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Lighthouse of northwest florida (fka VCA )/ Rebekah / Roloff ) / VICTORY CHRISTIAN ACADEMY JAY FLORIDA
« on: December 05, 2004, 09:35:00 PM »
oh yeah, by the way, you are definitely free to call me names and say what you want. go ahead, vent your anger on a stranger,...let it all out honey. do what you have to do. hopefully you don't let the anger ruin your life. there is a time to let things go before it consumes you. that would only hurt you. ill repeat it .. it only hurts you. yeah, be as you like. sound like you want. cuz no matter what your mind can cleverly come up with, guess what,.....im not gonna goonandcryboutit! im gonna keep things respectable and talk like the adult that i am. some people never grow up. some people never take good advice. some people never succeed. sincerely, girl,im not trying to steer you wrong. Again,. just suggestions.  god bless

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Lighthouse of northwest florida (fka VCA )/ Rebekah / Roloff ) / VICTORY CHRISTIAN ACADEMY JAY FLORIDA
« on: December 05, 2004, 09:19:00 PM »
Hey now, I'm not condoning actions of those who abused their authority in any way. I'm not sayin i didn't have to deal with enough myself, i'll keep that to myself. Like I said, I've been around, in and out of programs and places where believe it or not, worse things have happened. Those girls who have been abused in some way do have the right and should have the oppurtunity to seek justice and such. I'm more or less addressing those girls who think it was rough because they couldn't have access to meaningless trash, or they had a job, hated their buddy and had to write lines. you know the kind. If you don't know of any, it was probably you! mostly it was the spoiled youngens. secondly, I didn't know i was talking to just you, but hey, if the shoe fits...you know the rest. honestly, i've dealt with the emotions that were left after i did my year and some odd months. i'm what you call a succesful and productive member of society, now anyways, and what my point im trying to relay is i refuse to let any of my obstacles that i've already made it thru affect my future anymore. i am a christian, not a bible thumper,. i lead a normal life. im not trying to insult anyone. what im saying are only suggestions. I do agree that there have been cases where some staff have gone to far. i've definitely witnessed many. your damn right. maybe it should be closed,maybe it shouldn't. who knows if it will. in the meantime though, how these girls deal with what they say happened is all up to them. they are in charge of their destiny. if they are lucky enough to be home, why couldn't they seek help and straighten out their own lives and lead them selves towards their idea of success. i'm not perfect. i've just maybe....maybe.. got a little more wisdom about trying to make a life out of broken plans, and situations that aren't fair, that i had no control over. and that's an under statement. and i know you'll do what ur gonna do regardless. im just lettin ya know. far from brainwashed,tho never that. shoot, having my own thoughts and ideas is one reason i was court ordered to go to vca. if u think im totally full of caca dont read what i write. what doesn't kill us makes us stronger, right. as for me, i know thats true, im living proof.  god bless

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Lighthouse of northwest florida (fka VCA )/ Rebekah / Roloff ) / VICTORY CHRISTIAN ACADEMY JAY FLORIDA
« on: December 04, 2004, 04:52:00 PM »
been to many programs, interventions, detention centers, jail, shelters, you name it. vca was the closest thing to a strict, religious summercamp....was it not. of course that's just my opinion. it's understandable to me that some  resent the fact that you missed out on the fun things back at home, and your freedoms were put on pause, but every single girl can take the positive things they learned from the experience or they can dwell about the negative aspects. growing up requires us to learn from bad mistakes and be responsible for ourselves, not desperately searching for those to blame. im not downing anyones remarks made here. i respect everyones opinion , and to a certain extent, i know where you are coming from, depending on how old you are.The maturity level will determine what moves you make from here,....now that you are home and are in charge of your own decisions.Proving that victory was unfair and unjust, inhumane and an abomination wont change a darn thing in our lives, ..Will it? maybe i am wrong. all for now.   god bless to those reppin bk to fullest, hope all is well with ashley evans and js  jaky j. stay your but out of trouble.  read a book or something

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