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Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform => Straight, Inc. and Derivatives => Topic started by: Anonymous on July 31, 2002, 02:23:00 PM
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I forget the names but there were two ex-KIDS that got married subsequent to being reunited here on the bbs (Craig and Christy??). Does anyone know how they are doing?
Curious.
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It didn't end up working out. We called it off long before the wedding itself
Christy
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Sorry to hear about that, it sounded so cool. Usually things that 'sound' so cool, don't turn out to be that way, in my experience anyway. There is a Prince Charming for you somewhere, possibly without program baggage!
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Thanks for the vote of confidence!
Christy
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Will you marry me???
Kidding, best wishes to you.
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Just wondering who you are. Did I know you? Thx for the uplifting words. I am sure I will find what I am looking for one of these days! Probably wise to stay away from those with a past like mine, I am on a search for "remarkably normal!" I just hope to find an easy-going, healthy relationship!
Email me if I know you, Anon.
Take care yourself,
C
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Just wondering who you are. Did I know you? Thx for the uplifting words. I am sure I will find what I am looking for one of these days! Probably wise to stay away from those with a past like mine, I am on a search for "remarkably normal!" I just hope to find an easy-going, healthy relationship!
Email me if I know you, Anon.
Take care yourself,
C
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I'm 'just someone' from thekidsbbs.com.
Take care.
Unregistered User Me
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Christy, For someone who thinks she is better off with someone who was not in Kids, you were sure involved with enough ex-kids over the past couple of years. There were quite a few relationships the way I remember it.
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Very true! I have an felt an undeniable connection to that place and those I went thru it with. It was such a big part of my life and who I am in life since then. My best friend in the world is Jenny Hope. I still talk to Lulu and Britta all the time. I have always felt a deep closeness to both guys and girls from my time there and that connection is powerful. Of course, I have made many other great friendships and had other relationships along the way too. But, somehow, they (the relationships romantically with other "KIDS") were never as healthy as I wish they could have been; which is unfortunate, b/c it would have made a great love story, you know? "KIDS guys" aren't the problem, its just about finding the right match I think. Craig is a very nice person and yet we just didn't fit compatibly. On a personnal note, I find myself, since KIDS, always looking for real depth in relatinships, and ex-kids seem to be on that same page so it is sometimes very attractive and comfortable to me. I got a little burned the last few tries, (not Craig but the guy before) so I am just a little protective. Some people since KIDS turned out so very together - but it has been my experience (and I do not mean Craig) that some are pretty out there and still have a "I am bettere than the rest of them" Newton-esque side - even though they are out - which I can live without frankly! I am just hoping for healthy - no matter waht past any future guy may have had. But you are right, I have certainly dated my share of KIDS people - actually, just 2 in the last 2 years and none before that since I left. Weird. I think those days are behind me though and at some level it was a part of my dealling with some things. YOu sounded kind of judgemental, did you mean it that way?
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You know, I rarely tune into this board, and have only posted once before - but tonight my wife is asleep and I am up sick and feverish and trying to get to sleep myself and find myself cruising the web in the middle of the night for something to do. Why the hell you, Anon, are bothering this girl about her love life is beyond me. Give her a break. KIDS f-ed us all up! Apparantly, Christie, who I never knew, as I was in EP, has tried to find love in some others who went thru KIDS, I can see the appeal. Similar pasts, similar needs and expectations. We all struggle with our demons since KIDS and to find love. Lay off with your condescending comments. The girl just had the strength to break off an engagement, She even had the humility to EXPLAIN it to you - and that must have been hard and taken guts. I bless my wife and the Lord every day I found her and have 2 beautiful children who I cherish; I am a lucky man; but I understand some were not so lucky and struggle to find the depth, as Christie calls it, that we learned in KIDS. Give her your support, not your judgement and critique. C'mon man; we are on the same side! Applaud those for trying, relate to their search - or shut the hell up if you have nothing nice to say (as my Grandmother taught me)
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I'm curious. Is it Christy J.? I was only in NJ for 9 months (nov. 88-July 89) and that is the only Christy that I remember. If I recall correctly she was on jr. staff and had black hair. Am I correct? If I am I wouldn't think you would have too much of a problem finding a "Mr. Right" you were by far one of the most attractive girls there. And no I'm not implying that looks = wonderful relationship, but it does widen the pool of candidates.
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For the record, I had nothing to do with any of the prior posts and the last one I made in this thread was the last one with my signature--I am not the anon poster.
I'm a nice guy.
Unregistered User Me
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CJ~ Are you back in NJ or are you still in CA? Was just wondering ?I have something up my sleeve, if your in NJ ! Kate Walsh {Bryan`s wife}
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email me Katie cjohn@mindspring.com
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Hey El Paso guy, for someone who is so thankful to the Lord you sound a little angry and bitter, let it go. You will be able to sleep better and will not have to spend your nights on the computer venting!
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I tried to clear this up in my last post, I posted only the first, third, fifth, eighth, and thirteenth post in this thread.
All nice, damn I even proposed--that's not bitter.
From the nice El Paso guy
who doesn't vent on boards.
Unregistered User Me
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Will *YOU* marry me??
--Kidding.
Unregistered User Me
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I am Christy Johnston, but no black hair, dirty blonde, you may be thinking of someone else.
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That post was not directed at you. The person was talking to the El Paso person with a wife & 2 kids that posted in defense of Christy. I happen to know you don't have 2 kids. So don't worry so much. I don't agree with what that person said to the El Paso Guy, he sure didn't sound bitter to me. You know, you guys can all register with fake names. You don't have to give a single piece of info about yourself, but if everyone had "screen names" it sure would make this board easier to read. If you would just register, my lazy friend (this one IS directed at you, unregistered user me) Then you wouldn't have to worry that people were talking about you. And all the rest of you should register so that we can follow these conversations a little easier. Too many Anonymous!
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Again, you have been a source of profound wisdom! BUT, if I register with a fake name, how will *you* know it's "Me"?
Unregistered User Fred
(sitting here in my Groucho Marx nose and glasses mask)
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Now that I review the posts I see the picture. That is confusing! Also by saying that I was the "nice" guy and disclaiming the anon post, I didn't mean to imply that the EP guy was mean in any way.
Now Registered User Groucho