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« on: June 23, 2005, 08:31:00 PM »
Tenn. investigates ex-gay camp
Teen's blog leads to outcry, charges of abuse at unlicensed facility
By EARTHA MELZER | Jun 23, 1:53 PM

The state of Tennessee has begun an investigation in response to allegations of child abuse at Love in Action, a Memphis facility that advertises homosexual conversion therapy for adolescents, according to the state department of health.

K. Daniele Edwards, a spokesperson for Child Services at the Tennessee Department of Health, confirmed an investigation is underway but declined to comment on the details. She noted that she presumes the Love in Action program would require licensing by the state.
           
Love in Action is not licensed by the Tennessee Departments of Health, Mental Health, Human Services, Child Services or Education, according to Rachel Lassiter of Gov. Phil Bredesen's communications office.

Refuge, Love in Action's program for adolescents, became the focus of public concern earlier this month after a Bartlett, Tenn., teen who uses the blogger name Zach, posted online entries that say his parents had responded to his coming out as gay by sending him to a religious institution to be converted to heterosexuality.

"Emotional abuse is difficult to prove in the state of Tennessee," said Pamela Dickey, director of the advocacy center for Childhelp USA in Knoxville. "You have to document that the child is undergoing depression or suicidal ideation, that he can't sleep, or can't eat."

Officials from Love in Action had appealed for "tolerance" of their program at a June 16 news conference.

"It is our spiritual conviction that sexual behavior outside of heterosexual marriage is considered wrong in the sight of God," said John Smid, the program's director, who describes himself as "ex-gay," according to a partial transcript of the news conference.

"This program is operated on the will of the guardian or parent. We will work with the minor children as long as they are not overtly distracting to their own program or the program of others," Smid added. "If it is shown that the client is overtly treatment resistant, we will work with the parent towards alternative options for their care and overall relational health."

Blogger E.J. Friedman said that he had been corresponding with Zach via e-mail since March and became alarmed when he saw that Zach had begun to write that his world was coming to an end and that his parents were isolating him.

"When I saw Zach had written in his blog, 'all I can think of is killing my mother and killing myself' I felt that clearly something needed to be said about the program," Friedman said.

No word from teen

Word of Zach's situation quickly spread around the blogosphere. By press time, more than 1,000 messages of support had been posted to Zach's blog and an online petition demanded that he be released from Love in Action. Comedian Margaret Cho contributed a message of support.

But Zach has not posted to his blog since the first week in June and sources contacted by the Blade would not confirm Zach's full name. His parents also could not be identified.

Morgan Fox, 25, who said he was a friend of Zach's, said he believed Zach was in a two-week Refuge program.

Meanwhile, a group called the Queer Action Coalition has begun daily demonstrations in front of Love in Action offices to raise awareness of the dangers of "ex-gay" therapy.

Look for complete coverage of this story in this Friday's print and online edition.


Gay activists protested outside an unlicensed 'ex-gay' facility run by Love In Action, which Tennessee officials are investigating to see if teens are being mistreated.

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« Reply #1 on: June 24, 2005, 01:02:00 AM »
Id go protest myself, if I could.

Frankly, I dont see why the mental health community isnt lambasting this program, but as far-right as this country has be come, and especially how theological it is, reason can't be spoken without being stomped back down by our hard-right, religious leadership.

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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

CCMGirl on program restraints: "DON\'T TAZ ME BRO!!!!!"

TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."

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« Reply #2 on: June 24, 2005, 08:30:00 AM »
I just ran a Google News Search, and a LOT of newspapers have picked up on this.  I believe that this is one scam that will be put out of business in short order.  Apparently those newspapers all have enough gay readers to know that this will sell newspapers.  What a wonderfull example they're setting.  Too bad the straight public doesn't care as much about straight kids being abused.
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« Reply #3 on: June 24, 2005, 08:46:00 AM »
I wouldent go protest, because that issue does not hit that close to home for me, but I do know its wrong. Homosexuality is a choice, yet its a wrong choice, this is what I think. It is not right thought to send these people to camps, it smacks of dare I say it? Nazi light... Now doing what is happening to these people is wrong, wrong by a long shot, this is not the correct way, in God's eyes, or in Man's eyes, to address homosexuality. And these people can yell and scream as much as they want, because they are on the right side, right as in doing the right thing, you know not the other right, because I dont think the other right has many gay members... hehe, ok that was an attempt at humor.
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« Reply #4 on: June 24, 2005, 10:30:00 AM »
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Being gay isnt a choice, being gay is not a sin. It is how nature works. 10% of the population is estimated at being gay, why people fear them so much, is beyond me. I've had way too many gay friends to buy into this stereotypical religious BS anymore, it isn't true.
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« Reply #5 on: June 24, 2005, 12:20:00 PM »
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On 2005-06-24 05:46:00, OverLordd wrote:

"It is not right thought to send these people to camps, it smacks of dare I say it? Nazi light... Now doing what is happening to these people is wrong, wrong by a long shot, this is not the correct way, in God's eyes, or in Man's eyes, to address homosexuality. And these people can yell and scream as much as they want, because they are on the right side, right as in doing the right thing, you know not the other right, because I dont think the other right has many gay members... hehe, ok that was an attempt at humor."


Ok, I disagree w/ you about sexual orientation being a choice. But that's not crucial. Regardless, this type of treatment is, indeed, wrong by a long shot! And it's just about exactly the same Program as Straight, Inc. I would assume you think that recreational drug use and teen defiance are also wrong choices and it's also wrong, by a long shot, to use this breaking method to address those wrongs.

How can we bring a little light to the issue?

Oh, as it turns out, that other 'right' has a good many gays in the woodpile. Haven't you seen the news? Politicians who are rabidly opposed to gay rights keep getting outed. One of them left a message on a male hooker's voicemail and that was broadcast for a week or so. Then there was that mysterious right wingnut reporter who had a gay escort website under another name and extremely 'liberal' access to the whitehouse. Me thinks they doth protest too much (and, if they had a choice, they'd choose their dogma over their... well, men are dogs, right?)

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« Reply #6 on: June 24, 2005, 12:25:00 PM »
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I would assume you think that recreational drug use and teen defiance are also wrong choices and it's also wrong, by a long shot, to use this breaking method to address those wrongs.

Recreational drug use, yes, teen defiance, no there is nothing wrong with being defiant, its a way some people grow and learn, because even if a teen is being defiant, they are still watching you and seeing how you react.

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Haven't you seen the news? Politicians who are rabidly opposed to gay rights keep getting outed.


wow, no, I did'ent hear that, news to me.
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« Reply #7 on: June 24, 2005, 01:14:00 PM »
google "John Paulk"  "gay bar"

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« Reply #8 on: June 24, 2005, 03:53:00 PM »
AP picks up the story, its now  "mainstream" international wire news.

http://www.tennessean.com/apps/pbcs.dll ... 40391/1001

Memphis sex-therapy group faces complaint

It claims to convert gay teens to heterosexuality

By MATT GOURAS
Associated Press


The state is investigating an abuse complaint against a therapy group in Memphis that claims to turn gay teens into heterosexuals.

The Department of Children's Services says it received a complaint about Love in Action, which runs an outpatient therapy program. The complaint was screened and enough substance was found to open an investigation, state officials said.
 

All other details are confidential and the state can't specify the nature of the complaint or investigation, K. Danielle Edwards, a DCS spokeswoman, said yesterday.

Love in Action, which runs a program for children and teens called Refuge, said the investigation is without merit and was filed anonymously by someone with little knowledge of the program.

"The Internet accusations on holding kids without their permission ... and the other crazy allegations are ridiculous," said John Smid, the group's executive director.

The group's work has been the focus of protest by gay advocacy groups, who say it is dangerous and irresponsible to engage in so-called ex-gay therapy.

Earlier this month, a Web logger going by the name of "Zach" said his parents were sending him to a religious organization that would try to convert him to heterosexuality.

The teen identified himself as a 16-year-old from Bartlett, Tenn., and said his parents "tell me that there is something psychologically wrong with me. ... I'm a big screwup to them, who isn't on the path God wants me to be on. So I'm sitting here in tears ... and I can't help it."

Edwards said DCS can't say if its investigation is related to that boy's situation, or even specify when the complaint was filed.

But Smid says it is connected. He said the accusation was probably filed by someone who read the blog and used it "as a foundation to stir up a bunch of stuff."

"The doors are not locked down and the kids are not required to be here, and they come here with their parents," Smid said.

The Web site for Refuge states it offers programs ranging from two to six weeks. The group says it "is a ministry designed to be a safe place for young people and their families to find true freedom from addictions through the power of Jesus Christ."

It says it can fix "addictive behaviors" such as pornography, drugs, sexual promiscuity and homosexuality.

The cost runs from $1,500 to $4,000, the Web site says.

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