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Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform => Straight, Inc. and Derivatives => Topic started by: Anonymous on September 08, 2005, 03:37:00 PM
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Im in my 30's and starting over again!! I find myself in relationships getting abused or find out my children are being abused. All the shelters are full down here, geat timming! Think I am gonna turn gay now!
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People get abused in "gay relationships" too, and so do their kids! What makes you think you won't pick an abusive "gay" lover?
How about growing up and takiing care of YOURSELF and your kids?
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Thanks, I think I will try that
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Is It My Body
What have I got that makes you want to love me is it my body or someone I might be or somethin' inside me
You better tell me tell me it's really up to you have you got the time to find out who I really am oh oh ah
What does it take to get inside of your mind give me a break and take a chance for the very first time
You better tell me tell me it's really up to you have you got the time to find out who I really am
What have I got that makes you want to love me now is it my body or someone I might be or somethin' inside me
You better tell me tell me it's really up to you have you got the time to find out who I really am ah ah ooh
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Bein' homeless is hard. It's a ton of work. 'N' i reckon it's that much harder with kids. i hope you at least have a car or maybe a van to live in. i only spent the night in a shelter once, when i was copped out. i don' like the shelters. Whenever i was homeless i tried to stay out of the cities and keep on the move. As long as i was movin' i was constantly meetin' new people who were kind and generous to me. Eventually i met this cat who owned a blueberry farm jus' outside o'Eugene, OR. He gave me a job pickin' berries and let me stay in a tent out behind the ol' barn. By the time i had picked berries all summer i had saved enough to buy an ol' Datsun stationwagon. i drove that back to PA 'n' lived out of it for a long time. Eventually i was able to move up and buy an ol Dodge van. Finally i bought an ol' run-down, 1 room cabin in a flood plain with no electricity and no runnin' water. It was 13" out of square and the roof leaked like a sieve when i bought it at the county tax auction for $500.00. i jacked up the back corener which squared it up and fixed the roof with wooden planks which i scavenged wherever i could. i put a small wood stove in it and called it home for the next 5 years.
Keep your eyes on the local papers. Often times you can find cheap property at the county tax auctions. Best of luck to ya.
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Starry-eyed Pirate , That was very inspiring ... I can only hope for the original poster that they can find the determination and strength you must have had to overcome your own situation.
I often lack this in myself and your post reminded me of this. Straight taught us that fighting our current situation, however terrible it may be , is futile. SO many of us learned to give up prematurely. I now see this in myself.
Thank you for being here walking with us. I need to know how others have endured , so that I may continue to move forawrd.[ This Message was edited by: Withdraw on 2005-09-08 15:23 ]
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On 2005-09-08 12:37:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Im in my 30's and starting over again!! I find myself in relationships getting abused or find out my children are being abused. All the shelters are full down here, geat timming! Think I am gonna turn gay now! "
I think I remember someone posting similar stuff awhile back. What state do you live in? If you want you can PM me and I will look into some resources where you live or help you figure out how to relocate. I will keep everything confidential.
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How are you?
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I am in a shelter.
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[ This Message was edited by: Withdraw on 2005-09-22 22:52 ]
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THey didn't say they were "okay", they said they were in a shelter. DUH. Have you ever stayed in a shelter? Guess not.
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They ( if it's them ) are ALIVE... meaning ok.. not in a wonderful world of bliss w/ candied unicorns and cherry gumdrops..
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or purple jesii...
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On 2005-09-21 18:07:00, Anonymous wrote:
"They ( if it's them ) are ALIVE... meaning ok.. not in a wonderful world of bliss w/ candied unicorns and cherry gumdrops.. "
Obviouskly you never stayed in a shelter. Give me break. Post the fucking Kama Sutra if you want to philosophize on the mental status of a homeless person in a shelter who is in a bad domestic scene with partner and kids. Fucking DUH. Bitch.
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On 2005-09-21 20:35:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2005-09-21 18:07:00, Anonymous wrote:
"They ( if it's them ) are ALIVE... meaning ok.. not in a wonderful world of bliss w/ candied unicorns and cherry gumdrops.. "
Obviouskly you never stayed in a shelter. Give me break. Post the fucking Kama Sutra if you want to philosophize on the mental status of a homeless person in a shelter who is in a bad domestic scene with partner and kids. Fucking DUH. Bitch."
They'll be OK as long as they work their Program.....
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I have been and partly still am in a similar situation... And I'm OK... not great but OK... And I am glad the OP is OK..
SO fuck off you self troliing Tard.
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you seem to have some feelings. share them with us, anon.
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good to know -- apply your steps.
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On 2005-09-21 20:40:00, Anonymous wrote:
"I have been and partly still am in a similar situation... And I'm OK... not great but OK... And I am glad the OP is OK..
SO fuck off you self troliing Tard."
Allow me to end this pitiable parlay with the following gentle reminder that the OP said they were "in a shelter". THey did not say "I am okay". Okay?
Now, I suppose if they come back here and say "I am okay", you will believe it. Even though each and every day is ten times the chore and depression of your own pathetic scarf-wearing life.
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They just need to apply the Steps......
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On 2005-09-21 20:51:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2005-09-21 20:40:00, Anonymous wrote:
"I have been and partly still am in a similar situation... And I'm OK... not great but OK... And I am glad the OP is OK..
SO fuck off you self troliing Tard."
Allow me to end this pitiable parlay with the following gentle reminder that the OP said they were "in a shelter". THey did not say "I am okay". Okay?
Now, I suppose if they come back here and say "I am okay", you will believe it. Even though each and every day is ten times the chore and depression of your own pathetic scarf-wearing life."
:nworthy: :nworthy: :nworthy: :nworthy:
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On 2005-09-21 10:28:00, Withdraw wrote:
"Stay safe, Im glad your ok.. "
i hope you are doing ok, and i can only imagine what you are going through right now.....
likw W said....stay safe
:wave:
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I am still in a shelter with my kids. I am alive and doing ok.