If your child is "out of contr0l" then let them to the streets.Its better for them.OH,you can be charged with child neglect for that!And what about truent child?You be held responsible for that too.Since you are so afraid to go to jail then maybe you should send the kid to a straight like abusive school and let them "take care of 'em!"No blood on your hands.
You should not have these mixed feelings.
It is NOT your fault.
Its the American culture to put you in that NO WIN situation.
Its American culture that is destroying Estonia,S.Korea,etc.etc. with greed,violent movies/video games and gangsta nigger music.
Go have a look for yourself if you dont believe me.
MOVE to a foreign country,with or without your troubled child,AND NEVER GO BACK!You will be much happier,I promise.