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On 2005-06-14 10:05:00, Anonymous wrote:

"This girl can't do any damage control!

Isn't that why the Suds have Lawyer Jack?



Why these boys ran away....and bet you it was not to attend any music concert!



If they were gone for two days before leaving Utah---how did they even know how to contact this Harris person, IF THAT IS WHAT THEY EVEN DID?

WHO ELSE was involved in this?



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Why does "someone else" always have to be involved? These guys are old enough to change their own diapers, if you haven't noticed. They could've had a fragment of a brain cell to call information. They aren't two years old, and they aren't retarded.

And they did contact Harris. The PD has proof.

I'm a former student from Whitmore, posting on here because I feel the need to stand up for what I know is true.

On 2005-06-14 08:24:00, Anonymous wrote:


"At the time we researched, we didn't find anything about the Sudweeks except the Who Am I Discovery site.  And we believed what was told to us by Sue Scheff.  We also were pretty naive about the troubled teen business and really didn't know too much what to look for.  We made an unannounced trip to Whitmore and were sucked in by Cheryl.  It was only towards the end that we started to become suspecious that things weren't as they seemed.  Cheryl didn't answer e-mails or phone calls, was never available.  And on my visits I started observing things that didn't set too well with me, and started asking questions."

Let me ask you a couple things. What did Sue tell you, exactly?  How did Cheryl "suck you in"? And did you ever suspect we were on a trip at the time you tried to reach her, or maybe in town? If you tell when you tried to contact her, I could most likely let you know the reasons why your attempts went unanswered. What things did you observe that "didn't set too well" with you? Thank you for taking a moment to answer my questions.

Oh, and just so everyone knows, I'm looking for valid answers from the individual who originally stated things about these subjects. So no, I'm not seeking a pointless blurb from a random anon. Thank you.[ This Message was edited by: mouse on 2005-06-14 08:47 ]

On 2005-06-14 04:20:00, Anonymous wrote:

"thats what im saying. How is Leah's grandmother going to complain about that kind of stuff. You dont see her talking about her son-in-law. No need for personal information, but Leah shared great stories about him with us. Maybe that is not any of anyone's business though. Who knows? But then again, I am guessing a lot of money did not go into that one. -Peace"

Right on. Nothing you're accusing the Sudweeks of is even a fraction of what I know for a fact your (ex?)son-in-law has done to his own family. And I don't even know all of it. I don't see you fussing too much over that, grandma. I was pissed when I heard it, and I dislike Leah and have never met her family! Why don't you care, granny? Can't get much money out of that one?

On 2005-06-14 06:10:00, Tha Truth wrote:


"That's exactly where the focus needs to be. They keep burning these little straw-men in the path to the real issue. WHY WOULD THEY LEAVE? Kids don't just wake up with bruises on them. I'd feel the exact same way as them if I had gotten that treatment.

If I was treated the way a lot of people around this forum are talking about, believe me, I would've run away the first chance I had. I don't take bs, and Whitmore is no exception. If I'd been treated badly, I would've left. If I somehow hadn't been able to, I'd be telling the world right now if things of the abusive sort did go down.

I like the Whitmore. It's a pretty cool place to be.

I suppose you have the right to your opinion. And although I'm not who you think I am, I do know her and don't recall all that happening to such an extreme. I didn't know Caitlyn too well, but enough to know she missed group a lot when I was there because she went to bed early almost every day, around 7 or 8, and that includes Sundays. And I haven't heard her yelled at any more than a few times in my time there. Everyone there regards her as the one to rarely do anything wrong. I remember because it pissed me off because she seemed so perfect at things. So I don't know what you're talking about there; maybe things were different before my time. But probably not.

Thank you for not trying to be offensive. You do have a right to your opinion and telling your side, or your "truth", of the story. However, I strongly believe that is not the way things are, were, or ever will be at the Whitmore, and I think I've expressed this to its fullest extent.

I know Stephan's mom, and that's so true. He would have been out of there in a second if she even suspected abuse of any kind.

And anon, I belong wherever I choose to be. And I choose that, not any of you.[ This Message was edited by: mouse on 2005-06-13 14:22 ]

If you're implying I know something about Joey singing and dancing, I don't. Even if someone did try to force him, he wouldn't do that, and I know it. He always played the tough guy.

I'm visiting because I missed everyone here. And no, I don't have a date, but I'm sure you're very proud of your daughter.