She sought the guy out. I agree she was used. I also think she used him. I never defended Dechert. As I said, "I think she was exploited and fucked over by McInerry as well as Dechert. I worry what will happen to her now that the fifteen minutes of fame are about up." So no, I don't blame her, but I find the whole thing a bit sordid. He blasted her on his site, she cracks on him in interviews and her MySpace. Also, the "BJ" did not get her the book deal, that was a later enticement. Once again, I don't mean to bash her, I think she's going to have a rough time of it. So...? If I'm aware that she was victimized, as I said earlier on, what's your point? Best of luck to you and Abigail.