Yeah, their isnt a single negativity that I can express to her that is responded to with "Oh I know what you mean, Your dad....." or "Yoour step-dad....." blah blah....its was all because of them, they "talked her out of it" or into it, whichever applies.
Its funny, there isnt a neighboorhood in the city of Houston that my mother wasnt trying to by a house in back when I was a teenager, that my step-dad or someone didnt "talk her out of". I know it isnt true, half those neighborhhods she didnt even KNOW about when I was a kid....but it makes for good blaming fodder.
Oh, and the one abut how she was going to pursue some new career or start some new business back then, that of course would have made her a millionaire now......but oh no, "Your dad talked me out of it, my sister talked me out of it"......geez! I could go on and on....