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Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform => Straight, Inc. and Derivatives => Topic started by: sammiegirl on October 18, 2004, 02:31:00 PM
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I once knew a nice man he was helpful in so many ways, He always had a nice word to say to me, he held the door when seeing me approach. He went to church, as a matter of fact he worked at the church, Non drinker smoker drugger ect. Just all around nice man.
Then one day he is arrested for Kidnapping, Assault, sexual assault and battery. Convicted by his own confession, and serving time in prison for the next 50 yrs.
Why do I write this??
As we all know we can have very different experiences with the same situation, same person, ect.
Should I defend this person?? He did me no harm.
Should I be mad at the people who were hurt by this man??
My answer is NO on both counts.
I can not defend a person who has cuased harm on another, regardless!
I can not be angry at the people who were hurt by him either, I can by no means put myself in their spot, feel their feelings, see their pain.
So what should I do?
For one "SHUT THE F UP" If I can not help then why interject?
To defend a monster? To make myself feel better... This makes no sense.
What purpose does it do to paste flowers on shit??
Yeah he had nice words, Yes he held the door. He once even sent me a gift for xmas. He never hurt me. But then again neither did HITLER. Should I say the Holocaust wasn't so bad??
A monster is a monster.
What I will say is that " I AM GREATFUL THAT I DIDN'T SUFFER AT THE HANDS OF THIS MONSTER. AND I AM TRULY SORRY FOR THE PEOPLE WHO DID"
SO JUST LIKE LIFE.. I DID NOT SUFFER AT THE HANDS OF LIFE BUT I DID SUFFER AT THE HANDS OF HELEN.
As many have. If you can not understand this, may I suggest a deeper look into your past and check for signs, think back, as we all know... It was a fucked up time and we in one way or another were deeply affected by it.
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Maybe your rich husband can arrange for you to have visits with him in the prison for a little "make-up sex".