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Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform => World Wide Association of Specialty Programs and Schools (WWASPS) => Topic started by: Anonymous on December 14, 2006, 05:37:36 PM

Title: Son very defiant in regards to school and new partner.
Post by: Anonymous on December 14, 2006, 05:37:36 PM

I posted this at Strugglingteens.Com and I am posting it here because I  am desperate to find the right solution for my son.  He has been struggling in school and he refuses to accept my new partner despite his attemts to devolop a relationship with him. My son has struggles with confidence and he is in jeopardy of losing his eligibility to play sports due to his grades. I want to have him escorted to a program but my ex refuses to agree to do that.He doesnot want to help himself.He has been particulary against me since I divorced his father. I just do not know where to turn right now. I feel like I have tried every possible option.

Title: Son very defiant in regards to school and new partner.
Post by: Anonymous on December 14, 2006, 06:46:49 PM

Yikes, another program parent wannabe.

 :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:

Title: Son very defiant in regards to school and new partner.
Post by: Anonymous on December 14, 2006, 07:42:01 PM

Your ex knows what he is talkikng about, don't send your kid.

Title: Son very defiant in regards to school and new partner.
Post by: 69 on December 14, 2006, 08:24:29 PM

Is ridge creek even a wwasp school? Thats the program this poster was asking about in the other forum. WWASPS has so damn many schools now its hard to keep track.

Title: Son very defiant in regards to school and new partner.
Post by: Anonymous on December 14, 2006, 11:18:54 PM

I only misspelled one word. I do not know what you are talking about.

Title: Son very defiant in regards to school and new partner.
Post by: Anonymous on December 14, 2006, 11:20:33 PM

That was me again the above post. Sorry.

Title: Son very defiant in regards to school and new partner.
Post by: mbnh31782 on December 14, 2006, 11:58:46 PM

children, even teens need time to adjust to a new situation.  I'd recommend bringing him to a psychologist.  Dont expect to see a change over night from just one visit to the psychologist.  Its going to take time for him to accept changes and a psychologist can help him with accepting.

Title: It is a relationship problem, not a teenager problem
Post by: Covergaard on December 15, 2006, 04:28:32 AM

It sounds like he functions fine, does his schoolwork and have healthy interests.

So there is no problem with the boy. The problem is lack of communication and accept. That is where you should intervene with counselling.

May I suggest that you leave your environment and go on a trip where you can experience challenges together. Maybe a family summer camp or even a kind of terapeutic expedition.

I have seen that anasazi has developed a 21 day long program. Normal programs are longer but only because the participent can not leave. If the terapist were doing their jobs and not looking on the financial part, even normal program would be shorter. In such family programs they have to do their best because adults can leave any time. See http://www.anasazi.org/press-12.html (http://www.anasazi.org/press-12.html)

The important issue are however, that you solve the problem and not a symptom of the problem. So if you choose to sent someone, it must be you all.

Title: Son very defiant in regards to school and new partner.
Post by: Anonymous on December 15, 2006, 04:47:34 AM

May I suggest that you  ::troll:: ?

Title: Son very defiant in regards to school and new partner.
Post by: Anonymous on December 15, 2006, 07:58:54 AM

Milk,
     He is only trying to help the cause-

although this is one of MGDP nicer ways to state it!

Title: Son very defiant in regards to school and new partner.
Post by: Nihilanthic on December 15, 2006, 12:53:08 PM

Double fucking post.

Why is this even here?