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The Troubled Teen Industry / The Reality of Fornits
« on: February 10, 2007, 02:55:56 PM »
Quote from: ""Milk Gargling Death Penalty""
Which means that you have nothing to say except "they're just so biiiig!" dogshit.

No it means I am not TheWho, or some other weirdo who sit around endlessly debating numbers than mean shit to nobody.

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If using the Internet is such a waste of time (as if it wasn't just a communications medium like any other),

No, I said it's a waste of time if you are doing what you are doing, which is basically nothing. Who is Milk? Nobody knows. You have never said one thing about yourself. You are an endless commentator about everyone else's experiences. Never once have you posted about your own life. Everything with you is fiction, fantasy and theoretical. Some of us who lived it and are in real life contact with dozens of other survivors just don't want to waste our time playing math wizz with the likes of you. Does that makes sense? I am not slamming deborah, or buzzkill or others who use the internet ina  positive way to spread information and do research. I am slightng people like you who use it for no other reason to involve themselves in something for their own twisted needs.


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and you've got all these friends who you just know are going to send their kids away, then stop wasting your fucking time talking to me, and start working on these fucking friends of yours.Isn't that the next logical step?


Real life people don't enjoy talking child abuse 24/7 over the coffee table. They know what happened to me. There children are just now being born. My point was they fit the socio-economic profile of potential program parents. Hopefully their kids will not need programs. But judging by their selfishness, ambition and dismissive attitude of what I tell them, who knows. But I know what you were trying to say, if I don't use every spare moment of my time to spread the gospel about private child abuse I am somehow lacking in authenticity.

See, in my opinion, one guest program survivor who tells their program experience is worth ten thousand of your posts. If I wanted to hear a commentator, I'd turn on Bill O'Reilly. I come to this forum to discuss and talk with other people who have been through this industry as a kid or parent or both. The bystanders, I don't feel any obligation to prove anything to you and your judgments ring completely hollow.

Thousands of posts and I don't even know if you are a boy or girl, man or woman, teen or adult. But now you will tell us how this carefully concocted show of yours with complete cast of characters is in truth to help the kids, right? You are trying to show the parents how c.r.a.z.y this industry is by pretending to be kids who want to kill their parents? Or by exaggerating every claim to the umpteenth degree to try and prove your point? One sentence of experience in a program or as a program parent, speaks louder than novels full of your fictional crap ever will.

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Be strong
« on: February 10, 2007, 02:27:11 PM »
Quote from: ""Milk Gargling Death Penalty""

:roll: Not this shit again. Let's see how bottom-up it is when the fine folks of a Boise County grassroots effort reply to a mild-mannered 30-something accountant type's description of this business.


And then link them to a forum where Milk and luke conspire to kill parents? yeah.. very effective.  :roll:

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The Troubled Teen Industry / The Reality of Fornits
« on: February 10, 2007, 02:24:56 PM »
Look I am not going to get into some statistical theoretical debate about supposed 'data'.  If you have another view than me, that's great. I disagree with it. I think you just got to the base of everest and are telling everyone the hard part is over. Look up for god sakes, you haven't even started climbing the mountain. I am not saying stop, I am saying, look up and appreciate what is ahead. Don't lie to people.

You can make it seem like posting on fornits is some sort of noble cause. I don't pretend that it is, the real work is done in real life talking to real people, writing hand written letters, not confronting people on a forum or signing online petitions or mass emails.

But go get back on that horse, white knight, lead the troops to victory in your online war against programs.

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Tacitus' Realm / Branson defends space trips at eco-prize launch
« on: February 10, 2007, 01:49:34 PM »
Branson defends space trips at eco-prize launch
By Steve Connor, Science Editor
Published: 10 February 2007

Sir Richard Branson yesterday defended his plans to offer £100,000 trips into space while at the same time setting up a £12.8m prize for scientists to devise a way of absorbing carbon dioxide released in the atmosphere.

He was speaking at the launch of the Virgin Earth Challenge, which offers a $25m reward for the invention that most successfully removes significant quantities of carbon dioxide over a period of 10 years without harming the environment.

Sir Richard was asked how he could justify such a prize when he owns an airlineand has set up a separate space tourism company. "Let's confront the airline question," he said. "I have an airline. I can afford to ground that airline today. My family have got businesses in mobile phones and other businesses, but if we do ground that airline today, British Airways will just take up the space. So what we are doing is making sure we acquire the most carbon dioxide-friendly planes. We're making sure that 100 per cent of profits we make from our transportation businesses are put back into things like the prize."

Virgin Galactic, his space-tourism company, will use hybrid rocket motors and turbo-fan engines that will be "almost" environmentally benign, he said, and the cost of a space ride could come down to the price of an economy-class ticket.

Flanked by Al Gore, the former American vice president, he said he was offering the biggest scientific prize in history to stimulate interest in the technology of capturing and storing millions of tonnes of man-made carbon dioxide, the principal greenhouse gas.

The five-man judging panel will also include Jim Lovelock, the inventor of the Gaia theory, Jim Hansen, a leading American climatologist, Tim Flannery, an Australian zoologist, and Sir Crispin Tickell, the former British ambassador to the UN.

If the judges believe a project should win, Sir Richard will pay $5m at the time of their decision and $20m at the end of 10 years - if the goals are achieved. He said he had no idea whether the prize would ever be won but that unless we could devise a way of curbing carbon dioxide levels we faced a major extinction of life.

"We will lose half of all species on Earth, including the polar bear and the walrus, we will lose the coral reefs, including the Great Barrier Reef, 100 million people will be displaced due to rising sea levels, farmlands will become deserts, rainforests wastelands," Sir Richard said.

Mr Gore said the prize should not deflect from other attempts at curbing emissions. "It should not be seen as a substitute for, or distraction from, the main aim, which is to reduce the amount of carbon dioxide ," Mr Gore said. "We are now facing a planetary emergency and things that would not have been considered in the past ought now to be considered."

Tony Juniper, director of Friends of the Earth, welcomed the initiative but warned that more should be done to encourage more environmentally friendly forms of travel. "Many of the ways of tackling climate change, such as energy efficiency and renewables, already exist, and it is essential that these are implemented as soon as possible. We cannot afford to wait for futuristic solutions which may never materialise," Mr Juniper said.

"Sir Richard must also look at his business activities and the contribution they make to climate change. The world will find it very difficult to tackle climate change if air travel continues to expand and space tourism is developed," he added.

http://news.independent.co.uk/world/sci ... 255698.ece

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Be strong
« on: February 10, 2007, 01:41:43 PM »
Quote from: ""TS Waygookin""
The blame game is like playing grand theft auto. Its good for quick thrills, some gore, and a few laughs. In the end you are left with nothing but a crappy game you wished you hadn't spent the money on in the first place.


We could indulge in the blame game, but it won't achieve that desired end goal.

So again I ask, whose balls shall we kick? I'm not talking about one of those sissy World Cup Soccer kicks either. I talking about a 6 Nations Rugby Tournament kick to the metaphorical testicles of some group, program, or random individual.

And tee hee hee.. the random individual doesn't even have to have anything to do with programs. It would just be hella fun to do anyway for giggles!


Great question.. and it runs your brain in circles because the answer is everybody is to blame. This is a bottom up societal phenomenon, not some dictated mandate from Fuhrer Reagan. They didn't force parents to send their kids away to private programs. The legal system will not lock a kid up for as long as private programs for the things these kids are doing. A kid would have to commit murder or something to get years of lockup, and parents send their kids away for smoking pot and ditching school. There is a serious disconnect there. I don't think it's society pushing the idea on the masses, I think it's an obvious idea that anyone could come up with, that creeps into existence through various economic, political and social forces are fertile. The seed was planted a hell of a long time ago, and it's now bearing fruit in full season. Many of fruit drop from this tree and set seed.

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Be strong
« on: February 10, 2007, 01:31:39 PM »
Quote from: ""TS Waygookin""
How we wax poetically about the past. Yet what do we intend to do about the future?

Who balls shall we kick my good brothers and sisters?


Our parents? Or we could always blame society...

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Be strong
« on: February 10, 2007, 01:26:12 PM »

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Be strong
« on: February 10, 2007, 01:19:43 PM »
Knock Knock

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Be strong
« on: February 10, 2007, 01:14:20 PM »
They believe we are brainwashed by the marijuana plant and drug culture. There is no real truth in this reality, just various competing sets of ideas. Personally I'd rather enjoy the more enjoyable sets of values and experiences, but there's a lot of masochistic people who love to torture themselves their whole life in search of an imaginary prize, ironically no better than their bland existence on this plane...

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The Troubled Teen Industry / The Reality of Fornits
« on: February 10, 2007, 12:44:27 PM »
Quote from: ""Milk Gargling Death Penalty""
I'm getting really, really sick of this "they're growing" or "they're socially acceptable" or "it's the next logical option". Bullshit!

The truth hurts.

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In fact, it is socially and logically impossible for it to be the next logical option, simply because of the price tag. Professional child abuse is expensive, and most of the fuckheads out there are perfectly content to do it themselves.

The juvie justice system has programs too, not sure why they don't get discussed here more often. Just as much abuse occurs in them. But hey, it ain't white kids so who gives a shit.

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Show me one good, solid piece of evidence (I'd love to see someone do that psychiatrist thing on even a small sample size) that this industry is growing, or growing at the rate that people have been claiming, over the last five years.

Lets take the obvious example, WWASPS. If anyone should be shut down, it's them. The amount of negative press, shut downs, legal inquiries, the shit that's happened to them. They shouldn't exist. They've doubled in size over the past five years. They have netter hundreds of millions of dollars over that time and effectively passed legislation in a state called Montana perpetuating their SCL program. Proof? It's staring us in the face.

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Back the claim up. Count heads. Of course, that is an impossible request; only the industry has those numbers, and anything that comes from them- even unofficially- is liable to be bullshit.

Any investor worth his salt can tell study a company and find whether they are growing, shrinking, worth investing in, not investing in. Right now this industry is paying gold dirt, and there is a gold rush on to build these programs all over the place. WWASPS has shown us how to build a financial and power empire on troubled teens. There's a pile of gold out there in the form of parents who don't have the time or patience to deal with their teen, and don't mind spending 4 grand a month to pay someone else to do it. Now my generation is having children. I have enough friends to know that their kids are going to end up in programs, you can spot the families a mile away.

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Remember, a lot of the "new" programs are just old, defeated ones repackaged. The industry numbers- if they're just not making them up- are probably still counting Casa By The Sea and Moravia Academy.

Casa has been reopened and is now currenly operating! WWASPS has opened more programs than have been shut down.


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uoThere are shutdowns that Fornits never hears about. There are lawsuits that never reach the news.

New programs also don't make the news, and are less likely to.


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Consider HLA. HLA is bleeding to death- this is common knowledge around here- but if you looked to them as a source of info, you'd think they were going strong. They're not.

How big is HLA? How many kids go there? Does it make parents less or more comfortable to seek help in an industry that seems to be doing a lot of fight abuse. When in reality, the effort is tiny. A program here and there are attacked by disgruntled parents. Most aren't.

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Again I point to the fact that the APA and the Surgeon General both disapprove. A crowd of idiots on some daytime talk show, who have no idea what they're doing and don't care, does not a majority make.

So you think the Surgeon General has more in common with most parents than does Dr Phil, Maury or Oprah? Who's advice do you think more people listen to. How many people do you think even know the name of the Surgeon General?

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If there is one thing I'd like to direct at Fornits, the one message I hope to really get through people's heads, it is this: Shut up, quit whining, get your nose to the grindstone like DJ and Deb have, and start ripping these places to bits.

Oh.. so that's why you post here, to motivate everyone? lol...

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I actually find the concern over profanity to be a useful litmus test. If you're more worried about the profanity than the child abuse, there's something fucking wrong with you.


Hey we agree on something.

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Be strong
« on: February 10, 2007, 12:24:56 PM »
There were some working class kids including me in the wwasps owned program I was at. The really sickening thing is its usually the poorer families who end up getting into the referring thing, out of a fear of keeping their own kid there because the family rep is telling them they are doing horrible and will die if they come home, and that bull crap. My dad was definitely not rich when I was sent away... he works as a manager at a fast food restaurant.. but my grandfather had left a 20 thousand dollar college savings account for me when I was born, and since I was 17 already it was almost up and he used that. When I came home finally a while later his house was gone and he was living in an apt. with no furniture. All those creditors finally caught up with him. I hear that the college savings thing is a common trend.   All the other places I was at prior were payed for by the state or by mediCal insurance. So the last seven months until I turned 18 in a private program cost 20g plus he refered one kid to the program.  ::noway::  ::noway::  ::puke:: The best part was the letters saying how I was ruining him financially and he was going to lose the house because of me. For a while I had believed that, until I found out how he really payed for it. I never understood that.. did the program tell him to say those things or was he purposely lying to make me feel bad? None of the other facilities or programs I was at worked so hard at turning father against son, it was the opposite. Fuck people who support this kind of destructive ideology.

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Be strong
« on: February 10, 2007, 11:57:40 AM »
My younger brother started falling into the same patterns as me when I was a teen and my parents recently came to me for help since I am an expert on the industry and teens and everything. I sat down for a full day coming up with a new plan on how to deal with my little brothers depression and anxiety and acting out without getting involved with quacks or child torturers. So we decided to give the boy a little scare. We figured that since he was sad and worried all the time, we would put him in a situation so much worse that he would realize how good his life really is, and a situation so scary that when he gets home the everyday worries will pale in comparison. So me and a few buddies of mine, with my parents permission of course, and we "kidnapped" him and took him away for couple days to an isolated motel room out in the desert. We kept him blindfolded for the couple days, but treated him well. He was so scared he pissed his pants regularly, and even shat his pants once. He begged for his life and to be freed. He said he would do anything. We all were trying not to laugh while this was going on. The plan was working wonderfully. We took him on a Friday afternoon and it had to be over by Monday for school so we kept him isolated by himself in the bathroom of the motel room and slid pizza under the door, and told him he could drink out of the sink. He still had no idea who we were. We told him that we were from an international ring of sex slaves and he was going to be sold to a middle eastern business man as a teenage sex slave, and he believed us! This is when he really started to freak out. He kept trying to bargain with us, saying he could pay us thousands of dollars to let him free. He was shaking, you could here it in his rattled voice when he spoke. So after a few days of this and telling him that worse things were going to happen, he was pretty much ready to lose it. He stopped using the toilet, and just lied down in his own mess and made weird moaning sounds like a fog horn. It was hilarious. We put our masks back on and took him out on Sunday evening after it got dark, and put him in the car. We drove him out into the middle of the desert and told him he was too much trouble and the arab guy didn't want him anymore he wanted someone more compliant. So we told him to dig a hole or we'd shoot him. Once he was done digging the hole we said that if he didn't comply, that hole was going to be his grave. This part might seem extreme but it is crucial. This is when I finally saw the finally bit of will inside of him, give up. He was broken. He said he would do anything we want, just don't hurt him. It was over. We drove back to the city with him blindfolded and told him we were going to meet his benefactor and new arab daddy. Instead, we pulled into our house, and we took off the blindfold and he saw our parents standing on the driveway. That must have been a surprise to him, he really looked shocked! He was so happy to see us he just fell down on the ground in the fetal position, sobbing like a baby. This is the grateful son my parents always wanted.

TBS are bad places. You can deal with these problems on your own at home in creative ways that don't cost much money at all!

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Re: The Reality of Fornits
« on: February 10, 2007, 11:43:04 AM »
Quote from: ""Milk Gargling Death Penalty""
Consider the size of his board. If parents were in any way attracted, and this was in any way "mainstream" as I hear so often claimed around here, he'd have many times the population of Fornits. BUT HE DOESN'T. Think on why.


'Cuz most people don't want to discuss their private issues in public? Lon is a fag and his website sucks? Take your pick.

Then take a look at the size of this industry, it's trends and growth and then tell me with a straight face this ideology and it's practical implementation are not mainstream thinking. The only reason people don't want these places built around them, is because they are afraid of the kids, which is a reason why these places exist in the first place.

When a crowd of screaming people are stomping and yelling with all their emotion at a 12 year old girl on stage on the Maury Povich show that she's a whore and needs boot camp, it's hard to believe it's a minority.

If you don't believe me, try this experiment. Request information packets from the worst programs you know about, wwasps, cedu and other less known ones. Then take them to a professionally licensed psychologist or psychiatrist and tell them you are thinking of sending your kid away. What do you think they will say in most cases after reviewing the literature?

Sure if people knew the truth, and I mean the whole nitty gritty truth with hidden camera action of seminars and abuse and all that, then yes they would object. As it is presented today, and that is what matters most, it is still a legitimate and even noble cause. It's seen as the next organic option when your teen gets out of step, it has embedded itself into American culture deeply.

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The Troubled Teen Industry / The Reality of Fornits
« on: February 10, 2007, 11:37:11 AM »
Quote from: ""Cassandra""
If they're looking for someone to sell them The Answer® all packaged up neat-n-tidy like with a clearly printed price tag, there's always Struggling Turkeys.


 :P  :D

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Please - I need help.
« on: February 10, 2007, 11:35:28 AM »
Quote from: ""Guest""
ugh..whats wroong withthem? Why do they pretend to be parents ?its so weird


Back in the mid 90's it was popular at various programs to have the kids write letters to other kids posing as their parents, to help the other kid solve their issues and help them see their behavior from their families perspective. I think a few of those survivors are living in the shadows of this forum.

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