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General Interest => Let It Bleed => Topic started by: Salome on November 15, 2004, 06:04:00 PM
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I would appreciate concise, user friendly directions. Thank you in advance.
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Well here's something about hand jobs (http://http://fornits.com/wwf/viewtopic.php?topic=6192&forum=33&4) which could be some good food for thought to get you started...
Since I'm a hetero guy I know more about receiving blow jobs than giving them...but I would say start w/ the hands then begin with the mouth using the tongue a little still touching the guys balls with your fingers..(I can't believe I'm typing this) then start doing it harder and faster, back off a little, then start in again..
Maybe a female would be interested in fielding this one? :em:
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You have been most helpful. I think it is best to hear it from a guy such as yourself because guys know what they like.
Please continue with your informative advice.
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Swirl your tongue around on the tip. It's real sensitive there.
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Salome
I would find it easier to give you instructions whilst staring at your scalp as I stand before you then it is to give you the step by step here.
Maybe make this face: ::bigmouth:: :exclaim: :exclaim:
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Try suckin on an ALTOID mint just before "performing"... that SPARKS things up a bit!
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Thank you so much. Keep the info coming. Besides me, I've got three girlfriends who want to bone up on their BJ skills, so this is all good info.
By the way, to the guy who suggests that a BJ end with a burger, how about a "thank you" from the blow jobee instead.
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I always wondered if that would sting. Guess not.
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On 2005-04-21 12:25:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Man, I have to say, this forum isn't the same since it changed it's name.
Why, Fro, why?"
Were you looking for more threads like this, perhaps? :lol:
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I'm laughing my tail off!
But no.
I gotta say my girlfriends LOVED the responses to this thread.
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On 2004-11-16 18:41:00, Salome wrote:
"Thank you so much. Keep the info coming. Besides me, I've got three girlfriends who want to bone up on their BJ skills, so this is all good info.
By the way, to the guy who suggests that a BJ end with a burger, how about a "thank you" from the blow jobee instead.
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Are you looking for volunteers to critique your work?
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When guys say no to fellation, we mean NO
:smile:
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what guy turns down a blow job?
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A disturbed one.
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On 2005-04-22 09:56:00, Dysfunction Junction wrote:
Are you looking for volunteers to critique your work?
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Whatever you do, NEVER tell a woman, "Wow! You give better head than your sister!" For some weird reason she won't appreciate the compliment
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On 2005-04-23 12:09:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2005-04-22 09:56:00, Dysfunction Junction wrote:
Are you looking for volunteers to critique your work?
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Whatever you do, NEVER tell a woman, "Wow! You give better head than your sister!" For some weird reason she won't appreciate the compliment"
"You give head better than a guy!" isn't music to our ears really either unless you're into that kinda shit.
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Study: Fellatio may significantly decrease the risk of breast cancer in women Thursday, October 2, 2003 Posted: 9:19 AM EDT (1319 GMT)
(AP) -- Women who perform the act of fellatio and swallow semen on a regular basis, one to two times a week, may reduce their risk of breast cancer by up to 40 percent, a North Carolina State University study found.
Doctors had never suspected a link between the act of fellatio and breast cancer, but new research being performed at North Carolina State University is starting to suggest that there could be an important link between the two.
In a study of over 15,000 women suspected of having performed regular fellatio and swallowed the ejaculatory fluid, over the past ten years, the researchers found that those actually having performed the act regularly, one to two times a week, had a lower occurance of breast cancer than those who had not. There was no increased risk, however, for those who did not regularly perform.
"I think it removes the last shade of doubt that fellatio is actually a healthy act," said Dr. A.J. Kramer of Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, who was not involved in the research. "I am surprised by these findings, but am also excited that the researchers may have discovered a relatively easy way to lower the occurance of breast cancer in women."
The University researchers stressed that, though breast cancer is relatively uncommon, any steps taken to reduce the risk would be a wise decision.
"Only with regular occurance will your chances be reduced, so I encourage all women out there to make fellatio an important part of their daily routine," said Dr. Helena Shifteer, one of the researchers at the University. "Since the emergence of the research, I try to fellate at least once every other night to reduce my chances."
The study is reported in Friday's Journal of Medical Research.
In 1991, 43,582 women died of breast cancer, as reported by the National Cancer Institute.
Dr. Len Lictepeen, deputy chief medical officer for the American Cancer Society, said women should not overlook or "play down" these findings.
"This will hopefully change women's practice and patterns, resulting in a severe drop in the future number of cases," Lictepeen said.
Sooner said the research shows no increase in the risk of breast cancer in those who are, for whatever reason, not able to fellate regularly.
"There's definitely fertile ground for more research. Many have stepped forward to volunteer for related research now in the planning stages," he said.
Almost every woman is, at some point, going to perform the act of fellatio, but it is the frequency at which this event occurs that makes the difference, say researchers. Also key seems to be the protein and enzyme count in the semen, but researchers are again waiting for more test data.
The reasearch consisted of two groups, 6,246 women ages 25 to 45 who had performed fellatio and swallowed on a regular basis over the past five to ten years, and 9,728 women who had not or did not swallow. The group of women who had performed and swallowed had a breast cancer rate of 1.9 percent and the group who had not had a breast cancer rate of 10.4 percent.
"The findings do suggest that there are other causes for breast cancer besides the absence of regular fellatio," Shafteer said. "It's a cause, not THE cause."
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the best BJ's I ever had were from girlfriend who was even better than the hookers I'd patronized, she used the same technique, only with love and great eye contact.
I don't know how she did it exactly, but there was lots of spit sloshing around, you could tell from both the sensation and the sound.
the only way I could describe the feeling is: :rofl: only I wasn't laughing.
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On 2005-08-04 11:17:00, Anonymous wrote:
"the best BJ's I ever had were from girlfriend who was even better than the hookers I'd patronized, she used the same technique, only with love and great eye contact.
I don't know how she did it exactly, but there was lots of spit sloshing around, you could tell from both the sensation and the sound.
the only way I could describe the feeling is: :rofl: only I wasn't laughing.
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I've been told it feels nice when the tongue swirls around the tip. Any truth to this?
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YES!
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[ This Message was edited by: shanlea on 2005-08-16 14:22 ]
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I don't know about the Altoids, but I once had a guy ask me to use listerine before I blew him because he liked the tingly sensation on his cock. (yes, by breath smelled fine.)
I don't really know specifically what it is that I do, but I've gotten lots of compliments. #1 thing is, you really have to WANT to do it, and not just out of a sense of obligation, which I guess is something people feel on both sides of the sexual fence in some cases. i.e. that they do things for their partners they really don't want to do, but they feel that they have to do. Unfortunately, that doesn't really make for very good sex. My #1 rule is, if it's icky for you, then you have no business doing it in the first place. ("You" in the general sense, not you specifically.)
As for me, I love to suck cock. I like it more than sex, actually. I'd much rather be suckin a dick than getting banged, (although I like to get banged, too) and swallowing is the best part.
A lot of people talk about deep throating. I myself have a pretty sensitive gag reflex, and can only get about maybe 6 or 7 inches max (if I'm super SUPER relaxed), but really, that's not as important as working the head and what shaft you can get in there. If it gets too far back there, the suckee can't feel much of anything that's that far back anyway. It's more of a visual turn on than a physical one, to see someone take it if you are that large. Where you get the most sensation is right up in the front of the mouth, as opposed to jamming your jimmy all the way back into someone's esophagous.
Trust me, I wish I had the capacity to deep throat a 10 or 11 incher, simply for bragging rights, but it ain't gonna happen. However, I still manage to get a lot of trade, when I bother to go out looking for some, and they all seem to like my technique.
Sometimes I like to keep the guy in my mouth after he cums and let him just rest there. (This is one of my favorite things.) If you are gentle, (very gentle) you can gradually work him up again and get a few more loads out of em. It's great to see how many you can get, and to feel him get hard again in your mouth after he's cum for the second time already. It's a total rush! I once slept all night with a guy's cock in my mouth. That was wonderful. I think he came, like three or four times throughout the night. I wish I could do that every night.
Someone on here was talking about eye contact? Ew. That's kinda weird. I don't like looking at someone from that angle, either as the blower or blowee. If I'm being blown, the other person's eyes are rolled too far upwards towards me and it just looks uncomfortable for them and weird. Same the other way. Oral sex is just not good for eye contact, IMO. I'd rather just keep my eyes on what I'm doin. He can look me in the eye later as I pack him off home.
I wish I could come up with more specific things, but I don't really think consciously about what I'm doing when I give BJs, I guess.
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I didn't realize until the very end of the post that this is a guy talking. A bit unsettling...
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I didn't get a sense this was guy on guy head. Why do you think it was a guy who posted this?
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If I'm being blown, the other person's eyes are rolled too far upwards towards me and it just looks uncomfortable for them and weird. Same the other way.
I think this part gives it away.
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On 2005-08-20 06:55:00, Anonymous wrote:
" He can look me in the eye later as I pack him off home.
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and this is sort of a giveaway, no?
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On 2005-08-20 09:52:00, Anonymous wrote:
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If I'm being blown, the other person's eyes are rolled too far upwards towards me and it just looks uncomfortable for them and weird. Same the other way.
I think this part gives it away."
I hear chicks all the time refer to being blown.
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On 2005-08-20 10:23:00, Dysfunction Junction wrote:
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On 2005-08-20 06:55:00, Anonymous wrote:
" He can look me in the eye later as I pack him off home.
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and this is sort of a giveaway, no?
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I'm not really sure what this phrase means.
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How to put it delicately...
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I believe somebody in the bible got smitten for it.
tee hee.
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http://urbanlegends.about.com/library/b ... r_cure.htm (http://urbanlegends.about.com/library/bl_fell_cancer_cure.htm)
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On 2005-08-20 07:22:00, Dysfunction Junction wrote:
"I didn't realize until the very end of the post that this is a guy talking. A bit unsettling...
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Yeah, I'm a guy. What's so unsettling about it, though?
I've actually had a couple of bi guys ask me "Jeez, why can't girls suck dick like this?"
I don't see how "packing a guy off home" would be telling, though. Women can send a guy home, too without being a whore or a slut. Not all women have to have a guy stay with them all night after they get it on, you know.
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Hey more power to you! I for one have no problem that you are a guy.
So what is it that "us chicks" should be doing fellatio wise compared to what you are doing? Do tell.
I mean I've had dudes and chicks and both have provided me with sufficent oral sex. Maybe your bi friends are really not in fact bi and can't fully come to terms they just outright prefer men. No insults intended here.
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On 2005-08-21 01:09:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Hey more power to you! I for one have no problem that you are a guy.
So what is it that "us chicks" should be doing fellatio wise compared to what you are doing? Do tell.
I mean I've had dudes and chicks and both have provided me with sufficent oral sex. Maybe your bi friends are really not in fact bi and can't fully come to terms they just outright prefer men. No insults intended here."
I would tend to agree with you, if it was an isolated incident, but it's not. You wouldn't believe how many ads you would see on craigslist for guys asking for some decent head from other men and how they are complaining about how they can't get a good one from their wives or girlfriends. And I actually really do feel that these guys are straight or bi. They just want some good head, for the most part. When you close your eyes, a blow job can be from just about anyone you can imagine. Trust me, if a guy is horny enough, he'll turn to soft fruit for pleasure if it has to come to that. (According to Patsy Stone, anyway! :razz: )
I wish I could tell you specifically what I was doing that was so gosh darn great, but like I said, I don't really consciously think about it when I'm doing it, so I dunno what I do that's so wonderful, and I'm always quite shocked that guys think I'm so good at it. And I actually stopped sucking one of those guys when he said that "why can't girls" line and said to him "hey man! There ARE girls out there who are good at sucking cock, you know!"
On the other side of this, I keep hearing about all of these professed so called "straight" girls who get all grossed out talking about how much they don't like dick or sucking dick. (However, I also know PLENTY of straight girls who LOVE dick and can't get enough of it.) I just always wonder about all of those straight girls who have that "ick" factor around dick. I tend to think maybe it's probably how these girls were raised, most likely. That it was not ok to like their own bodies, or sex, or be turned on by another person's genitals, whether they be male or female, and that sex and sexual activity was gross. So even though they may have consciously grew out of that mindset, maybe there was this subconscious part that was left behind?
What I really don't understand is, what's so awful about swallowing? I think it's the best part, man! That's like the prize at the bottom of the crackerjack box! And the more copious the gushing, the happier I am.
The only advice I could give to "you chicks", really, is to be INTO IT! If you don't want to do it, then don't bother. The most satisfying thing about receiving a blow job is the fact that your partner is as into it as you are. The other thing is, guys shouldn't be mutes! There's nothing wrong with coaching. I like my partners to be communicative. If there's something I'm doing wrong, I like for my partners to tell me what to do that might feel better. You know "slower... faster... not so hard... a little to the left." Don't worry about bruising my ego. This is about your blow job, so I'm into making you feel good, because that's what turns me on. So part of the responsibility is on the men, here, and being communicative to their partners in what they really like when they get blown.
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I think our society makes it hard for a man to be bi and I think those guys professing to be straight are in fact bi if they are getting head from other guys.
When it comes to chicks giving blow jobs and not liking it well it can be a combination of things like thinking it's degrading because that's the message we have been sent all our lives, not liking it when the guy wants to shoot his wad in our mouths, or how shall we say this, the guy might be a bit musty between the legs.
If guys are letting other guys ejaculate in their mouths than I can see why the guys are beating me. I think it tastes bitter and it puts the gag reflex of mine in overdrive.
Another thing, I'm not just going to give head to just anyone, but when I do give it I do give it all I got. Here's some suggestions for men though, don't expect a blow job if you are musty and don't try to make women feel obligated to do it. Let women choose to do it, don't ask for it!
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Man its not fair, my girl friend, she wont give me head for anything!!! She just wont do it, its crazy. And my best bi friend offered to give me head, at the time I was like :eek: its just kinda ackward. haha.
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Have you ever asked her why she won't give you head? Speaking for myself I get annoyed if a man asks me for it and that just causes me to not give it.
The other thing is that maybe she has been taught that it's degrading and dirty like many of us women have been taught.
How many times have you heard guys insult chicks in school saying "suck my dick" or how word leaked out that some chick was drunk over the weekend and sucked someone off. Chicks are even crueler in regards to this. A chick will be the main one spreading rumors about what a dirty whore someone is.
Too many sexual hang ups in this society.
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That last post should be shown to every
person in this foolish country.
We learn from out peers growing up to
use sex talk in degrading terms.
We all want, and need sex, and think
about it alot.
We use sex insults to hurt our friends,
lovers and enemies.
Then we complain :smile:
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On 2005-08-22 11:40:00, OverLordd wrote:
"Man its not fair, my girl friend, she wont give me head for anything!!! She just wont do it, its crazy. And my best bi friend offered to give me head, at the time I was like :eek: its just kinda ackward. haha."
Then go get your head from someone else. It's not her job to be your sexual servant. She has needs too. There are plenty of resources out there where you can get a free blowjob, and if you can't find one there, go out and pay for one.
If getting a blowjob from another person is not an option, there are plenty of great sextoys out there that can do a really good job. May I suggest the fleshlight?
http://www.fleshlight.com/main/prodinfo ... N=78587660 (http://www.fleshlight.com/main/prodinfo.cfm?id=11&CFID=29528514&CFTOKEN=78587660)
Just lube up your cock and go for it. You can even include your girlfriend in part of that ritual of using the toy, if you feel stupid using it by yourself.
P.S. I have no idea why they have that stupid vanilla scent. Totally pointless.
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Fuck you, cocksucker. You fucking dick. Shut up, cunt. Blow me. Suck my cock. Prick. Ho. Whore. Druggie whore. Bitch. Bastard. Fudge packer. Homo. Dyke. Dried up hag. Fag. Slut. Wench...
Not to mention all the cruel things done to people physically that are accepted by various societies: circumcision of males, circumcision of females of various forms, including unanesthetized removal of the clitoris accompanied by infibulation - sewing the vagina together to ensure control of her sexual life, metal "chastity belts", forced prostitution of children, rape...
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Ok, something that I need to add because of a few comments.
Have you ever asked her why she won't give you head?
When she was younger she was raped and forced to give some one head when she did not want to. So I understand her reluctance.
Then go get your head from someone else. It's not her job to be your sexual servant. She has needs too.
I know she has needs, our relationship is me basicly pleasing her in any way she she likes. Its not like I do all the demanding.
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OverLordd, you are a sweetheart, as usual. :smile:
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On 2005-08-23 07:16:00, OverLordd wrote:I know she has needs, our relationship is me basicly pleasing her in any way she she likes. Its not like I do all the demanding."
Sorry, I should have specified. When I said she has needs, I should have said "she has boundaries." Bad choice of words on my part. I really didn't mean needs in terms of sexual urges, but needs in terms of needing to not have to do what she doesn't want to, just like you shouldn't have to please her in ways you don't want to.
Sorry about the incompatibility issues. It's a pain. Especially when there is past trauma involved.
But I meant what I said about the sex toy suggestion. They're fun. Especially when there are two people involved in the fun.
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Be smart. Please your woman to the point
that she wants to please you.
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OverLordd, you are a sweetheart, as usual.
Why thank you anon, that makes me feel good.
Sorry, I should have specified. When I said she has needs, I should have said "she has boundaries." Bad choice of words on my part. I really didn't mean needs in terms of sexual urges, but needs in terms of needing to not have to do what she doesn't want to, just like you shouldn't have to please her in ways you don't want to.
Yeah, I understand what you mean, every one has their bounderies, and its important to respect them because people need to feel loved, and how can they if they are being badgered about their bounderies.
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sure it feels nice :grin: , but I don't think that was part of the b.j. I was getting. tongue-nice, teeth-bad.
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sorry, the last post is out of context, I was trying to reply to a previous reply on p.2. :sad:
you may now get back to your boundaries
and as that's important, I am looking for ways I can have my woman blow me better, please share what you know, after all, a candle loses nothing by lighting another candle, and reduces the darkness.
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Sometimes my jaws hurt while performing.
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Well you have to hold your mouth open for a long time, and that exersises the muscles, and I guess after long periods it can hurt. just like doing alot of pushups.
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On 2005-08-24 14:38:00, OverLordd wrote:
"Well you have to hold your mouth open for a long time, and that exersises the muscles, and I guess after long periods it can hurt. just like doing alot of pushups."
I'd love it if Overlord sucked my dick. Mmmm - that'd be really nice. :em:
Can you describe some more, its hot.
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Im hard for you OL.. :tup:
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I would love to see a picture of you. You can blur the face out too. I just want to see you.
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(http://http://nfg.2y.net/games/monopoly/Gamer.jpg)
no need to blur my face.. im proud of my hot body.
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[ This Message was edited by: The Elan Reporter on 2005-10-26 07:46 ]
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Overlordd you are going to make us go to jail for having sex talk with a minor! :lol: Still luv ya though!
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::heart:: Awww! OverLordd is so cute!
Who is that on the red sheets? I can't see lose enough, but I should know who it is I'm sure.
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...er, I meant "close enough"
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its the little mario dude
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On 2004-11-15 15:04:00, Salome wrote:
"I would appreciate concise, user friendly directions. Thank you in advance.
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:tup:
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On 2004-11-15 15:04:00, Salome wrote:
"I would appreciate concise, user friendly directions. Thank you in advance.
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Five Fellatio Tips
Watch the teeth!
The biggest mistake that novice fellatrixes make is scraping the penis with their teeth. Though some men may like this mix of pain and pleasure, most will not. Fact is, it's difficult to relax and enjoy the sensations if you're always worrying about your dick being bitten off during a blowjob.
Tucking your teeth under your lips is one way to make sure you avoid this gotcha. Otherwise, just make sure to open wide and be careful. Your teeth and his skin just weren't meant to be together.
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Act like you like it
It may seem simple, but if you act like you enjoy giving head, it will increase his pleasure greatly. Nothing's worse that getting a blow job from a reluctant or unwilling partner. Of course, the best way to do this is to swallow at the end, but even if you can't bring yourself to do that, a little enthusiasm will go a long way.
Some ways to show you like it include: initiating oral sex, without him asking for it or expecting reciprocation; making noises during the act (try humming....there's a reason they call it a "hummer"); and playing with yourself as things get hot.
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Be firm
A penis isn't a popsicle. Licking at first (especially behind the head) can be tantalizing and exciting, but when it's time to get down to business, take him firmly in your mouth and bob your head up and down.
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Use your hands
Your hands are free, so use them! Complement the sucking up top with a hand job lower down the shaft, lubed up with your saliva of course. Gently play with his balls. And, if you're an adventuresome couple, even try putting a finger or two up his ass. However, be careful not to put them anywhere near the penis after that. A pair of latex gloves and water-based lube will help with hygiene.
Your hands are also a good way to speed up his coming if you're not looking for a marathon session. A hand job/blow job combo should result in a quick, intense orgasm.
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Making it safe
There is risk in fellatio: you can easily pass diseases like herpes and even AIDS can be transmitted, especially if he ejaculates in your mouth. If you choose to play it safe with a condom, be sure to get one that is lubricant-free. Then, place a generous amount of water-based lube inside the condom. This will increase his pleasure greatly.
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Go to the elan board and ask artman "art Warshawaski" about the technics he uses to suck dick. His method is prefered under desk's, but not limited too.
Though most of his behavior is quite shocking, but he is a self proclaimed master of blow jons, he should be, he has been giving blow jobs and sucking dicks for over 5 decades.
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Them books is something you don't want the used copy of! :lol:
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On 2005-08-29 14:18:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Them books is something you don't want the used copy of! :lol: "
Good one!
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On 2005-08-29 15:42:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2005-08-29 14:18:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Them books is something you don't want the used copy of! :lol: "
Good one!"
Why? Do you normally read instructional books while you're getting or giving a blow job? :lol:
"Okay, now I open my mouth and do what again? Wait, lemme turn to page 3..."
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:rofl: :rofl: Hey now, just you nevermind what I read in bed!
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On 2005-08-29 21:04:00, Anonymous wrote:
Do you normally read instructional books while you're getting or giving a blow job? :lol:
"Okay, now I open my mouth and do what again? Wait, lemme turn to page 3..." "
During the live performance it is audio book time!
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- FHM Magazine (March 2001)
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why is most of this thread anon? there's nothing to be ashamed of. :grin:
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I have a hard time believing that brocoli of all things is going to improve the taste of semen.
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On 2005-08-30 06:41:00, Anonymous wrote:
"why is most of this thread anon? there's nothing to be ashamed of. :grin:"
Still lots of stigma involved with giving head.
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Come out of the closet and admit to the world that you suck cock. You'll feel better about yourself. :lol:
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washingtonpost.com
Study: Half of All Teens Have Had Oral Sex
By Laura Sessions Stepp
Washington Post Staff Writer
Thursday, September 15, 2005; 10:54 AM
Slightly more than half of American teenagers, ages 15 to 19, have engaged in oral sex, with females and males reporting similar levels of experience, according to the most comprehensive national survey of sexual behaviors ever released by the federal government.
The report today by the National Center for Health Statistics shows that the figure increases to about 70 percent of 18- and 19-year-olds.
The survey, according to those who work with young people, offers one more sign that young women are more sexually confident than they used to be. A release by the center six months ago, based on the same survey results, showed that slightly more girls than boys have intercourse before they turn 20. In addition, other national data indicate that the same proportion of high school girls and boys have sex only one time with a particular person or have relationships with others that they are not romantically involved with.
"This is a point of major social transition," James Wagoner, president of Advocates for Youth, a reproductive health organization, said yesterday. "The data are now coming out and roiling the idea that boys are the hunters and young girls are the prey. It absolutely defies the stereotype."
The data also underscore the fact that, unlike their parents' generation, many young people -- particularly those from middle- and upper-income white families -- simply do not consider oral sex a big deal.
"Oral sex is far less intimate than intercourse. It's a different kind of relationship," said Claire Brindis, professor of pediatrics at the University of California-San Francisco. "At 50 percent, we're talking about a major social norm. It's part of kids' lives."
Bill Albert, communications director for the National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy, put the generational difference this way: "We used to talk about sex in terms of first base, second base and so on. Oral sex was maybe in the dugout."
Until now, said Brindis, who has worked in the field of adolescent health for 30 years, researchers, policymakers and politicians could turn only to anecdotal evidence or small samples in order to gauge sexual behavior. Policies and programs were put into place that may turn out to be ineffective and put young people more at risk for sexually transmitted disease.
The newly released data, gathered in 2002, are sure to stir debate over abstinence-only sex education. Supporters of such programs say they have resulted in young people delaying intercourse, but opponents say they simply have led young people to substitute other risky behaviors, especially fellatio and cunnilingus. The new data tend to support the latter view, showing that nearly one in four virgin teens has engaged in oral sex.
Many teenagers have fully accepted the idea that postponing intercourse is a good thing to do, Brindis said. When they weigh the advantages and disadvantages of intercourse versus other forms of sex, they decide that they are far more at risk with intercourse, both because of pregnancy and the greater risk of disease.
"They're very smart about this issue," said Brindis, "but they may not have been given a strong enough message around the risks of oral sex. Maybe we need to do a better job of showing them they need to use condoms." Oral sex has been associated in clinical studies with gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes and the human papillomavirus, which has been linked to cervical cancer. Condoms and other forms of contraception can be used to decrease the health risks of oral sex, but few teens use them.
"If a substantial number of young people are having oral sex, as these numbers indicate, this is a big concern," said Kristin Moore, president of Child Trends, a children's research organization that analyzed the center's most recent findings.
Child Trend's analysis breaks down the federal data by age, race and ethnicity, mother's education, family structure and income. Combined, these breakdowns show that oral sex is most common among white families in the higher-income brackets.
Many sexual health programs have focused on kids from lower-income families, Moore said. The new data suggest that those programs may need to be expanded to other groups.
© 2005 The Washington Post Company
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Which half of you admit to not having
Oral sex ... (when you where teens)
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I have no sexual hang ups .. I don't remember a time when I wasn't sexual in some way. (with the exception of being a small child..)
Of course being a sexual person doesn't always mean the act of Having sex...
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The truth is you can be too good at giving blow jobs. What happens is you love to give it, you do it well, you provide a multi sensory experience, and you swallow with glee.
The next thing you know, your boyfriend is addicted to it, and you get lock jaw.
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Do you speak from experience? I'm looking to give a high-protein tonsil wash.
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On 2005-09-16 19:34:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Do you speak from experience? I'm looking to give a high-protein tonsil wash."
make that a snowball
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Which tastes better?
Penis or Pussy
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I would think this would be an individual preference.
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On 2005-09-17 09:43:00, Anonymous wrote:
"I would think this would be an individual preference. "
Yes, it is ...
You can still render your opinion?
I say pussy.
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On 2005-09-17 10:34:00, Paul wrote:
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On 2005-09-17 09:43:00, Anonymous wrote:
"I would think this would be an individual preference. "
Yes, it is ...
You can still render your opinion?
I say pussy."
like you would have any idea, paul. i can imagine you sitting under your lamp with some chick sitting on your face. yeah, REAL LIKELY there, buddy.
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On 2005-09-17 09:39:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Which tastes better?
Penis or Pussy"
Both!
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On 2005-09-17 11:27:00, Anonymous wrote:
like you would have any idea ...
Way to stay on topic ...
Get back to your playstation before you lose your turn!
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Is this rocket science we are talking about?
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On 2005-09-17 09:39:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Which tastes better?
Penis or Pussy"
As someone who has tasted both, I prefer penis. However, this is entirely a personal opinion thing, as someone pointed out.
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More Women Experiment With Bisexuality, Survey Says
POSTED: 6:24 am PDT September 16, 2005
More women -- particularly those in their late teens and 20s -- are experimenting with bisexuality or at least feel more comfortable reporting same-sex encounters, according to a new report from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
The survey, released Thursday by the CDC's National Center for Health Statistics, found that 11.5 percent of women, ages 18 to 44, said they've had at least one sexual experience with another woman in their lifetimes, compared with about 4 percent of women, ages 18 to 59, who said the same in a comparable survey a decade earlier.
For women in their late teens and 20s, the percentage rose to 14 percent in the more recent survey. About 6 percent of men in their teens and 20s said they'd had at least one same-sex encounter.
While those who conducted the survey took measures to protect respondents' privacy, researchers say it's unclear whether the figure for men was lower because they're are more likely to avoid same-sex experiences or whether they're not reporting them.
It wouldn't surprise Kat Fowler, a 27-year-old art student who dates both women and men, if men were less likely to talk about their experiences.
"There's a certain higher level of discrimination (for men). It's a lot easier for women to have these kinds of experiences and be open about it because it's more accepted," said Fowler, who attends the University of Florida.
The findings on bisexuality and other aspects of Americans' sexual habits were taken from the National Survey of Family Growth, which included 12,571 in-person interviews, done from March 2002 to March 2003. Overall, researchers said the report shows that most people have relatively few partners and are at a low risk for sexually transmitted diseases.
"Instead of just anecdotes and stories that raise people's anxieties, I think it's best to have real numbers," said William Mosher, the statistician who oversaw the report. "And now we have those."
When it comes to women and same-sex relationships, Mosher said it would be worth studying why young women seek such relationships, and whether they may be trying to avoid diseases more commonly spread through sex with men.
But some experts who study sexuality say it's even more likely that many college students simply see experimentation as a rite of passage.
"It's very safe in the academic community; no one thinks anything of it," said Elayne Rapping, a professor of American studies at the University of Buffalo who has written about sexuality.
"But to some extent there's more talk than action," she added, noting that the bisexuality label has become a "badge of courage" for some college women, even those who only date men. Meanwhile, she said, men who have same-sex experiences are often less likely to talk about it publicly.
The trend among college women has prompted some sexual behavior experts to light-heartedly refer to the term "LUG," or "lesbian until graduation," said Craig Kinsley, a neuroscientist at the University of Richmond who studies the biology of sexual orientation and gender.
In other findings, the survey said that about 10 percent of females, ages 15 to 19, and 12 percent of males had experienced heterosexual oral sex but not vaginal intercourse. While no earlier data were available for young women, percentages for young men in 1992 were about the same, researchers said.
Those numbers dropped substantially for people in their 20s, who were more likely to have had vaginal intercourse.
The survey also revealed that 39 percent of men, ages 15 to 44, who'd had at least one sexual partner in the last year said they used a condom during their most recent sexual encounter. That figure rose to 65 percent for men who'd never been married - and 91 percent for men who'd ever had sexual contact with another man.
Mosher said it was likely that men in higher-risk categories were heeding campaigns that encourage them to use condoms.
"Whether the levels (of condom use) are high enough is for others to judge," Mosher said. "But I think it's at least encouraging."
The survey of adults has a margin of error of 1 percentage point and 3 percentage points for the teen data.
* Study Highlights: National Center For Health Statistics
Copyright 2005 by The Associated Press
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Yeah bisexuality seems to be trendy these days. I had sex with a chick before a guy and can say they are entirely 2 different feelings. I like both so I continue to do both :razz:
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::rainbow::
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I have tried both. An un-shaven Pussy gross!
Don't like tolet paper balls ::blushing:: Really Gross! A man? At least it is salty and gos with my tequila. I have no teeth now so will he like it more or less? :nworthy:
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Learn how to give a man a blowjob BJ properly
Giving The Ultimate BlowJob!
by WiseWoman
One of the most sexy ways a man can be pleasured is when a woman adores his cock. I think a cock represents about 80% of his ego , so if you want to make your man smile from his soul; you need to completely and thoroughly ADORE his cock. One of the BEST ways to do this is to suck it for him. And I don't mean just lightly lick it, I mean take it in your hand, devour it, lick it hard, suck it hard and feel it down your throat.
First of all, men know if you like doing this or not, just by how you go about it. If you don't like it, he will know because the enthusiasm is not there. Be PASSIONATE about giving head. Go for the gusto and it will turn him on so incredibly that he will say "I had the BEST blowjob today," and he will remember it for many hours of masturbation later.
A woman in charge of the blowjob and who wants to seriously give her man pleasure is in control of him in this moment. Make sure he knows YOU are sucking him; he is NOT fucking your face! One thing I always tell the man is not to put his hand on my head. I don't need any help pushing my head down. God I just HATE that!!!
Here are some tips (hee hee, pun intended) for truly making love to your partners penis:
1) Grab his cock hard and suck it hard. Let him tell you if it's too hard. Don't be afraid you will hurt him. Have you ever seen a man jack off??? You think he's going to seriously hurt himself. LOL. He yanks that thing and pulls it so hard, you think he is going to pull it off!!!
2) Make noises like "mmmmm" or moan when you take it into your mouth. He will feel like he is a yummy lollipop as you slurp his love muscle. He is thinking to himself, "Oh she just loves my cock," and this excites him unbelievably. Remember,
you are sucking his EGO.
3) Get it WET. Most men LOVE sloppy slurpy juicy blowjobs. The saliva heats up with friction and is a real turn on for the man.
4) Stroke his balls, but do this carefully. I love men who shave down there because the softness of their skin is such a turn on to me. Also, licking is more fun and sucking balls that are shaved is HOT!!
5) Create a good suction and pop his cock in and out of your mouth. On circumcised men (more common in America than anywhere in the world) the lip of the helmet is sensitive and some men just go wild when you flip this lip as if you could tip it off his shaft. This is a technique that many don't know about, but it drives men nuts. The part that is most sensitive is the part underneath where the shaft meets the head and causes a valley up the head to the pee hole. Flick this spot in an upward motion with your rigid tongue and cup the rest of the head with your mouth and lips, sucking at the same time. Then plunge his cock down your throat while tonguing his shaft.
wildly, creating suction as if it is stuck to the roof of your mouth. Any time you can suck then tongue then suck, you can get incredible results and moans from your man. (They are usually looking up at the heavens by this time )
6) Let him watch as you master his cock (ego). If you are lying on the bed between his legs, or if he is standing looking down, he is intently watching you. Use one hand to stroke his tummy, balls, up and down his legs, thighs, nipples, and hold his cock with the other hand so you can guide it carefully away from your back teeth. Guys, who pull your hand away, sometimes regret it because they don't realize you are keeping his precious head from those sharp grinders in the back of your mouth. If they've pulled your hand away though, it might be an indication that you were squeezing too hard, or that he wants you to take his cock deeper into your mouth, especially if he is small (4" or less) and your hand takes up most of the length of the shaft. Going all the way down is incredibly pleasurable for the man to see his cock disappear (as if down your throat).
7) One time I was with some bi men and was watching how they sucked each other and one technique I had never tried is to start at the tip and spiral down to the bottom of the shaft. Twist your head and mouth as you go down. Apparently this feels great for the man. Go all the way down. If he is too long for you to do this, go as far as you are comfortable with going. The gag reflex kicks in when you go too far but you can
circumvent that reflex with practice in opening up your lower throat. I love to be able to get ten inches down my throat. Who doesn't??? (We know where it eventually ends up don't we?? Hee hee hee).
:cool: Suck his balls. Men don't usually get a lot of attention to their balls because most women think they'll hurt them. But if you gently stroke them and suck them by taking one into your mouth at a time, tonguing it then moving to the other one, you will see how much enjoyment is derived from this attention. Then use your tongue horizontally up the vein of the cock and feel him gasp when you again, suck the head into your mouth.
9)Don't forget to use your tongue a lot. The flicking and wagging of your tongue using good pressure is very pleasurable. Try twirling it around the head one way, than the other way. Again, this will bring gasps and moans.
10) I recently discovered how much fun playing with an uncircumcised cock is. All that skin is fun to suck on and lightly chew on. Most men who are uncut are extremely sensitive when you expose his penis by pushing the skin all the way down and holding it down to suck him (but be careful here as some can find this painful). You have to ask the man which he prefers. Exposed or unexposed. And leaving the skin up makes it a little difficult to create and maintain a good suction, but it is much easier doing the up and down motion with gliding smoothness. Sometimes I try to leave the skin up and stick my tongue between the outer skin and see how far down I can slide my tongue in before the skin folds back with my motion. Pressure is important too. Squeezing with your lips as you move up and down is VERY important. Consistent pressure evenly squeezing with a hand and lips is usually what makes him cum.
11) Another little trick that makes my men gasp with pleasure is when I use my teeth ever so gently on the cap of the penis. Be sure there is a lot of saliva for gliding your teeth on. I start out by having my teeth clenched together at the tip of the penis. Then as I glide down the cap I slowly open my jaws. My lips are closed around the shaft as my head moves downward. Then I flick my tongue as my teeth give way and cause a suction with it. This sensation seems to bring a new experience to each recipient and usually elicits some comment like. "My God, where did you learn that??"
12) And last but not least, swallowing cum. I have asked men which they prefer. A woman swallowing his cum or him jacking off in the last seconds before he cums, onto her breasts, ass or whatever. Many men grew up watching porn and in all porn, pulling out of the mouth and other orifices is the norm, so the viewer can see the glorious "cum shot." As a result, many men associate an awesome orgasm with pulling out and cumming on her breasts, face, tummy or ass as he strokes. It is a turn on to see the fruits of your labor for sure, or feel the warm love juice on your breasts. And it's especially nice when the man then goes and gets a warm washcloth, and cleans you up after that. That is a return compliment. But most will say they want you to swallow. Of the top 5 questions MOST asked by guys online, "Do you swallow?" is one of the most asked questions. This is because if you remember in the beginning, my first point was; a man's ego lives in his penis. If
you swallow his ambrosia, his EGO is given the ULTIMATE compliment.
After he cums in your mouth, slowly pull away and leave the penis alone now. It is painfully sensitive and can't bare any more attention for a few minutes. A nice warm washcloth placed on his shaft and scrotum feel lovely to him as well, while he is resting and recuperating.
You are now equipped with some knowledge of how to pleasure your partner in ways he might not be familiar. Listen to the noises he makes and be acutely aware of what makes him happy. If you want to make him cum as opposed to just warming him up for hours of pleasure, just remember these 5 things: Patience plus passion plus proper pressure plus variety of moves plus swallowing his cum is going to get your man to tell you that you give the ULTIMATE blow-job.
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Great article. I really adored giving my boyfriend head and even fantasized about it when I was alone. But it's always good to learn a few new fun tricks.
But how about pussy licking? Aren't there any men out there who wish to bone up on their pussy licking skills?
I have to say that it helps when you know your pussy is his favorite entree...
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On 2005-12-09 09:01:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Great article. I really adored giving my boyfriend head and even fantasized about it when I was alone. But it's always good to learn a few new fun tricks.
But how about pussy licking? Aren't there any men out there who wish to bone up on their pussy licking skills?
I have to say that it helps when you know your pussy is his favorite entree... "
Nice comments.
I agree, mutual admiration and choice of entree is, IMHO, the peak of human existence.
I recall many great lovemaking sessions, but one
time after a long 69 session and mutual climax we
both lost our strength and just collapsed into
each others bodies, and laughed, and laughed ...
oh my, that was heaven.
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Cunnilingus
What is cunnilingus?
Cunnilingus is the act of using the mouth to stimulate the female genitals. This can include sucking or licking the outer and inner areas of the vagina, and most often involves direct stimulation of the clitoris. Some women find cunnilingus to be the most satisfying sexual act. Indeed, a great number of women report that oral sex is the only way they can achieve orgasm. The mouth can create a uniquely intense range of sensations which many find unrivaled.
Quick Tip
When performing oral sex on your woman, take the time to explore all her erogenous zones. Many women love to be caressed on the nape of the neck, the arms and inner thighs. Take your time and really get her worked up before you head down below.
If you're looking for a more detailed approach, we recommend Guide To Oral Sex. This video will help you communicate your desires and teach you some valuable techniques. The perfect video to watch with your lover.
Techniques to better cunnilingus
The clitoris is central to female sexual arousal, as it contains most of the sexually charged tissues in the body. The logical first step for many lovers, therefore, is to directly stimulate the clitoris right off the bat. The catch is many women will not be very responsive to this jump-for-the-clitoris approach. Take things slow at first, kissing and licking her stomach and thighs, then the area around her clitoris. Build her arousal level slowly, gradually increasing pressure and speed with your mouth. Once you know she?s aroused (i.e. if she?s told you or motioned so) you can then move to the clitoris.
Many women enjoy a massage of the mons. The mons in the mound of skin which is found on top the pubic bone above the vaginal opening. Take one or both of your hands and carefully move the mons and surrounding area much the same way you would massage someone's shoulders. Be careful not to press too hard or make too wide a circular movement. As you manually stimulate the mons, you can move your mouth to the vulva. When soothing her vulva with your tongue, you may wish to concentrate solely on the clitoris after some stimulation of the labia or you may wish to lick the surrounding areas. Some women need constant clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm so ask your partner what she would have you do. Clitoral stimulation can be exciting but don't be too eager.
The way that you use your tongue is important. Provide different textures by altering the natural flex of your tongue. When your tongue hangs limp and flat, it provides a soft caress. When your tongue is flexed and rigid it provides more direct and firm stimulation. Try some of each and determine which your partner prefers. Some women will want rapid motions of continuous licking while others prefer long, slow caresses.
Lubricants are usually thought of in terms of penetration only, but they can add excitement during cunnilingus as well. You can try a nice water-based lubricant, such as Astroglide Strawberry. Lubricants come in a wide variety of flavors and help protect the sensitive tissues of the vagina during stimulation.
When a woman becomes sexually aroused her vagina balloons and her uterus rises. Women often enjoy the feeling of penetration during oral sex. This penetration can be well lubricated fingers or a dildo. While there is a wide selection of dildos on the market, some men may feel uncomfortable using a dildo that resembles a penis. A great solution to this problem is the E-glass line of dildos. The elegant design of these glass products allows them to double as inconspicuous art that can be kept on the shelf as opposed to hidden in a drawer. Gently follow the natural curvature of the vagina for smooth entry. If you find that it's a little difficult to coordinate everything you should try the Accommodator. You've got to see this one to believe it. It's a chin-mounted dildo. What will they think of next?
Performing better cunnilingus
Two things should accompany you any time that you engage in oral sex: being comfortable with yourself and your partner, and your ability to communicate.
Feeling comfortable
If you feel uncomfortable about performing or receiving oral sex, don't do it. It is better to stop, relax and communicate about your feeling with your partner before you begin. Oral sex involves very intimate areas, in the most intimate ways. It explores tastes, smells and feelings unlike any other form of lovemaking. Feeling comfortable about your body and your partner may take time, and you should take all the time you need. The results will be better for both of you.
Good Communication
You will never know what your partner wants or finds satisfying unless you talk to them. If it is your first time with a particular partner, communication may seem uncomfortable. Don't worry. Do you really think that your new partner will be annoyed or upset if you ask her what she wants? A vast majority of women will be quite pleased. Do not be discouraged if you partner offers you advice; be overjoyed because you are learning what they find pleasurable which will make you a better lover as a result. A sense of humor is another great way to ease any tension which may exist between new lovers. A light-hearted approach to your sexual encounter will make it more enjoyable for both of you.
Positioning for better cunnilingus
Before launching into a detailed discussion of techniques, let's consider the range of possible positions for cunnilingus. Each position will be uniquely satisfying, so it is best for you and your partner to experiment and determine which one(s) you prefer. Most couples begin with the woman sitting in a chair or on the bed. This gives full access to the genitals and support to the back so that the woman is relaxed and her hands are free to stimulate herself. The partner performing oral sex can lie or sit facing the woman, free to use his or her hands for stimulation with the fingers.
Another popular position is for the woman to squat on all fours over her lover's face as she or he is lying down. Some people prefer this position because it allows a woman to move her pelvis to accentuate the stimulation. This position also allows a couple to mutually stimulate one another (the so-called ?69?) when it is performed each partner at opposite ends. If you are a more meticulous giver of oral sex, you may not like this position because it is difficult to place your tongue right where you want it. Couples who wish to engage in playful dominance-submissive role playing might like to try standing while the other partner performs oral sex on his or her knees.
In recent years, toys have been produced to mimic the sensations of cunnilingus. Introduced by Lady Carlston, The Tongue, is probably the most popular of these toys. The Tongue can be the perfect addition for couples who want to add to the sensations of regular cunnilingus, or for women who want to continue when their partner is not around.
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After he cums in your mouth, slowly pull away and leave the penis alone now. It is painfully sensitive and can't bare any more attention for a few minutes. A nice warm washcloth placed on his shaft and scrotum feel lovely to him as well, while he is resting and recuperating.
Actually, I'm able to keep it in my mouth with a lot of guys. Just don't suck. I like to lay there between his legs gently holding it in my mouth, and then after a while, very gently start sucking on it again. I can usually work him up to get hard and come a few more times. I really like that. It turns me on, and is a big ego boost as well.
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Actually, I'm able to keep it in my mouth with a lot of guys. Just don't suck. I like to lay there between his legs gently holding it in my mouth, and then after a while, very gently start sucking on it again. I can usually work him up to get hard and come a few more times. I really like that. It turns me on, and is a big ego boost as well.
It is so nice to read about a lady who understands
a man's pleasure and cares to treat him to the
ultimate.
I am sure you get many times back the pleasure
you give your men.
BTW - is the taste ok, or have you ever tried:
http://semenex.com/ (http://semenex.com/)
The Patented Shake Mix for Men proven to make Semen "...as delicious as it is nutritious" - FHM Magazine (March 2001)
... and in only 24 hours.
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On 2005-12-11 14:18:00, Anonymous wrote:
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Actually, I'm able to keep it in my mouth with a lot of guys. Just don't suck. I like to lay there between his legs gently holding it in my mouth, and then after a while, very gently start sucking on it again. I can usually work him up to get hard and come a few more times. I really like that. It turns me on, and is a big ego boost as well.
It is so nice to read about a lady who understands
a man's pleasure and cares to treat him to the
ultimate.
I am sure you get many times back the pleasure
you give your men.
BTW - is the taste ok, or have you ever tried:
http://semenex.com/ (http://semenex.com/)
The Patented Shake Mix for Men proven to make Semen "...as delicious as it is nutritious" - FHM Magazine (March 2001)
... and in only 24 hours.
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i think if you go back and read this thread from the beginning, you'll find the "lady" is a man. just letting you know.
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On 2005-12-11 14:18:00, Anonymous wrote:
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Actually, I'm able to keep it in my mouth with a lot of guys. Just don't suck. I like to lay there between his legs gently holding it in my mouth, and then after a while, very gently start sucking on it again. I can usually work him up to get hard and come a few more times. I really like that. It turns me on, and is a big ego boost as well.
It is so nice to read about a lady who understands
a man's pleasure and cares to treat him to the
ultimate.
I am sure you get many times back the pleasure
you give your men.
BTW - is the taste ok, or have you ever tried:
http://semenex.com/ (http://semenex.com/)
The Patented Shake Mix for Men proven to make Semen "...as delicious as it is nutritious" - FHM Magazine (March 2001)
... and in only 24 hours.
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Yeah, I'm a guy. Did I already talk about that BJ technique in this thread? Oops, sorry. My memory is bad. (It might be under an anonymous post, before I signed up and got a username.)
And I'm not too picky when it comes to the taste of cum. I don't know what this product is, but I'm not interested, unless they make cum-flavored cum, and that would be rather redundant.
It tastes kind of weird if the guy had brussels sprouts or asparagus the previous day. And sometimes I've gotten a weird metallic taste if the guy is doing poppers.
The best tasting cum I ever had was from a diabetic. The condition makes the cum taste a little sweet. MMmmm. s'like candy!
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[ This Message was edited by: sorry... try another castle on 2006-01-14 19:05 ]
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On 2005-12-08 19:49:00, Anonymous wrote:
"I have tried both. An un-shaven Pussy gross!
Don't like tolet paper balls ::blushing:: Really Gross! A man? At least it is salty and gos with my tequila. I have no teeth now so will he like it more or less? :nworthy: "
:rofl: :eek:
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what's poppers?
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On 2005-12-13 06:53:00, Anonymous wrote:
"what's poppers?"
http://dancesafe.org/documents/druginfo/poppers.php (http://dancesafe.org/documents/druginfo/poppers.php)
WHAT ARE POPPERS?
* "Poppers" is the popular name for various alkyl nitrites, including isobutyl nitrite, butyl nitrite, and amyl nitrite.
* Doctors used to prescribe amyl nitrite for heart patients in capsules that were broken or "popped" to release vapors.
* Amyl nitrite is made and sold illegally, but most poppers are isobutyl nitrite or butyl nitrite sold in small brown bottles as "video head cleaner," "room deodorizer," or "leather cleaner."
* The exact contents of these products are not known, and they are not safety tested.
WHAT ARE THE EFFECTS?
* Poppers are used by sniffing the vapors from an open bottle. The effects are felt within a few seconds and last for 1-2 minutes.
* Poppers cause muscles around blood vessels to relax, making your heart speed up to pump more blood. Oxygen-rich blood reaching the brain produces a "rush" sensation.
* Because poppers cause muscles in the anus and vagina to relax, they are often used during sex.
BE CAREFUL.
* If swallowed call 911 or Poison Contol.
* Contact with the skin causes irritation and rashes. Extensive use can damage the nose and lungs.
* Some people experience headaches, sensations of spinning or falling, and loss of erection.
* Poppers are highly flammable. Keep away from cigarettes, candles, and lighters.
* Studies show that poppers reduce the functioning of the immune system for several days after use.
* Because poppers cause blood vessels to open, it is easier to get an infection, including sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV.
* Poppers pose extra risks for people who have suppressed immune systems, heart problems, low or high blood pressure, a history of cerebral hemorrhaging, anemia, or are pregnant.
* Combining poppers with stimulants like speed and cocaine increases risks. Combining poppers and Viagra is dangerous because both cause blood pressure to drop.
* Poppers can affect your judgment. If you are planning on being intimate, put on a condom before you use them.
* To prevent spilling and evaporation, pour a small amount in a separate bottle filled with cotton and store tightly sealed in a refrigerator or freezer.
* Possession of amyl nitrite without a doctor?s prescription is illegal. Federal law bans the manufacture and distribution of butyl nitrite and related substances, although these provisions have not been enforced.
* Supported by a grant from the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, Inc. and Electric Dreams Foundation
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It also seems to be very popular within the gay community, because it relaxes your ass for fucking or fisting and it gets you harder. (sometimes.) But my friend said all it did was give him a headache the one time he tried it. He called it "headache in a bottle."
It also smells totally nasty. Sometimes I can smell it when the guy uses it, and sometimes I can't.
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On 2005-12-13 10:07:00, sorry... try another castle wrote:
... relaxes your ass for fucking or fisting ...
Doesn't the feces in someones colon gross you out?
Or, to say it another way, how do you get by that?
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Yeah, I'm a guy. Did I already talk about that BJ technique in this thread? Oops, sorry. My memory is bad. (It might be under an anonymous post, before I signed up and got a username.)
And I'm not too picky when it comes to the taste of cum. I don't know what this product is, but I'm not interested, unless they make cum-flavored cum, and that would be rather redundant.
It tastes kind of weird if the guy had brussels sprouts or asparagus the previous day. And sometimes I've gotten a weird metallic taste if the guy is doing poppers.
The best tasting cum I ever had was from a diabetic. The condition makes the cum taste a little sweet. MMmmm. s'like candy!
No worries Castle about being a guy. Hell I could learn a thing or two from you! :razz:
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I just saw "The Weatherman" the other day. There's a scene where Nicholas Cage and his wife go to marriage therapy. They write down something mean that they've done to each other that they've never told anyone. They're supposed to give each other the paper and swear never to open it. Within 5 minutes Nicholas Cage opens his up, finds out his wife didn't like one of his books and had praised it anyway. When he comes clean she reads his paper, and finds out that he was always unsatified with the quality of her blowjobs. When he asks her why, her answer is absolutely priceless.
"You wanna know why my blowjobs were somewhat lacking in enthusiasm? I hated you, that's why."
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Average length of penis when not erect: 3.5 inches
Average length when erect: 5.2 - 6.4 inches
The Longest: 13 inches
The Smallest: 5/8 of an inch
Largest penis in the animal kingdom: 11 feet (blue whale)
Actual amount of semen per ejaculation: 1-2 teaspoons
Average number of times a man will ejaculate in his lifetime: 7,200
Average # of times he will ejaculate from masturbation: 2,000
Average total amount of lifetime ejaculate: 14 gallons
Average speed of ejaculation: 28 miles per hour
Average # of calories in a teaspoon of semen: 7
Most arousing time of day/season for a man: early morning/fall
Best ways to improve sexual function: quit smoking, start exercising, lose weight
Percent of men who say they masturbate: 60%
Percent of men who say they masturbate at least once a day: 54%
Percent of men who say they feel guilty masturbating that often: 41%
Amount of time needed for a man to regain erection: from 2 min to 2 weeks
Average # of erections per day for a man: 11
Average # of erections during the night: 9
Sperm life: 2 1/2 months (from development to ejaculation)
Thickness of the average condom: .07 mm
Thickness of super-thin condoms: .05 mm
Speed at which erotic sensations travel from skin to brain 156 miles per hour
There are approximately 5 calories in a teaspoon of semen.
All penises bend slightly to the left or right ? there is no perfectly straight penis.
Odors that increase blood flow to the penis: lavender, licorice, chocolate, doughnuts and pumpkin pie!
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Just thought this thread should be bumped.
Something a little more interesting than all the spam shit!!
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This really doesn't have anything to do with blow jobs, but condoms. I'm single again. And it's summer. I hate condoms. Typically, when I'm in a relationship, we get tested and screw the condoms. Obviously, I'll need to be safe if I choose to partake in some non-serious fun BUT is there any condom out there that doesn't feel so.... unnaturally constrictive... my favorite part about sex is when my partner comes, so it's not gonna be as fun with a condom but can anyone give me a tip or brand that may be better?
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There have been no innovations.
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Do condoms prevent herpes from spreading?
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Do condoms prevent herpes from spreading?
Nope.
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What are poppers?
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amyl nitrate, "rush"