spelling. Big deal. We are not submitting english papers to sumner hawley. We are exchanging thoughts about hyde. If the only wak thing you can come up with is ripping some one for spelling .......
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Just as I thought! You are playing us. You are a little too obvious. I don't think anyone should waste their time replying to you including me! All on this board should ignore this phony student!
Anne Bonney:
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---i am in college, and have been. i spent three years at hyde. forgive any gramatical errors because i am horrible gramaticly.
i don't consider it treatment at all. Most kids are just whiney(i was also) and so they tend to exagerate a little.
i agree that it isn't a place that people with drug addictions sould go. they belong in a facility with proper treatment and not just A.A. I am not discounting the sobriety program because i have seen it save lives.
I have had friends with drug problems and this school has helped to give me the confidence to step up to tehm and put the friendship on the line.
Also teh way that brothers keeper is defined in the school is not realistic in the real world. there is no way that someone is going to run to their boss to tell them that another employee stole a pen, or paper. that is not the "essence" of brothers keeper. BK is more of looking out for people arpound you and halping them to lead productive lives.
i won't be saintly and pretend that all my friends live amazing productive lives but also there is a point when I want you to let people fail on their own. when I want you to remove all the training wheels and let them fail and then get back up on their own. most of these kids that go to hyde also have their parents still wanting to hold on the training wheels still. when all they really need to do is let tehm fail on their own and learn to ask for help. to know their limits
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So are you saying that most of the kids who are in Hyde for behavioral problems really don't need to be there? Maybe the parents just need to step up and do their jobs?
How many kids with supposed drug problems ARE there, since you say it really isn't the place for them.
How does the Brother's Keeper concept work inside the school? Did you find that helpful?
What do you mean by the "confidence to put the friendship in the line"?
Anon, I understand your instinct to dismiss this poster. I too am questioning their motives but I think a lot can be learned from what they're saying, even if it's not the message they intended to give.
Anonymous:
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---i am in college, and have been. i spent three years at hyde. forgive any gramatical errors because i am horrible gramaticly.
i don't consider it treatment at all. Most kids are just whiney(i was also) and so they tend to exagerate a little.
i agree that it isn't a place that people with drug addictions sould go. they belong in a facility with proper treatment and not just A.A. I am not discounting the sobriety program because i have seen it save lives.
I have had friends with drug problems and this school has helped to give me the confidence to step up to tehm and put the friendship on the line.
Also teh way that brothers keeper is defined in the school is not realistic in the real world. there is no way that someone is going to run to their boss to tell them that another employee stole a pen, or paper. that is not the "essence" of brothers keeper. BK is more of looking out for people arpound you and halping them to lead productive lives.
i won't be saintly and pretend that all my friends live amazing productive lives but also there is a point when I want you to let people fail on their own. when I want you to remove all the training wheels and let them fail and then get back up on their own. most of these kids that go to hyde also have their parents still wanting to hold on the training wheels still. when all they really need to do is let tehm fail on their own and learn to ask for help. to know their limits
--- End quote ---
Something is very fishy about the above posting. You are in college but you can't spell easy words? Sorry, but I really don't trust that you are who you say you are. Then again you say you spent three years at Hyde and you can't spell or write......hmmmmm.....not saying much about the scholastics at Hyde!!
--- End quote ---
Many people have difficulty spelling. I am among them. I have a measured IQ in the 140 range, have an engineering degree magna cum, etc, etc. I have a hard time spelling. Big deal. We are not submitting english papers to sumner hawley. We are exchanging thoughts about hyde. If the only wak thing you can come up with is ripping some one for spelling .......
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Just as I thought! You are playing us. You are a little too obvious. I don't think anyone should waste their time replying to you including me! All on this board should ignore this phony student!
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Please ignore me. Ingore ance is bliss.
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