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For Roloff Survivors Who Want to talk not fight!

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Saber Tooth:
Come in here and post if you want to talk and not fight. :smile:
Those who make peaceful revolution impossible will make violent revolution inevitable.
John F. Kennedy
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Saber Tooth:
Listen

When I ask you to listen to me and you start giving me advice, you have not done what I asked.

When I ask you to listen to me and you begin to tell me that I shouldn't feel that way, you are trampling on my feelings.

When I ask you to listen to me and you feel you have to do something to solve my problem, you have failed me, strange as that may seem.

Listen! All that I asked was that you listen--not talk or do--just hear me.

Advice is cheep. Thirty-five cents will get you both Dear Abby and Billy Graham in the same newspaper.

All I can do is do for myself. I am not helpless--maybe discouraged, but not helpless.

When you do something for me that I can and need to do for myself, you contribute to my fear and inadequacy.

So, please listen and just hear me. If you want to talk, wait a minute for your turn--and I'll listen to you.

I believe in God, only I spell it Nature.
--Frank Lloyd Wright, American architect
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Anonymous:
good words of wisdom, i really liked this

Paranoid Dilusional:
I am paranoid and I liked it. It is good advise. :scared:
At present there is not a single credible established religion in the world.
--George Bernard Shaw, Irish-born English playwright
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Anonymous:
Nobody will come post here there is nothing to read. They like the fight. :???:

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