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just a reply . i didnt say i pity graduates, only graduates who graduated at the expense of others' feelings. yes i saw a few and was actually convinced that they gave a crap until a few weeks after they graduated they went back to the streets or whatever dark alley they came from. truly a philosophy of "act as if. . ." is complete bull! i failed at elan because i wouldnt scream and cuss in encounter groups. im just not an angry person, still to this day i transform anger into forgiveness and try to understand why people act the way they do, not blindly lashing out and degrading and humiliating others.so what i say stands. i think it is quite shameful to assume material or social gain at the expense of others. elan just contributes to the evils of society as we know it today. based not on values but apearrance. that place is no better than a sweatshop! in fact i think it is potentially very psychologically damaging, especially to someone who might already be prone to violent or abusive behavior.
peace unto you
benjamin

lovin you all. we weathered the storm and i really have little pity for those who graduated at the expense of the feelings of others. . .
but life goes on, id like to know how you all are doing. i saw kurt kazlauskis a number of times selling veggie burritos on dead tour before jerry garcia died... are you out there somewhere kurt>?
are any of the early nineties creew around?
my name used to be rob pfeiffer. . .not such a long story about why, but you all from the adoption groups might know bits and pieces. . .anyway. i want to hear from all my peers and relationships from that time.
[ This Message was edited by: ember on 2004-04-04 23:56 ]