god grant me the serentity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to know the difference.
Same deal at Benchmark... It's AA's Serenity Prayer. Twelve steppery. We would say that all the time.
Let's see..
"fake it till you make it"
"once an addict always an addict"
"keep coming back, it works if you work it, if you don't... you're fucked" (and variations on that theme)
"let go and let god"
"two sickies don't make a wellie" (why no relationships allowed)
The twelve steps, of course, and terminology from Stepcraft, CEDU, etc.. I'm not sure if Benchmark (or any programs really) actually invented this stuff, so much as they copied it from elsewhere.
And the rules... Yes the rules that never stood still. Those you had to know as well, and keep up to date... and you had to remember who was on "bans", and who was on house/room restriction... and if you talked to them you could get in trouble (especially if they answered... they were just supposed to say "BANS!").