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Offline Rachael

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« on: March 02, 2005, 12:49:00 AM »
Ask yourself honestly, does AARC satisfy any (or all) of these criteria?



Warning Signs of Potentially Abusive Facilities

1. The facility is not licensed.
2. Verbal and/or written communication between the child and his parents, siblings, grandparents, etc. is prohibited, restricted, or monitored on any level.
3. The facility requires that the parents and/or child sign a form releasing the program of liability in the event of injury to the child.
4. The program requests/demands/recommends that they have legal custody of children.
5. The program requires that children live in foster or "host" homes instead of allowing them to reside with their parents.
6. The child or parent or forbidden from discussing the daily happenings at the facility. Often this policy is called "confidentiality."
7. The child is denied access to a telephone.
8. Phone calls between children and parents are monitored.
9. The program uses confrontational therapy.
10. Parents must fulfill requirements of the facility before being permitted to visit their own children.
11. The facility is located outside the jurisdiction of the United States.
12. Children are restrained or otherwise physically prevented from leaving the facility.
13. The staff includes former students/clients of the facility.
14. Staff members claim that self-injury or cutting/carving on ones body is normal behavior for a child in treatment.
15. Parents are not allowed to remain with their child during the entire intake/entry process.
16. The program inflicts physical punishments on children such as exercising for extended periods of time, bizarre cleaning rituals (ie scrubbing floors with a toothbrush) or food restrictions.
17. The program uses humiliation to "break them down."
18. The program forces children to remain in solitary confinement/isolation/time-out for an unspecified amount of time.
19. Reading materials are prohibited or severely limited.
20. The facility does not have a clearly visible sign outside the building or descriptions of their location are vague.
21. The facility claims to modify behavior, yet has no licensed therapists on staff.
22. A licensed doctor or registered nurse is not present at any time during normal operating hours.
23. Current clients/students participate in the intake/entry process.
24. Staff members offer to help parents obtain a court order forcing the child into, or keeping the child in, the facility.
25. Children are observed while bathing, dressing, or using the toilet on any level of the program.
26. The facility claims to treat drug abuse, but does not conduct a drug screen prior to entry.
27. The facility does not allow children to follow their religion of choice.
28. Staff members must "approve" family members, siblings, friends, or employment.
29. Children are not afforded an education in accordance with state requirements.
30. Medication is recommended, prescribed, approved, or dispensed by anyone other than a medical doctor (MD).
31. Children are denied medications that have been prescribed by an MD.
32. Staff members, admissions personnel, referrers, etc. make statements indicating that "your child will die without" the program.
33. Children escort/supervise other children.
34. Children have to "earn" the "right" to speak during group/therapy sessions.
35. Children are denied outside activities on any level/phase.
36. Staff members must approve the withdrawal of children from the facility.
37. The facility expects total and unquestioned support of parents.
38. Children on any level/phase are forbidden to speak to other children in the facility.
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« Reply #1 on: March 02, 2005, 09:59:00 AM »
It reads like an AARC manual.  It's crazy when it's set out like that how sick it really looks.
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« Reply #2 on: March 02, 2005, 07:19:00 PM »
You two should get together & compare notes
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« Reply #3 on: September 14, 2007, 04:59:20 PM »
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« Reply #4 on: September 14, 2007, 05:04:43 PM »
Yet, backed and funded by the government.
Fully supported by the Calgary Police Dept.
And every business man in the city.

Pffft.  I'm squishing your head!  

Your stoned little head!
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« Reply #5 on: September 14, 2007, 05:07:15 PM »
Quote from: ""Guest""
Yet, backed and funded by the government.
Fully supported by the Calgary Police Dept.
And every business man in the city.

Pffft.  I'm squishing your head!  

Your stoned little head!



Straight was funded and fully supported and backed by the Florida government.  The police would bring back kids who had run and tried to talk of the abuse.  It wasn't until years later that people started to actually listen.

Things take time.  We've got taht.
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« Reply #6 on: September 14, 2007, 05:49:20 PM »
Quote from: ""Rachael""
Ask yourself honestly, does AARC satisfy any (or all) of these criteria?







Warning Signs of Potentially Abusive Facilities



1. The facility is not licensed.

2. Verbal and/or written communication between the child and his parents, siblings, grandparents, etc. is prohibited, restricted, or monitored on any level.

3. The facility requires that the parents and/or child sign a form releasing the program of liability in the event of injury to the child.

4. The program requests/demands/recommends that they have legal custody of children.

5. The program requires that children live in foster or "host" homes instead of allowing them to reside with their parents.

6. The child or parent or forbidden from discussing the daily happenings at the facility. Often this policy is called "confidentiality."

7. The child is denied access to a telephone.

8. Phone calls between children and parents are monitored.

9. The program uses confrontational therapy.

10. Parents must fulfill requirements of the facility before being permitted to visit their own children.

11. The facility is located outside the jurisdiction of the United States.

12. Children are restrained or otherwise physically prevented from leaving the facility.

13. The staff includes former students/clients of the facility.

14. Staff members claim that self-injury or cutting/carving on ones body is normal behavior for a child in treatment.

15. Parents are not allowed to remain with their child during the entire intake/entry process.

16. The program inflicts physical punishments on children such as exercising for extended periods of time, bizarre cleaning rituals (ie scrubbing floors with a toothbrush) or food restrictions.

17. The program uses humiliation to "break them down."

18. The program forces children to remain in solitary confinement/isolation/time-out for an unspecified amount of time.

19. Reading materials are prohibited or severely limited.

20. The facility does not have a clearly visible sign outside the building or descriptions of their location are vague.

21. The facility claims to modify behavior, yet has no licensed therapists on staff.

22. A licensed doctor or registered nurse is not present at any time during normal operating hours.

23. Current clients/students participate in the intake/entry process.

24. Staff members offer to help parents obtain a court order forcing the child into, or keeping the child in, the facility.

25. Children are observed while bathing, dressing, or using the toilet on any level of the program.

26. The facility claims to treat drug abuse, but does not conduct a drug screen prior to entry.

27. The facility does not allow children to follow their religion of choice.

28. Staff members must "approve" family members, siblings, friends, or employment.

29. Children are not afforded an education in accordance with state requirements.

30. Medication is recommended, prescribed, approved, or dispensed by anyone other than a medical doctor (MD).

31. Children are denied medications that have been prescribed by an MD.

32. Staff members, admissions personnel, referrers, etc. make statements indicating that "your child will die without" the program.

33. Children escort/supervise other children.

34. Children have to "earn" the "right" to speak during group/therapy sessions.

35. Children are denied outside activities on any level/phase.

36. Staff members must approve the withdrawal of children from the facility.

37. The facility expects total and unquestioned support of parents.

38. Children on any level/phase are forbidden to speak to other children in the facility.






This ^^^^^^^ IS Straight.
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The more boring a child is, the more the parents, when showing off the child, receive adulation for being good parents-- because they have a tame child-creature in their house.  ~~  Frank Zappa

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« Reply #7 on: September 14, 2007, 06:49:44 PM »
Not licensed as a detention facility, nor as a medical facilty.  Just a registered charity.  And how about that non-existent Zero Club.  Ask Tanya W. how exciting it is to knock somebody's food on the floor when they aren't allowed to cut it up for themselves.  There's lots of toilet watching too.  The healing power of AARC knows no bounds!
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"AARC will go on serving youth and families as long as it will be needed, if it keeps open to God for inspiration" Dr. F. Dean Vause Executive Director


MR. NELSON: Mr. Speaker, AADAC has been involved with
assistance in developing the program of the Alberta Adolescent
Recovery Centre since its inception originally as Kids of the
Canadian West."
Alberta Hansard, March 24, 1992

Offline Anne Bonney

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« Reply #8 on: September 14, 2007, 06:55:17 PM »
Zero club?
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The more boring a child is, the more the parents, when showing off the child, receive adulation for being good parents-- because they have a tame child-creature in their house.  ~~  Frank Zappa

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« Reply #9 on: September 14, 2007, 06:57:33 PM »
I am with Anne on this as the criteria matches to the letter what it was like at Straight. The only thing that may have been different is that newcomers were held by their beltloop and not allowed to move without an oldcomer escorting them (by the back of the pants to say the least.)
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« Reply #10 on: September 17, 2007, 03:18:40 AM »
Janne Holmgren used to employ belt-looping with her charges when she worked at AARC.  This is the same person, by the way, who testified against Miller Newton about her mistreatment in Kids.  It probably wasn't a great idea to put a victim of Miller Newton in charge of a bunch of vulnerable children, but where else was the Wizard going to get his peer counsellors for Kids of the Canadian West.  Sorry, AARC, which has nothing to do with Kids.
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"AARC will go on serving youth and families as long as it will be needed, if it keeps open to God for inspiration" Dr. F. Dean Vause Executive Director


MR. NELSON: Mr. Speaker, AADAC has been involved with
assistance in developing the program of the Alberta Adolescent
Recovery Centre since its inception originally as Kids of the
Canadian West."
Alberta Hansard, March 24, 1992

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« Reply #11 on: September 20, 2007, 01:59:01 PM »
36. Staff members must approve the withdrawal of children from the facility.


I was told on another thread that I can just go pick my child up. Im afraid if I go in there to pick him up they will either beat him up out of my sight... or he (Brainwashed) will refuse to go with me!!!

Someone please help with this!
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« Reply #12 on: September 20, 2007, 02:01:21 PM »
Register as a member and private message me if you need assistance retrieving your son.
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"AARC will go on serving youth and families as long as it will be needed, if it keeps open to God for inspiration" Dr. F. Dean Vause Executive Director


MR. NELSON: Mr. Speaker, AADAC has been involved with
assistance in developing the program of the Alberta Adolescent
Recovery Centre since its inception originally as Kids of the
Canadian West."
Alberta Hansard, March 24, 1992

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« Reply #13 on: September 20, 2007, 03:58:28 PM »
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36. Staff members must approve the withdrawal of children from the facility.


I was told on another thread that I can just go pick my child up. Im afraid if I go in there to pick him up they will either beat him up out of my sight... or he (Brainwashed) will refuse to go with me!!!

Someone please help with this!


Create a username so you can Private Message people.  You can still remain totally anon on the boards and don't have to give your real name privately either.  Many of us would be glad to be of whatever help we can.

Good luck and GO GET HIM NOW!  If he's under 18 it doesn't matter if he's been 'washed' yet or not.  YOU are the parent.  Do NOT let those fuckers intimidate you.  Call the police if you have to, but GET HIM NOW!
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The more boring a child is, the more the parents, when showing off the child, receive adulation for being good parents-- because they have a tame child-creature in their house.  ~~  Frank Zappa