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« on: June 12, 2005, 12:37:00 AM »
I want the parents of the boys who ran away to please take note of the charges filed by Jared Eldridge against Cheryl Sudweeks.  This investigation took several months.  It means that the authorities find the evidence to be very credible.  There is a reason your boys ran.  Please listen to what they tell you.  Do not send them back to Whitmore and risk them being physically harmed.  

Here are some of the things that happen when kids run and are sent back.  One girl was put in "the room" on the shelf for well over a week.  She could not go to the bathroom unless someone went with her -- if someone happened to think about it.
All of the food served to her -- when and if -- had been spit in by the other kids at Whitmore.
She was not allowed to shower or change her clothes for the entire time she was in that closet.

Two other girls were physically beaten by another student -- enough to cause one of the girls to get a black eye.  And that was what could be seen.

Other boys have been have been beaten for hours at a time -- by other students.  This is all with the knowledge of the Sudweeks.

Most of this is after the offending kids have been called names and humiliated for hours in "group."

These are not stories just made up by one or two unhappy people.  These things really do happen.
The story of Joey being beaten and pushed down stairs is documented by the "Child Protective Services."

This can all be varified by calling Detective Kimball at the Nephi PD or Mr. Godfrey at Child Protective Services.

Do you really think that treating kids like what has been described is what you thought you were sending your boys into?  Didn't you send your kids to be helped?  

Please consider more than the fact that they ran and asked for help in getting to safety.  Again, ask them what they have seen.  Ask Mackie about being left at the Ridge without food or water or supervision.
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« Reply #1 on: June 12, 2005, 09:13:00 AM »
mackie chose to go up there..and there was plenty of food in the semi..which he was told to eat..and if makcie wants to run his mouth now that he "RAN" away..he can speak for himself since he is too much of a damn pussy to say anything before..and dont give me that bullshit about him getting beat if he opened his mouth..he was one of the biggest kids we had..hahaha
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« Reply #2 on: June 12, 2005, 09:45:00 AM »
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On 2005-06-12 06:13:00, Anonymous wrote:

"mackie chose to go up there..and there was plenty of food in the semi..which he was told to eat..and if makcie wants to run his mouth now that he "RAN" away..he can speak for himself since he is too much of a damn pussy to say anything before..and dont give me that bullshit about him getting beat if he opened his mouth..he was one of the biggest kids we had..hahaha"


Unbelievable ... so because the guy was one of the "biggest kids we had" he didn't need to worry about any b.s. like getting "beat"?

Care to explain yourself anon to those of us who are not Whitmore parents or teens?  You seem to be saying the "littlest" kids are the ones who would have to worry.

Please, I hope you understand that beating is NEVER acceptable.  Someone who would even physically harm a kid (big or small) as relatiation for disobedience of any kind should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law.

Parents can't beat their children at home and should not be allowed to let program staff beat their kids, by proxy.  

There have been serious allegations of abuse leveled against this program according to what I read in the paper.  

Think that might have anything to do why this child ran away in the first place?

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« Reply #3 on: June 12, 2005, 10:03:00 AM »
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On 2005-06-12 06:13:00, Anonymous wrote:


"mackie chose to go up there..and there was plenty of food in the semi..which he was told to eat..and if makcie wants to run his mouth now that he "RAN" away..he can speak for himself since he is too much of a damn pussy to say anything before..and dont give me that bullshit about him getting beat if he opened his mouth..he was one of the biggest kids we had..hahaha"




Unbelievable ... so because the guy was one of the "biggest kids we had" he didn't need to worry about any b.s. like getting "beat"?



Care to explain yourself anon to those of us who are not Whitmore parents or teens?  You seem to be saying the "littlest" kids are the ones who would have to worry.



Please, I hope you understand that beating is NEVER acceptable.  Someone who would even physically harm a kid (big or small) as relatiation for disobedience of any kind should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law.



Parents can't beat their children at home and should not be allowed to let program staff beat their kids, by proxy.  



There have been serious allegations of abuse leveled against this program according to what I read in the paper.  



Think that might have anything to do why this child ran away in the first place?



 :???: "


My apologies, I forgot to include the news article.

Academy owner facing charges
Boarding school: She stands accused of child abuse and hazing at a now-defunct treatment center
By Kirsten Stewart
The Salt Lake Tribune

June 11, 2005

The owner of a controversial Utah boarding school has been charged with five misdemeanor counts of child abuse and two counts of hazing. Charging documents filed last week by the Juab County Attorney's office allege Cheryl Sudweeks of Whitmore Academy in Nephi humiliated and physically harmed four children between April 2003 and November 2004. The children were enrolled at a now-defunct residential treatment center formerly associated with the boarding school.

Sudweeks, 50, has been summoned to appear before Nephi's 4th District Court on June 23. Nephi police could not be reached for details late Friday. But Juab County Attorney Jared Eldridge says the charges were filed as part of an investigation of alleged abuse at Whitmore that began in November. It led to the closing of the residential treatment facility. Eldridge said none of the evidence amassed implicates Sudweeks' husband, Mark, who co-owns Whitmore. Mark Sudweeks declined to comment on the investigation or the charges Friday. Eldridge said the criminal probe is ongoing.

"It has been a difficult investigation because we have witnesses who are scattered across the country. Some have been difficult to pin down," said Eldridge.

Whitmore still operates a boarding school catering to about 32 students, ages 12 to 17.
The school has recently balked at coming under state regulation, arguing it is not a therapeutic facility, a category covered under a new law passed to crack down on Utah's thriving teen-help industry.

Utah licensing director Ken Stettler said until the school is covered by state regulations there is nothing he can do to intervene. Officials at the Division of Child and Family Services say they have no reason to believe children at Whitmore are at risk, nor are they currently investigating any complaints of neglect or abuse.

"But if any parent has reason to believe there might be abuse going on we definitely want them to contact us," said DCFS spokeswoman Elizabeth Sollis.

http://www.sltrib.com
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« Reply #4 on: June 12, 2005, 11:07:00 AM »
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 I want the parents of the boys who ran away to please take note of the charges filed by Jared Eldridge against Cheryl Sudweeks. This investigation took several months. It means that the authorities find the evidence to be very credible. There is a reason your boys ran. Please listen to what they tell you. Do not send them back to Whitmore and risk them being physically harmed.

Here are some of the things that happen when kids run and are sent back. One girl was put in "the room" on the shelf for well over a week. She could not go to the bathroom unless someone went with her -- if someone happened to think about it.
All of the food served to her -- when and if -- had been spit in by the other kids at Whitmore.
She was not allowed to shower or change her clothes for the entire time she was in that closet.

Two other girls were physically beaten by another student -- enough to cause one of the girls to get a black eye. And that was what could be seen.

Other boys have been have been beaten for hours at a time -- by other students. This is all with the knowledge of the Sudweeks.

Most of this is after the offending kids have been called names and humiliated for hours in "group."

These are not stories just made up by one or two unhappy people. These things really do happen.
The story of Joey being beaten and pushed down stairs is documented by the "Child Protective Services."

This can all be varified by calling Detective Kimball at the Nephi PD or Mr. Godfrey at Child Protective Services.

Do you really think that treating kids like what has been described is what you thought you were sending your boys into? Didn't you send your kids to be helped?

Please consider more than the fact that they ran and asked for help in getting to safety. Again, ask them what they have seen. Ask Mackie about being left at the Ridge without food or water or supervision.
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« Reply #5 on: June 12, 2005, 01:45:00 PM »
why write to the parents why not question joyce harris on why she paid for minors to be on the loose.  These parents are the ones who really care about their own children, not someone who didnt protect them enough to sent them to the ones that truely love them.
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« Reply #6 on: June 12, 2005, 01:53:00 PM »
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"why write to the parents why not question joyce harris on why she paid for minors to be on the loose.  These parents are the ones who really care about their own children, not someone who didnt protect them enough to sent them to the ones that truely love them."


Because these parents need to understand that the Whit is no safe place for kids who dared attempt an escape.

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« Reply #7 on: June 12, 2005, 01:57:00 PM »
exactly how is sending kids to a drug infested concert getting that message to the kids.   mary
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« Reply #8 on: June 12, 2005, 02:06:00 PM »
sorry i didnt "word" it right for you. Mackey is one of my better friends that I had..and let me clarify it for you so that you dont get it all twisted because you cannot comprehend what I am saying...IF the kids did get beat..mackey would not have to be scared because he is one of the "bigger" kids that we have...so in other words, he did not leave because of that. Not to mention Mike is too. Anyways, ask that one man who works with the nephi police or w/e..its either godfrey. eldridge, or this other guy...which ever one works with the police..he called the airline and found out that Joyce paid for their ticket..thats how that was found out..anyways, im out.  :silly:
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« Reply #9 on: June 12, 2005, 02:06:00 PM »
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" exactly how is sending kids to a drug infested concert getting that message to the kids.   mary"


Well, first, I don't actually believe that happened. Second, nobody said anything about getting a message to the kids. We're talking about alerting the parents to the danger of shipping their kids back to the Suds.

Remember that the Whit is said to be a drug infested environment as well. The kids are probably safer wherever they are than at the Whit. The parents need to understand that. Though it's doubtful that the kids would be able to trust them or believe them even if they did suddenly see the light. So sad.

If anyone is in touch w/ these boys, I hope you'll inform them that they can go to a runnaway shelter (NOT to the police!) and stand a good chance of getting protection. They'll have to explain why their parents can't be trusted and no kid really wants to expose their parents to that kind of thing. But they have to do it if they're to avoid what they know happens to Whit kids who dare attempt an escape.

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« Reply #10 on: June 12, 2005, 02:08:00 PM »
So then 30 or 40 kids ganging up on one bigger kid is nothing to worry about?

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« Reply #11 on: June 12, 2005, 03:11:00 PM »
hey..i had to deal with leaving once, and coming back..and it wasnt what people crack it out to be..sure..i got fussed out, nothing more than that..and i love them just the same.
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« Reply #12 on: June 12, 2005, 03:46:00 PM »
Since you seem to know, Antigen, what does happen to kids when they come back to the Whitmore after attempting an escape?

Just curious.
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« Reply #13 on: June 12, 2005, 04:06:00 PM »
Ask Joey.

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« Reply #14 on: June 12, 2005, 04:10:00 PM »
I was there for the Joey incident. All of it.

So kids who attempt escape are told not to do it, it is explained to them why they need to stay for their full year, then watched to make sure they don't run away again? Okay. I'm sure that is to be feared. :roll:

Have you ever even met Joey? I hung out with him quite a bit when he was at the Whitmore. I know him, and I know his personality; along with his games. This is one. You're in it.
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