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Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform => Straight, Inc. and Derivatives => Topic started by: Lolaki on June 01, 2004, 11:12:00 PM
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I am having some serious problems with my mom. I cannot seem to get it through her head that we could not pick up the phone and call her.
My mom was shut out of our lives by the program, my dad put us in and I did not speak to my mom for 5 years. She does not understand or really care to understand what hell we were in.
How do you guys deal with parents like this?
My mom seems to blame me for everything that has ever went wrong in her life since I have existed and the stupid program has just added to it.
I really want to just shut her out for ever, facts are I don't need her. Should I?
Advise please, I need it!!
Thanks :sad:
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nahh, don't shut her out. eventually, she'll come through. sorry, to hear that, though. some people take longer than others, to get over something. just, keep being there for her. in the long run, whether it's a year from now, or 15 yrs. from now...she'll understand. don't push her...but, don't give up.
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Thanks, I will keep trying.
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How about your dad? Didnt' he keep you there all those years?
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What do you mean what about my dad, like how am I getting along with him?