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Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform => Elan School => Topic started by: Anonymous on June 26, 2002, 08:50:00 PM
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This is probably the only person to work at Elan that was normal.Dave was a real cool director and was honest and never pulled any of that bullshit with residents like the rest of them.
I feel bad that Dave has to work with assholes everyday.I think he is still up at Elan.
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I agree, I was fortunate enough to have him as my...I don't remember the term, but we all had a specific staff member assigned to us. He was an approachable guy who, although following the program, didn't seem engulfed in the freakish abusive crap that tormented us all in one way or another.
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Dave McVetty should be the one in charge of Elan,he is a very good man and was never abusive towards any of the residents even the ones that were totally out of control.
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THIS IS REALNESS. I KNOW DAVE AND EVERYTHING YOU SAY ABOUT HIM IS TRUE. HE WAS ONE OF THE ONLY REAL STAFF IN THERE BUT FUCK PETE ROWE NOT MARTY MARTY TRIED TO GET THE PROGRAM SO THAT MALES AND FEMALES COULD INTERACT WITH EACHOTHER BUT SINCE PETE WANTED ALL THE LITTLE GIRLS FOR HIMSELF SO PETE WENT AND COMPLAINED TO LINDA WALTEN AND GOT MIKE GRAGH FIRED. CHECK OUT ELAN SECRETS
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Dave Mcvetty definitely had the market on sanity cornered. He is one of the few staff i was sorry to say bye to when i left. Im not sure he is still there.
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dave......can i have a cough drop?
who remembers him grubbing out on those nasty cough drops all the time, he would always give you one too, what a guy!
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dave doesn't work there anymore. he had a heart attack and came back and had another one. so he quit.
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I was there when Dave first came to Elan -- back in 1985 or so.. he was the only staff member that seemed to honestly give a shit, and didn't seem to condone the bullshit antics of ass munchers like Tom Keppler, Ann Flynn and the other psycho -social miscreants
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You people are brainwashed! Dave McVetty might have been a "nice guy" But he didn't give a fuck about anyone, he wanted a paycheck and he was willing to work at an abusive torture camp to get it. He was phoney and you all know it. You guys are suckers. How many of you still get calls from Dave? Does he write you? Yeah, excactly. Suckers. :smokin:
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i agree dave kicked fuckin ass, i would always request to go on a sit with him. The best thing about dave was his dry sarcasm, the man was a funny motherfucker. mike mcgraph was chill as well but i heard that he got fired due to smoken pot with brian bob in his van. whats the deal?
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Dave was the man. i would always request to go on a sit with him. The best thing about Dave was his dry sarcasm. he was a funny motherfucker. mike mcgraph was mad chill as well but i heard he got fired due to smokin pot in his van with brian bob. lol whats the deal? :eek:
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Brian Bob is dead.
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how did he die?
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Wow! Your a real angry dude. Stop beeting the puppies, yelling at the neighbors kids for walking on your grass, and chill the F out.
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Thank you for pointing out the obvious, i am aware that brian bob is dead ,Although at first i thought it was just a bunch of "i heard it through the grape vine" gossip folk type shit. I still cant beleive he got his throat cut in a park and left to die on a bench,what a way to die man. fucked up shit :scared:
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Dave Mc Vetty rocks!
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No one cares what you say here, you loser....
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Hey, nazi, the same applies to you, dear. Are you angry :mad: ? Damn, I didn't think you cared about what I said... Guess not. Maybe you should just let go cause I sure as hell wasn't talking to you. Do yourself a favor: Go back to school, maybe you'll learn something.
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Go douche that dirty filthy bearded clam of your Marina and shut the fuck up....YOU CUNT
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Damn, don't you feel powerful using those words? :eek:
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Dave McVety was the man. He was the staff assigned to my family. He was the only staff that didnt seem to have a vendetta against us kids. I talked to him last december. I remember when he would always yell at me in morning meeting for falling asleep or something and say " Listen here Asshole take responsibility" then put a cough drop in his mouth
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oh and i forgot to mention his two famous words "BOTTOM LINE" when Ellis H and I started mimicing dave within a week all of e7 was doing it a day later the house was on a ban from mimicing him. During a special meal Ellis was a monk meditatating in front of everyone, I was by the door in the stairs and no staff could see me, so I put my arms out spread eagle like dave and mouthed bottom line asshole, then ellis broke out laughing
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Dave is actually the only one up at Elan that is certified to help out troubled teens.He should be the one in charge of running the entire place.Dave is a good guy, and I feel sorry that he has to be surrounded by all the scumbag employees.
I wonder how Dave copes with all the bullshit lewdness that the other staff seem to perform?
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I would have to agree that Dave was by far one of the best staff in elan. He was always up front with you wiether you like it or not. He might have been there for the pay check but at least he was an asshole like some.COnsider that.
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he still works there thank god he is ok. i still check in once in awhile.TG
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you know there were actually 2 people i adored at elan. dave and Hirem. Hirem was my ULTIMATE favorite! I didnt like have a crush on him, i just REALLy trusted him, I thought he was trying to help me through the program, i thought he was like ON MY SIDE...kind of thng. I thought sometimes, he could see THROUGH me, and was seeing my pain. I thought, he felt bad when mis-treatment was going on, but couldnt verbalize it...I thought Dave was like that too... One day, Dave really pissed me off...I saw through him and realized exactlly what someone on here wrote about him, i dont remember a name, but it was something in terms like he only wanted a pay check. or maybe was scared to speak up bc we were gonna come and go...I was sad...when I dipped out of elan, and wrote to Hirem like 1 yr or more later, that I was doing really well. I wrote him, I told him I have no kids am not married, am very independent, I told him I was going to college, in honors classes, and was modeling and in films and had an excellent relationship with my family.and on and on and he never wrote back. it was like i disappeared in to thin air. I f he ever really cared about me, or was proud of me, he would have written back.
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I was disappointed with Jenn Hussman and Kim for the same reason.
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E7HaterJe - Whoever you are I just wanted you to know about Hiram. He is a good man, and if you wrote to him he did not get it. I have emailed him sevral times over the years, and he has always gotten back to me. He also took a weekend to come to Boston and visit me. He recently had a second child and took his free weekend to spend with me. With Hiram there was no bullshit, jst the truth. Smoke and Mirrors all around at Elan, but not with Hiram, he mosy likely moved or something, I am sure he would have written you back. By the way, who are you?
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do you have his email? can i have it? I was in e7. from 96 i dont remember. it would mean a WHOLE lot if you gave me an email. Because I would feel so much better if I wrote him and he wrote back. it would make Elans memories, feel better to know the whole thingwasnt bullshit.
Jenny
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Dave Mcvetty was great yeah he had his times but he still made elan a little easier for me. He made me laugh when he go off on people. And who could forget bottomline :lol:
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Hiram was the staff who had a GM right? He seemed like a good man. Though I met him but a dozen times, with no true meeting involed as it is with foreign night staff.. What was the staff who was a Jimmy Buffet fans name his liscensce plate said Parot hd on it. I feel bad I dont remember his name since he went to my moms funeral with me. I felt so bad for him, I never even met him before that. Which in its self was quite strange.
SyN
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On 2004-06-26 21:34:00, MrSyNiStEr wrote:
"Hiram was the staff who had a GM right? He seemed like a good man. Though I met him but a dozen times, with no true meeting involed as it is with foreign night staff.. What was the staff who was a Jimmy Buffet fans name his liscensce plate said Parot hd on it. I feel bad I dont remember his name since he went to my moms funeral with me. I felt so bad for him, I never even met him before that. Which in its self was quite strange.
SyN"
What was this Mike? Hiram the staff member was given a GM? Please provide details as to I find this very interesting.
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How come the persont hat responded that Hirem never wrote me back because i wrote to his wrong email, i would like to attempt to write..why did no one or this person respond, if you said you were going to give me the email if i wanted it?
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when i was in 3 i over heard staff mention this. I didnt hear what Hiram did but As I recall he wanted a GM to clear his guilt with the kids he worked with.. An 8 kid could prolly clarify it better then me.
SyN
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So did Hiram's GM ever take place? Or this is all you know?
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hiram always threw GM's in E7/ he was the one that acted quiet, and less controlling. But until I got home, and read the letters that he sent home to my family, I realized hes more than what he lets people see.... He was the kind like, your not gonna work, then fuck you next...
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thats all folks.
SyN
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who said that i forgot? Dave?
have you ever done some kind of chore daily and it reminds you of Elan? Like a quick flash??? Washing the dishes?? Having to get on your knees to clean that shit that spilled on the floor? Waiting for what it seems as ages to take a shower because someone else is in the shower? Do any of you still get a drop of uneasyness, if your in a relationship, or alone in a room with an unattractive person--you get an Elan "One on One" flash back? you kind of dash out of the room or try your hardest not to make it sem like your making eye contact lol...ugh..and so many other little things...
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I didnt see your post until today. I will ask Hiram if its ok to give out his email to you. I am sure he wont mind. If he does, well, that answer your question and would change my opion of him. Whats your email address?
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send a private message, cuz if she posts her e-mail on her she will get harassed, i learned that the hard way.
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good call marenmaren. I cant remember my password though, so Jenny, send me a private message.
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Forget it, I remember my password
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I dont think I can send a private Message to a ANON???
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Dave was a cool cat. That sarcasm of his was dry as the Sahara Desert.
I remember one time he seemed kind of upset at work and he told us later in group that he had been driving home the night before and ran over a body that was already dead laying in the road.
I liked Dave alot but then I really can't think of anyone I didn't like or get along with there....at least in regards to staff. Elan was easy once you figured out the game. I was top dog in my house for a long time. like a rising star. Chief, Full Coor of Exp, and Senior....I did whatever I wanted. I had Fun at Elan. Shit....
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Dave Mcvetty left for a short time, but he is back. If you write to him at the school you might have a better chance of getting a reply. CCT
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HAHAHAHA oh MY GODDDD that is SOOOOOOOOOO true!!!!
DAVE AND COUGH DROPS!!!!
Like Peter w/ twizzlers...
but peter never shared...
and he sucked on those things bc he thought he was cool or something...
maybe at one point, in Elan,,,,we thought he was..
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On 2003-03-29 08:01:00, Anonymous wrote:
"dave......can i have a cough drop?
who remembers him grubbing out on those nasty cough drops all the time, he would always give you one too, what a guy!"
I remember Dave and his cough drops.... that's a funny memory!! Dave was cool... :smile:
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Who r u