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Thank You guys. I really do appreciate it. I've been thinking about the whole confronting my parents thing, and for now, I'm not going to do it. I don't want to sit there and blame them for me being upset about "the Hell hole" some 13 years later. (I am still a bit angry, though) Also, I know they were brainwashed as badly as we all were. I know what you mean though, Ms P, this site does tend to bring up a lot of bad memories. Kinda stinks when I'd done such a good job of not thinking about it anymore  :lol:
But I'm gonna stick around for a while and try to deal with it. Maybe by the time I feel I, (notice no "like")  :lol: don't need them to apologize or know all of the shit we all dealt with, I'll tell them. Then I'll just be venting, and not expecting anything. Thanks again for the support and if I can be of any help, just let me know. "Love you group". ( How scary was that every day!!!!)

I was also in there during the 80's. I had pretty much forgotten everyone's names. I remember what they looked like though. I'm not surprised about Erin either. I called there a long time ago, pretending to have a problem, and she pretty much hung up on me. She also told my parents that I'd never make it outside of the program. It's sad to think she's still brainwashed.

I just found this site the other day, and I have to admit it has brought on a lot of painful memories for me. My parents pulled me out of Kids 13 years ago. I've since then thought I forgot about my horrible experience in that place. I never really explained to my parents what we all went through in there, and they too, seemed to forget about it. Truth is , I'm really upset. I was reading Rebbeca's story and thinking how sorry I felt for her, and how horrible that must have been for her. It was almost as if it was a story I was hearing about for the first time. Then it hit me. I was there too. I went through the same humiliation and pain as everyone else did in there. I guess I have a talent for repressing my own feelings, and it's become painfully obvious to me that I have, for the last 13 years, done just that. I spoke to my Mom about it , and she didn't seem overly interested in how I was feeling. I guess to her, it's in the past. I, however, now feel like I need to speak to both of my parents and let them know how hurt and kind of angry I am that I was put there in the first place. Does anyone have any advice for me? It's been a long time and I do need to deal with this, but I'm not sure how.