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« on: April 09, 2002, 02:29:00 AM »
did this only happen in springfield? I was there 86-88. I can't remember if it was every night or only on Fri. nights. That crap was worse than sitting in yer chair for 12 hours. Buncha sweaty guys all manwiched against their will in a tiny room, waiting for an eternity to get the hell out of that room and into the parking lot for fresh air. It must have been only on fri. nights, cause of the parents being there. God those were some lame ways to spend your weekends as a kid.
I have to admit that the guys rap after the parents left was usually entertaining (unless the focus was on YOU...)
My feelings on straight are that yes it fucked some people up, others it helped.
Was way too long of a program for me, I learned a lot , but not anything that I couldn't have learned in a few month program.
I remember people there who definately needed
psych. help, people who shouldn't have been there in the first place (partied a few times
-parents overreacted). I remember some kid spreading empitago (sp?), crabs etc. That
was wonderful (I never got it though).
I remember that most of the staff there seemed genuinely concerned about people (at least when I was there). Ones that I remember are Steve Tourney, Brendan ? , Rob Hockersmith, Brady or Grady?, Karen ?, anyway it's wierd that I remember these names after all these years. Steve Tourney was definately the best rap leader.
All in all, I disagree totally with the straight methods. I got "honest", graduated and all, but never quite forgave my family
for putting me there. Treating chemical dependency is a little more complicated than
one rehab/method fits all. I feel I lost out on what could have been some fun years. Oh yeah, after graduating I found out that the confidentiality/honesty part of the program which is supposed to be the "cog" of recovery was basically bullshit, when my brother (never in the program) asked me about some crap that I talked about in a rap
group. Hmmm, confidential?- those staff guys notes were going STRAIGHT to the parents.
great.
props to Hank Israel and Guy Youngberg for their entertaining "performances" in group during my stay.