On 2005-10-25 19:46:00, absolutebest wrote:
"You were Princess Leia in the costume party? How come?"
On 2005-10-27 21:08:00, absolutebest wrote:
I spent all day, every day building a huge rock wall that is most likely still there. It was bullshit. I kind of got pulled because of that.
On 2005-10-28 02:18:00, sorry... try another castle wrote:
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On 2005-10-27 21:08:00, absolutebest wrote:
I spent all day, every day building a huge rock wall that is most likely still there. It was bullshit. I kind of got pulled because of that.
Hey! I bet your rock wall replaced MY rock wall from MY full time! Would it by any chance be the one in the main driveway leading up to the house?
Mine was pretty damn sturdy back in the day, and it took me a 14 day full time to build, but I'm sure by the time you were there, it was a mess, if it was still around, even.
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On 2005-10-28 11:52:00, Anonymous wrote:
"It's when you are an "Upperclassmen" student or whatever and you assist with a propheet. It's just doing it all over again but supposedly you're supposed to be helping the staff out and the other students. It's wasn't supposed to be like going through the whole thing again, but it usually ended up being just like the first time you did. We didn't call it "Soft Seating" at NWA, we called it Supporting.
The one that I did was basically like the first time except that they didn't focus so much on me as they did the other students. But it was totally gay. And while you sort of voulnteered to do it, the staff had a great influence. It was just the illusion of choice. They would suggest it to you and if you chose not to do it, negative consequences would follow. Totally lame. "
Yes. I rebuilt that wall in 1996. I had to take it down rock by rock and rebuild the wall. I finished 90% of it then got taken off of my 3 1/2-week booth. Some other guy finished the wall. My back still isn't right. My friend Mike--who I still talk to--had something like an 80-day full-time. He built half of the shit at RMA.
Reading the posts brought back some memories. I just like to start with a big "FUCK YOU RMA".
The The Summit, I and Me, Imagine, Values, I Want to Live, Dreams, Childrens, and Truth -- what strange non-applicable crap.
At the summit I attended, we had the so-called 'urban challenge'. I have no memory of what I had to complete during that time. I just remember it being a sunny day, and hanging out at a park. The "Urban Challenge" was a welcome reprieve from the RMA bullshit. I think we were not allowed to talk to anyone from RMA during the challenge -- not being able to talk to anyone from RMA was a blessing.
Thanks to person who mentioned the Key. I had an old key, and I did not remember what where it was from.
I do remember the contract. Mine was I am a beautiful forgiving woman. Huh -- more bullshit. Who I am cannot be summed up into some cheesy one-liner. I did not recall all the arguing around determining what my one-liner would be, until reading what other folks posted. I remember the confusion around should my one-liner have the word 'powerful' in it. I was amazed that group [or was it facilitators] was having hard time choosing between such dichotomous words. At that point in the program, I did not have an opinion about what the phrase should be. I just wanted out!
The costume part -- I thought that was fun. I liked getting dressed up, and acting. Sure there were folks making fun of me, but in my mind that was just part of the sucky RMA experience. In retrospect, I think I should have been hurt by having to act out that character. I was Dorothy, from the Wizard of Oz, and I had to walk around saying there is no place like home.
I was one of those kids that did not have a home. For holidays, I stayed at RMA. That sucked!
Wow, I was so many years ago.
I remember in The I and Me having to run, and then beat a mattress for hours. It seems like that path to run was either a trail above the house or down to the farm and then back to whatever that big 'new' was building.
I think the thing that I liked the best about the I and Me was somewhere in the middle of the night we were given time to be alone. I walked down to the pond. The pond was frozen over. The moon was shinning brightly, and reflecting off of the pond. I was sitting on top of the diving platform. I think we were not allowed to smoke during the 'sessions', but I smoked part of a cigarette.
Oh yeah, there was also the part where people held you down and you had to fight your way out. Did the group have to push you down too?
For some reason, I remember my mouth hurting from gripping and pulling something with my mouth for so long. Gosh, I hope that?s a false memory. What a fucked up place!!
Yes, I am conflating the Summit and the I and Me. But this was many years ago.
On another note, I went back to the place that I lived at from when I was 7-14. For some reason I thought that going back to look at the house would be very hard. But once, I got there the only thing that came to mind was thankfulness that I no longer lived in that house and with those people. At this moment, I feel thankful that I am no longer at RMA. Thankfully, as an adult, I have the resources to never be put in placement again.
At the same time, last week I was reading Auschwitz and After by Charlotte Delbo. Great book -- I highly recommend it. The author speaks to the experiences of French political prisoners in Nazi Germany. I was surprised at how closely, some of my behavior after leaving and during RMA closely mirrored those women. I am not suggesting that RMA was anything like horrors seen in Nazi Germany. The two are not even remotely comparable. But if you have time read the book, and post your opinion. Maybe PTSD is PTSD regardless of the catalyst. The women in the book re-acted akin to the ways that I have although GREATLY amplified.
For some reason, I remember my mouth hurting from gripping and pulling something with my mouth for so long. Gosh, I hope that?s a false memory. What a fucked up place!!
On 2005-10-26 20:06:00, absolutebest wrote:
"So, let me get this straight... day one and two are like normal raps, day three is the raft exercise and the funeral/death/obituary day, day four is the costume party and day five is neighborhoods/contracts? I can't get these days straight. When do you go into Bonners and talk to people, the urban challenge I think its called (or do you)? How does the Summit kick off? How do they wrap it up? What in the hell does "The Rose", roses or "Fame" (the song that everyone dances to) have to do with anything? What in the hell is the red/green game? I am confused.
- Adam"
On 2005-11-12 22:20:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2005-10-26 20:06:00, absolutebest wrote:
"So, let me get this straight... day one and two are like normal raps, day three is the raft exercise and the funeral/death/obituary day, day four is the costume party and day five is neighborhoods/contracts? I can't get these days straight. When do you go into Bonners and talk to people, the urban challenge I think its called (or do you)? How does the Summit kick off? How do they wrap it up? What in the hell does "The Rose", roses or "Fame" (the song that everyone dances to) have to do with anything? What in the hell is the red/green game? I am confused.
- Adam"
wow... its been like 10 years... but let me see if i can shed some light.... lol... day one was beginning or contracts and who you really represented, as well as your dirt list... etc... then at night you had writing assignments (this was every night)... day 2 was partner day trust crap.hiking throught the woods.. and then epitaphs (or what people would say bout you if you were to die) and then laying in a coffin, day 3 was partnering up with the person you hated most, and seeing through other people's eyes how they saw you.... the night time was the raft and other excersises... day 4 was same partners and finding things for a party... and then the party which was a charactor that was suppose to be the most like our actions.... which is where whinnie the pooh, and leah, and skywalker and everything comes from... for me it was oz... and when you hit your charactor, perfectly, then they would lift you through the room as they did after contracts. Day 5 was graduating the summit, where you were given your contract, and then the key to your life... etc.... "
On 2005-11-12 22:20:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2005-11-12 22:20:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2005-10-26 20:06:00, absolutebest wrote:
"So, let me get this straight... day one and two are like normal raps, day three is the raft exercise and the funeral/death/obituary day, day four is the costume party and day five is neighborhoods/contracts? I can't get these days straight. When do you go into Bonners and talk to people, the urban challenge I think its called (or do you)? How does the Summit kick off? How do they wrap it up? What in the hell does "The Rose", roses or "Fame" (the song that everyone dances to) have to do with anything? What in the hell is the red/green game? I am confused.
- Adam"
wow... its been like 10 years... but let me see if i can shed some light.... lol... day one was beginning or contracts and who you really represented, as well as your dirt list... etc... then at night you had writing assignments (this was every night)... day 2 was partner day trust crap.hiking throught the woods.. and then epitaphs (or what people would say bout you if you were to die) and then laying in a coffin, day 3 was partnering up with the person you hated most, and seeing through other people's eyes how they saw you.... the night time was the raft and other excersises... day 4 was same partners and finding things for a party... and then the party which was a charactor that was suppose to be the most like our actions.... which is where whinnie the pooh, and leah, and skywalker and everything comes from... for me it was oz... and when you hit your charactor, perfectly, then they would lift you through the room as they did after contracts. Day 5 was graduating the summit, where you were given your contract, and then the key to your life... etc.... "
oh... and i wrote this... joe keuter pg-56 rma, 9june 96 graduation cedu."
On 2005-11-12 22:20:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2005-11-12 22:20:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2005-10-26 20:06:00, absolutebest wrote:
"So, let me get this straight... day one and two are like normal raps, day three is the raft exercise and the funeral/death/obituary day, day four is the costume party and day five is neighborhoods/contracts? I can't get these days straight. When do you go into Bonners and talk to people, the urban challenge I think its called (or do you)? How does the Summit kick off? How do they wrap it up? What in the hell does "The Rose", roses or "Fame" (the song that everyone dances to) have to do with anything? What in the hell is the red/green game? I am confused.
- Adam"
wow... its been like 10 years... but let me see if i can shed some light.... lol... day one was beginning or contracts and who you really represented, as well as your dirt list... etc... then at night you had writing assignments (this was every night)... day 2 was partner day trust crap.hiking throught the woods.. and then epitaphs (or what people would say bout you if you were to die) and then laying in a coffin, day 3 was partnering up with the person you hated most, and seeing through other people's eyes how they saw you.... the night time was the raft and other excersises... day 4 was same partners and finding things for a party... and then the party which was a charactor that was suppose to be the most like our actions.... which is where whinnie the pooh, and leah, and skywalker and everything comes from... for me it was oz... and when you hit your charactor, perfectly, then they would lift you through the room as they did after contracts. Day 5 was graduating the summit, where you were given your contract, and then the key to your life... etc.... "
oh... and i wrote this... joe keuter pg-56 rma, 9june 96 graduation cedu."
On 2005-11-16 02:59:00, nashari wrote:
"I do remember you, and it has been a long time... over 10 years I do believe... lol... if you want to get ahold of me, you can always reach me on my site... http://forums.nashari.net (http://forums.nashari.net)
I think I still have my Summit notebook somewhere..
-Joe"
On 2005-12-01 12:59:00, nashari wrote:
"oh... and if anyone wants the writing assignments from the i and me.. let me know... cause i have those somewhere too... lol"
On 2005-10-25 10:44:00, banana rama wrote:
"wanna know why people were so elated when they got out of the summit? cus they knew they were going to eat and sleep like a normal human being and that somebody wasnt gonna tell ya that the reason you didnt get a "you live" vote from them was because you didnt deserve it, "cuz you have no dreams." heck, we were all screwed up, but it sure does throw you into a loop when you get only one "you live" vote. i cant stand princess leah."