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On 2005-11-23 20:53:00, Anonymous wrote:

"THe BBS is up and running just fine. Only thing they removed was the general discussion fourm.



I have a son enrolled at Cross Creek, and I agree that the 'program speak' makes me insane; but I know that the people directly in contact with my son are legit and making a diference in his life.



I will bring him home when I hear in his voice that he is feeling better about himself. He is close, I am not concerned with him completing the program or graduating CC persay, but I know he needed the interuption in his self distructive behaviors. :eek: "

I feel sorry for you mister, you will never be able to hear in your childs voice that he is ready. according to the program he isnt ready until he fijnishes the program!
I have a better idea that might make some sense. It wasnt until my father sent me to europe by myself that i finally started to understand my part in life. i was all by myself and the only thing i had was the internet and smarts i recieved from my parents. after all they are the ones who raised me and taught me everything i know. directly and indirectly, but they thought they failed because i chose not to use it and rebel. nows the time to take action, take the money you are throwing away and let your kid take a stand in his life. you are just making it tougher for him. being trapped in the middle of the woods will not make him feel like you love him. i live in san diego and very willings to take time to talk with you or your son. whatever i can do to get your kid on the right path in life. you want to know what happened to me when i returned home? My name is Ivan and i look forward to your response.

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no you wouldnt know me because i arrived later that year. I thought about it and it is not that important. what chris did was so very wrong and if he was that pissed at his parents there are many other ways to get back at them.  but killing is stupidity. people dont realize that you will go to a place far worse than samoa for a lot longer if you kill.

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I cant believe that when i got on this website you guys only talk about whose fucking cabin was cleaner. I have been struggling for a long time to get a grip on reality and where I stand. The program only created more apathy towards life and more resentment towards my parents for being so fucking stupid. see when i went to samoa i realized that the program had its rules and ways to success, which was a piece of cake, right? well then i was transferred to montana to finish the program where things didnt change until i had to force myself to rebel so i could go hang out in isolation till i was eightteen because i was sick and tired of bullshitting myself. See i realized i couldnt live a lie anylonger  It wasnt me to do whatever the staff wanted because i saw that the kids who gained trust with them had a say in how i was handled in the family so i started to rebel and do things to go to worksheet room and isolation but the crazy thing was that by rebeling my parents decided the program wasnt working anymore and i went home. I dont know if i articulated myself well there, but i needed to mention that for someone out there.  :wave: My name is Ivan and the program screwed with my life and my drive to succeed in life. to any parent out there that is thinking about sending their kid to a program please write me on this website because i know how to help.

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These programs that have been created to "better your children" are full of shit. there are things that i got out of the program but i have to say that i wish i could erase them. Starting day one I learned the key to success, which was manipulation. I knew if i could make friends and learn how to make people think i was ok and getting better the sooner i was going home.  little did i know by faking it until i made it would ruin my life. I dont know how to be myself anymore. Every situation i get myself in I automatically think on how to manipulate the situation. Everyday i am afraid that someone might find out that i am empty inside. This place took everything from(my deepest secrets, the bad experiences that drove my life, my passions) now all i have is this unmanagable apathy towords life. sometimes i think the thing that will help me is to contact some of my friends i met there but they are nowhere to be found because fucked up parents dont want their kids names to be mentioned. i have a message to you all. FUCK YOU!!!! see i am a depressive and when everything was taken out of me, i realized that i had to face life. well the truth is that i wasnt ready to face life quite so fast and in return that was even more depressing. well having that said i can no longer continue with this post. I want people to respond and in doing so you will get an answer for any question you may have and untill next time......good day

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can anyone post the correct family he was in and if you know him as well as you say, where did he have a boil(very wierd spot)
the reason i want to know is because i think i was in his family for the last few months of his stay. also i would like to contact someone that was there to talk with them. I dont know anymore. that place deffinently changed me and i need some answers! Help[ This Message was edited by: IDunno on 2005-11-23 14:32 ]

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