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Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform => Straight, Inc. and Derivatives => Topic started by: farmbarby on February 15, 2003, 10:13:00 PM
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Hello from Canada,
I was on the net and look what I have found. I would love to hear from some of you. My name is Jan Rayburn if anyone remembers me drop me a note at farmbarby@hotmail.com
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WELL YOU CAN FORGET ABOUT CAROLYN TRAVER IS STILL WITH MILLER AND SHE IS GETTING MARRIED TO ANOTHER CURRENT GRADUATE. I FEEL SORRY FOR HER AND HER PARENTS
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Okay then how about Pam Traver. Or even a phone number to her parents Rosalie and Jim. I'm willing to take my chances. Thanx.
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PAM IS NOT IN KIDS SHE IS LEGAL (NO PUN INTENDED)
AND SHE IS VERY NICE
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I heard that the person she was going to marry is actually not even in the program anymore
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Somebody is actually LOOKING for Tammy Auerbach?
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I hear that
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Now that's funny.
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"set yer clock an hour back"
Ha Ha Ha LOL Ha Ha Ha :wstupid:
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That Shit is way funny! Way? Way!
Bill and Ted
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Hey, is this the Ted from El Paso? We hung out after KIDS.
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WAY! ::jawdrop::
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Ted Klauss? Don't you remember when you first got out, you were going out with Karen Ocker and we used to hang out in Hillsdale. I have pix of you back then.
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hello all, i beleive tammy a is back in jersey, rob gruhn is still down in georgia. i don't speak to them anymore i think they resent me because i was too broke to buy them a wedding gift ahen they got married, oh well. i also would like to know about pam travers whereabouts, i owe her alot of apologies for being a mean staff member, i really wanted to help her. i was suffering from being brainwashed at the time so i wasn't very affective. lennon74@aol.com bwhittaker is the name
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That sure sounds like the Tammy I knew and happily no longer do!
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i feel sorry for tammy she was so lonely and desperate for attention even as a shitty staff member. she would almost brag about her past like it was cool. and her mouth full of those cavities.......yuk :lol:
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I think that was a quote from "Bill and Ted" and not Ted Cl*uss. from NJ. Ted has stopped by thekidsbbs.com though and has posted/does read/email me on occasion.
Toddman
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Dearest anonymous,
From my understanding it is your opinion that Tammy bragged about her past. Since you do not know if that is the case I suggest you keep your comments to yourself. Too often I notice character cutting comments on this site. It is not your or my place to post such judgements.
Thanx
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I was in kids only for a short time. I used to live very close to Tammy. Since my parents pulled me from the program she never spoke to me or my family. I don't know exactly when she left ( i was only there for a couple of months I think in 1990) but she seemed to be doing well when I did see her around. She may have moved though because I used to see her with a guy (boyfriend, husband) but I haven't seen them in a while. Take care everyone and remember we survived!!!! :smile:
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Sometimes, when you treat people sooo very poorly consistantly, you deserve to hear that you were not liked. That girl was selfish and I resent her more for post-kids yrs than any program era BOASTING. I am glad not to know her anymore.
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but you just don't have the time. . .
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Rob dumped Tammy - who wouldn't - and is now a doctor and I believe he's married again. She was SO dumb - boy did he ever get suckered into marrying that!
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You don't even want me going into the concept of males being suckers...
As far as the love lifes of the staff members, I remember thinking that these "Leave it to Beaver" wannabes couldn't have had any sort of fulfilling relationships.
Newton was trying to mold us all into his brand of stepford children: devoted to his morals & values, clean-cut, subservient as hell...
What amazes me is the paranoia that Kids bred in us... We were scared shitless to get caught doing anything. And in that place we all knew that ANYTHING could be wrong, or twisted to appear to be wrong. I'd be paranoid, too.
But in a relationship between two staff members, where you've got someone who's a potential spy in the house?
Sorry, but that doesn't build a firm foundation of trust, which most people agree is the start of a lasting relationship.
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Yeah, the paranoia. I still have extra paranoid kids type thoughts (20 years later). My friends say, "What is wrong with you?" Only I know why.
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This is strange that you are all talking about paranoia. I just last night had a talk with my husband about how paranoid I've (finally) noticed I've been for what seems like forever. I always feel like I've done something wrong, and that other people know it when I don't. And I gotta tell you, I'm a little to boring, mundane and suburban to do much to feel guilty about. But yet, I always feel guilty, sorry. But somethings changed over the past year or so. I Notice it now. I notice that it's not normal, and that I don't have to feel guilty for just being alive and walking the halls at work or waiting on line at the dairy queen. I think being on this website, reading the posts and reality of what happened to us is clearing my head of the last remnants of the brainwashing kids did to me. Either that, or I'm going crazy. It really doesn't matter which, at this point in my life I can handle either outcome. Although crazy IS more comfortable, is it not? :smile:
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On 2003-07-01 18:22:00, Anonymous wrote:
"This is strange that you are all talking about paranoia. I just last night had a talk with my husband about how paranoid I've (finally) noticed I've been for what seems like forever. I always feel like I've done something wrong, and that other people know it when I don't. And I gotta tell you, I'm a little to boring, mundane and suburban to do much to feel guilty about. But yet, I always feel guilty, sorry. But somethings changed over the past year or so. I Notice it now. I notice that it's not normal, and that I don't have to feel guilty for just being alive and walking the halls at work or waiting on line at the dairy queen. I think being on this website, reading the posts and reality of what happened to us is clearing my head of the last remnants of the brainwashing kids did to me. Either that, or I'm going crazy. It really doesn't matter which, at this point in my life I can handle either outcome. Although crazy IS more comfortable, is it not? :smile:
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That, my bretheren, is the first taste of mental & emotional FREEDOM. Savor it.
I've learned since Kids that who I am is just fine. I don't need to try to fit into some preconceived idea of me. I don't have to bend & sway and break my principles for anyone.
I had to get my mom to understand that. It's taken a couple relationships... Only recently have I been fortunate enough to find a job that lets me run free and simply 'be me'.
And besides... Sanity is SO over-rated. :wink:
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Thank you! :smile:
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Oh yeah - I'd forgotten those cavities! Remember when they put a restraining order on her after she left - weird......why would she try and get back!
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Dear kids survivors,
At the time I posted this message I didn't realize how innappropriate it was for me to print their full names. But I am still looking for these lovely ladies and would like any information as to their whereabouts. It is I Jan in Canada. Email is farmbarby@hotmail.com.
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you all need to really get a life to take time out to gossip about people from 10 years ago tells me your life has no excitment to it i am happy you all are still thinking about me and fyi rob gruhn is fucked up on drugs & im not!!!
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"love ya tamm"
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Tammy Tammy Tammy - you just don't change do you hun. Still the lying jealous b*tch you always were. How's the weight?
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I know we ALL have our personal shit with certain people we knew out of KIDS...I have a FEW people i'd LOVE to completely humiliate on this board, ...but it stays OFF the boards. Thats personal...I hate to sound like mommy, but don't make me have to edit, please...its getting close.
tami, ive been looking for u for a while...email me...
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Tammy. good to hear your doing well. We were pretty close. Hung out with you and Carlos and Rob alot. :smile:
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On 2004-02-11 23:16:00, Webmistress wrote:
"I know we ALL have our personal shit with certain people we knew out of KIDS...I have a FEW people i'd LOVE to completely humiliate on this board, ...but it stays OFF the boards. Thats personal...I hate to sound like mommy, but don't make me have to edit, please...its getting close.
tami, ive been looking for u for a while...email me...
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Forgive me for being confused, but isn't this taking sides? Censorship? Since I stumbled across this message board I have seen so many "personal" attacks all over the place. Most often about those still connected with Newton, but many about people who are no longer. I don't see why you would threaten to edit this, while allowing threats of physical violence and crude insults all over the place, or why you don't threaten to edit comments about someone like... Joel or Kathy? I've certainly seen a lot worse postings. Not that I have any strong feelings one way or another about any of them now. I do know first hand that Tammy could be mean and abusive as an oldcomer many years ago. I also think it was a long time ago in a system that encouraged that. Though I don't find trashing her (or anyone else) fulfilling in any way, I certainly understand the resentment people feel. Just not sure how you would pick and choose what insults to edit and about who? Seems like taking sides, that's all.
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I agree - play nice & be constructive or shut the hell up
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Play nice? Tell that to Tammy Auerbach.............she never did and is as fucked up(in the head)as she always was!!!!!!!!!Jeeeez Hey - I know that for a fact.
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PAM WAS SO SWEET WOULDNT HURT A FLY SHE WAS MY OLD COMER A FEW TIMES IF YOUR OUT THERE DANIELLE S SAY HEY
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tRICIA AND JEN R U OUT THERR? YOU LIVE CLOSE TO ME DANIELLE S FROM LONG ISLAND .HOW R U ?TRICIA WAS MY OLD COMER MY FIRST NIGHT. I DIDNT FULLY UNDERSTAND WHY THE PEOPLE ACTED LIKE THAT BUT I HOPE YOU BOTH R WELL AND HEALTHY
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did she rreally marry rob? he was an ok guy
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hi, im new at this website. just passing through, reading some of the comments. really, i dont know what to say about tammy. though i remember she called my house one time , just to ask me if i had started doing drugs after the program. couldn't believe she did that. believe u me, i was upset. but, i just let it roll of my back and never spoke to her, again....strange.
plmtrilvr
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I can't place who you are. Not Pam T, because I do not think she had brothers. Who are you exactly? And, nice to see you around here.
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WELL, I WAS IN THE PROGRAM IN 1990-1994. MY NAME IS CINDY. I HAD 2 BROTHERS, M.C. AND J.C. SO,YOU PROBABLY KNOW WHO I AM.I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHO SOME OF THE ANONYMOUS PEOPLE ARE, BECAUSE THEY SOUND FAMILIAR. BUT, I GUESS YOU GUYS STAY ANONYMOUS FOR YOUR OWN REASONS. ANYWAY, I HOPE THAT YOU'RE DOING OK AND EVEN THOUGH I JUST POSTED A FEW TIMES, I'M HAPPY TO BE HERE WITH YOU GUYS.
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