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The Troubled Teen Industry / Aspen Achievement Academy
« on: February 11, 2003, 01:27:00 PM »
It has been almost a year since my first posting requesting info. I must tell you after many hours of research and a site visit, we decided not to send our daughter to a wilderness camp. Yes, we rejected the recommendation of her counselor and physician and I must say, we made the right choice. We chose instead to move with her to a safe environment. We have also stopped the sessions with the psycologist. In her case, we felt much of her behavior was due to the torment of a sexual predator and inappropriate peer pressure at school and in the therapy sessions. It was also due to a lack of connection with family, both immediate and distant.
Today, our daughter is a happy, healthy and responsible young adult. She has managaed to get back on track at school, maintaining a 4.0 even with honors classes and a part-time tutoring job. Acceptance to a good college is once again important to her. Family time is also now an important part of her life. Her self-esteem and confidence have improved significantly. Accomplishment with hard work has replaced the sense of entitlement she once exhibited.
Our daughter now realizes life will be disappointing and difficult at times and that's ok. Life is about choices. Making good ones will yield good results. She also knows that no matter what, we will also love her and be here to help her through her struggles. We will never give up on or abandon her. We will always share in her joyous moments and in her times of sorrow not just because we are her parents, but because we love and care about her as a wonderful human being who has many great things to offer the world.
Today, our daughter is a happy, healthy and responsible young adult. She has managaed to get back on track at school, maintaining a 4.0 even with honors classes and a part-time tutoring job. Acceptance to a good college is once again important to her. Family time is also now an important part of her life. Her self-esteem and confidence have improved significantly. Accomplishment with hard work has replaced the sense of entitlement she once exhibited.
Our daughter now realizes life will be disappointing and difficult at times and that's ok. Life is about choices. Making good ones will yield good results. She also knows that no matter what, we will also love her and be here to help her through her struggles. We will never give up on or abandon her. We will always share in her joyous moments and in her times of sorrow not just because we are her parents, but because we love and care about her as a wonderful human being who has many great things to offer the world.