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Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform => The Troubled Teen Industry => Topic started by: Anonymous on November 19, 2008, 06:31:42 PM

Title: Looking for Becca
Post by: Anonymous on November 19, 2008, 06:31:42 PM
Hey Guys!

This is LadiLucix from AntiWWASP.com... I was wondering if you guys could help me out... im trying to find a girl named Rebecca (beccabbyx) she has a fornits account and she has reached out to someone I know. I REALLY need to get a hold of her! Can anyone help?

I also wanted to ask you all if you have any information or advice how to go about helping a kid currently being held in a facility. I know you guys had some experience with a protest is there anyway I can lure you over to AntiWWASP.com to talk to our members about it? We are planning on starting a cooperation group that will serve to connect ALL the Anti-BM sites together and get us all sharing our knowledge. If your interested, just come chat us up on the forums/register at AntiWWASP.com and we will contact you privately when we are ready to start.

Thanks!
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Anonymous on November 19, 2008, 08:26:46 PM
You can contact Becca through PM.
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Che Gookin on November 20, 2008, 12:37:43 AM
I sent her a pm for you.

Good luck.
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Anonymous on November 21, 2008, 05:46:55 PM
Quote from: "Che Gookin"
I sent her a pm for you.

Good luck.

how is this progressing? Don't you think we should remove her avatar signiture and some of her posts so as not to endanger her until the wonderful young woman is out?

ps THANK GOD FOR THE INTERNET
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Ursus on November 21, 2008, 06:06:21 PM
Quote from: "hdfhdfh"
how is this progressing? Don't you think we should remove her avatar signiture and some of her posts so as not to endanger her until the wonderful young woman is out?

I'm sure a similar rationale was used to stick her into a program in the first place. Are you sure you're okay with that?
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: psy on November 21, 2008, 06:21:04 PM
Quote from: "hdfhdfh"
Quote from: "Che Gookin"
I sent her a pm for you.

Good luck.

how is this progressing? Don't you think we should remove her avatar signiture and some of her posts so as not to endanger her until the wonderful young woman is out?

I did PM here to suggest that, but I won't force words into or out of her mouth.  If she wants to risk it, it's her right.
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Anonymous on November 21, 2008, 08:57:31 PM
Quote from: "psy"
Quote from: "hdfhdfh"
Quote from: "Che Gookin"
I sent her a pm for you.

Good luck.

how is this progressing? Don't you think we should remove her avatar signiture and some of her posts so as not to endanger her until the wonderful young woman is out?

I did PM here to suggest that, but I won't force words into or out of her mouth.  If she wants to risk it, it's her right.

yes, yes, but this is her life. And, baby, kidnapping and imprisoning someone isn't similar to removing an avatar sig. Please, for the love of god. This girlshouldn't get tortured anymore than she already has been. Why make that a greater liklihood?

How is this progressing? IS Cafety/anyone working on her behalf?
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Anonymous on November 22, 2008, 12:31:58 AM
Quote from: "ladilucix"
We are planning on starting a cooperation group that will serve to connect ALL the Anti-BM sites together and get us all sharing our knowledge.


Fornits has not really taken a stance 'against' programs. I've read it is an experiment to provide an open forum to both pro program posters and anti BM posters and whoever else to hash it all out. There are many pro BM people who post here, and so in a way fornits is paying to host program marketing. There have been posters who seem to spend all day and night marketing for programs. Survivors have been humiliated and publicly outed with pictures and taunts just like a program, and a lot of people just come here to mess around with people's heads. Just a heads up, if you think that this is an anti program site, they will change their stance and leave up stuff that is hurtful towards a survivor. Most other anti BM sites do not tolerate this type of behavior on their sites. Be careful about how you present this topic to kids because 'BM' also means 'boo-boo maker', which is your butt-hole. Maybe, if you talk to young kids you could call it anti PROGRAM instead, just a thought.
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Anonymous on November 22, 2008, 12:46:24 AM
Quote from: "hgkghk"
yes, yes, but this is her life. And, baby, kidnapping and imprisoning someone isn't similar to removing an avatar sig. Please, for the love of god. This girlshouldn't get tortured anymore than she already has been. Why make that a greater liklihood?

How is this progressing? IS Cafety/anyone working on her behalf?

You're concerned about her identity and you want Psy to address that question publicly?  Are you fucking cracked?!?!
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Anonymous on November 22, 2008, 01:02:27 AM
Quote from: "Guest"
Quote from: "hgkghk"
yes, yes, but this is her life. And, baby, kidnapping and imprisoning someone isn't similar to removing an avatar sig. Please, for the love of god. This girlshouldn't get tortured anymore than she already has been. Why make that a greater liklihood?

How is this progressing? IS Cafety/anyone working on her behalf?

You're concerned about her identity and you want Psy to address that question publicly?  Are you fucking cracked?!?!

I wouldn't think that a public statement about whether an unamed kid is being helped would be damaging. Am I wrong about this?
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Anonymous on November 22, 2008, 01:11:17 AM
Quote from: "fkghk"
I wouldn't think that a public statement about whether an unamed kid is being helped would be damaging. Am I wrong about this?

Yes you are, because it increases the possibility of a few things:  the program taking action, an ed-con informing the program, and whoever is helping (if there is help going on) getting thwarted.  Use your head.
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Che Gookin on November 22, 2008, 04:56:38 AM
I've had some experience helping a girl who was in Bromely Brook or whatever the hell they called it. The guest's fears are legit in regards to being worried about the gal getting in trouble through the duckfarm. However, while the place doesn't rate on the Abuse meter as TBesque the negligence experienced by the residents raises some huge concerns.

However, like it or not she is free to take whatever risks she feels she has to take.

ladilux.. if you guys are helping this gal and need someone who has first person experience with the dump let me know. I'll make the connect.

PM me over on antiwwasp about it and I'll get back to you.
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Froderik on November 22, 2008, 09:56:28 AM
It's different this time because the Houston Police are involved.
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Anonymous on November 22, 2008, 03:26:27 PM
Use your own head, please. If ed-cons, or god knows who, are going to notify the bad guys it's going to be as soon as they see a prisoner reaching a computer, and transmitting help pleas.

They're not going to be fine with that UNLESS there's CONFIRMATION the person's being helped. If you want to keep this person safe, delete the avatar sig and material denoting her local, (until she's safe, then put it back up) otherwise just stopping short of announcing that people are interveneing  doesn't make a difference.
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Froderik on November 22, 2008, 03:42:57 PM
I know where she is! She's free and clear!!!

(This post is intended for humor purposes only and does not necessarily reflect the views of Fornits or its members.)
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Anonymous on November 22, 2008, 03:44:54 PM
Quote from: "Froderik"
I know where she is! She's free and clear!!!

(This post is intended for humor purposes only and does not necessarily reflect the views of Fornits or its members.)

R U being sarcastic?
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Froderik on November 22, 2008, 03:46:34 PM
Quote from: "lh;j;"
Quote from: "Froderik"
I know where she is! She's free and clear!!!

(This post is intended for humor purposes only and does not necessarily reflect the views of Fornits or its members.)

R U being sarcastic?
It is beyond your experience to understand at this time.  :rofl:
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Anonymous on November 22, 2008, 04:08:55 PM
Quote from: "Froderik"
It is beyond your experience to understand at this time.  :rofl:
:roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:   :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :beat:  ::poke::
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Anonymous on November 22, 2008, 09:17:39 PM
I really don't think this subject is funny.

I hope the girl is O.K. I was her a year or two ago. I hope her B.M. facility isn't as bad as mine, but when she's saying she just is going to kill herself to escape it..it doesn't sound promising
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: hurrikayne on November 23, 2008, 12:10:57 AM
Becca, if you're out there, shoot me a pm.
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: Anonymous on February 23, 2009, 12:49:21 AM
Contact CAFETY, the worked helping Becca and are writing up a case study on the issue.
Title: Re: Looking for Becca
Post by: beccabbyx on May 28, 2009, 10:46:02 PM
i made it out.
feel free to contact me.
thanks for the concern.