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« Reply #390 on: June 02, 2005, 09:01:00 PM »
Greg, I was the sole progressive, atheist sitting at a dinner party of right wing religious zealots who actually had the balls to ask me how I expected my children to turn into moral adults with the absence of religion in their lives. (They also asked how I could consider myself an American if I don't support Bush's policies.) I'm tired of feeling like I have to defend my atheism as if it were a moral failure.

I still believe in miracles and the beauty of life, and I'm certainly not jaded...
I believe in striving for goodness, love, justice, kindness, and compassion. I just don't need a monotheistic entity to validate my direction or values.  (Oh! Wait a minute--apparently, I do!)

Anyway, this thread reminded me of that dinner party and how I treaded lightly and diplomatically on an issue instead of asserting my naked truth.

So, thanks for the thread.
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« Reply #391 on: June 02, 2005, 09:18:00 PM »
Anon, I hear you loud and clear.

My father has screamed those very words at me. My ex wife used my atheism to try to smear my name during my divorce.

George Bush Senior, while vice president, gave his take on atheism during an interview....

 August 27,1987,

Sherman: What will you do to win the votes of the Americans who are Atheists?
Bush: I guess I'm pretty weak in the Atheist community. Faith in god is important to me.
Sherman: Surely you recognize the equal citizenship and patriotism of Americans who are Atheists?
Bush: No, I don't know that Atheists should be considered as citizens,
nor should they be considered patriots. This is one nation under God.
Sherman (somewhat taken aback): Do you support as a sound constitutional principle
the separation of state and church?
Bush: Yes, I support the separation of church and state. I'm just not very high on Atheists.



Here is the rub. People don't really care what god you believe in, as long as you believe in something supernatural. However, unbelief outrages people to the point of violence and bigotry.  Why? Hell, who knows? But it is anything but easy being true to your self in this religiously bigoted society.  That is why so many people who don't believe still go to church and profess they are christians, sometimes their life as they know it depends on it!

  Read this website I am going to link you to. It is an outrage and calls for the inprisonment of all atheists worldwide and calls us all criminals. While this would seem totally outrageous to some, the real telling aspect are the letters sent in to this guy from other christians praising his webiste.


http://www.tencommandments.org/heathens.shtml

the letters of support...


http://www.tencommandments.org/

On the left side, click "view our registry"

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« Reply #392 on: June 02, 2005, 09:20:00 PM »
Sorry to hear about your family member and sorry you had to cut the trip short.  Hopefully, you will get to return soon for uninterupted pleasure!  

I have met lots of atheists that frustrate me with their close mindedness as well.  Religion is a facinating discussion.  Too many people are just afraid of it or afraid of being wrong. I for one don't mind being wrong and admitting to it.  It just means I've learned something and that is always something to be proud of!

Gotta get to the dishes, but look forward to more discussions.  

Oh..just to throw one more question at ya...do you believe in absolute truth?
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« Reply #393 on: June 02, 2005, 09:33:00 PM »
check this out from the bible......this is a newer translation, but you get the idea of where all this christian "love" for their non christian fellow man originates...this is the NIV version.


 6 If your very own brother, or your son or daughter, or the wife you love, or your closest friend secretly entices you, saying, "Let us go and worship other gods" (gods that neither you nor your fathers have known, 7 gods of the peoples around you, whether near or far, from one end of the land to the other), 8 do not yield to him or listen to him. Show him no pity. Do not spare him or shield him. 9 You must certainly put him to death. Your hand must be the first in putting him to death, and then the hands of all the people. 10 Stone him to death, because he tried to turn you away from the LORD your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery. 11 Then all Israel will hear and be afraid, and no one among you will do such an evil thing again.


SO, if someone believes in another god and tries to talk to you about it, you should kill them, even if it is a family member.

Anyone who reads the old testament has to understand that if this god existed as the Isralis represent he did, that this guy was anything but loving and forgiving.

The only conclusions that make any sense are the following

There is no God.

The bible is mistaken in the nature of God and therefore not the word of God.

God is a bloody war Spirit that wants you to kill all that don't believe in him.

Or

Killing, stoning to death, smashing babies, raping women and other such stuff, when ordered by god, are holy and good things.


I know where I stand...
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« Reply #394 on: June 02, 2005, 09:36:00 PM »
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On 2005-06-02 18:20:00, Anonymous wrote:




Oh..just to throw one more question at ya...do you believe in absolute truth?"


Thanks for the sentiment. My step father died at 88 years old. He was my supporter thru my seed ordeal, and a real nice old guy who never spoke bad about other people.


As far as absolute truth, you must help me here. I think the term has a specific meaning in the christian community, but I have seen it used several different ways.

What do you mean by this?
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« Reply #395 on: June 03, 2005, 09:16:00 AM »
I went to Catholic school for grade school, but turned away from the Catholic church because I just didn't believe the things they were teaching.  

While staying faithful to Jesus himself, I explored other things( science, nature, sociology, Wicca...).  I was inspired by Jesus, and I realized that many paths are good, and work for different people.  I think instincitvely, I always knew that.  

As I recently read in a book about Hinduism- "God's house has many doors"

I came to be a very "spiritual" person, and well-rounded (I like to think).  

My current boyfriend is aethiest.  For awhile, I had a problem with that.  Like, he couldn't float in a pool at night and look up at the stars and feel their wonderful energy...he just doesn't believe it!  I thought, what can I possibly share with this person?  

He is very smart- a PHD (physiology) and MD.  But he doesn't believe in any sort of "metaphysics"!...just because he has not studied it or seen the evidence or proof.  I tell him, just because you have not seen it does not mean that it is not so, and you should have an open mind.  I guess we just believe in different science.  

Lots of Christian people really freak me out, like how they say it's their way, or eternity in hell.  I do feel sorry for them, because I think they are missing out on a lot by shunning other paths.  But I also feel like my boyfriend is missing out on so much, by shunning all paths.  He is from China (his grandparents were Buddhist), and he has no desire to go to a temple to meditate or read or pray or anything!  

Is there anybody here who is spiritual in any sense, and has dated or married an aethiest?  I am becoming more comfortable with it, but would like to hear from others.  

Any input is appreciated.  Thanks.
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« Reply #396 on: June 03, 2005, 10:31:00 AM »
Your boyfriend hasn't 'shunned all paths', he just has chosen another, and that is to require evidence of the supernatural (or methaphysical as you put it) before he believes in it.

Respect the man for having some intellectual integrity.


And if you believe "gods house has many doors", tell me how you reconcile that with christianity or Islam, who basically think everyone is going to hell but them and justify these beliefs with their respective holy books? You say you are "faithfull to Jesus", but this attitude flies right in the face of the teachings of the new testament...

"spriritual" is just another way of saying superstitious. It denotes a belief in a supernatural world that remains unseen.
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« Reply #397 on: June 03, 2005, 10:34:00 AM »
BTW, I think "many paths work for many people" also. I just am curious how you reconcile that with a  belief in biblical christianity and Jesus' teachings.
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« Reply #398 on: June 03, 2005, 11:22:00 AM »
Greg,

Again, sorry about your step dad.  It is always hard to lose someone you respect and love.  Not to be used in discussion, but just curious, was he a religious man?

I want to get back to you with the absolute truth stuff, but right now don't have time.  But just wanted to say that I agree with you about the many paths or doors leading to Heaven or God.  I used to think that way, but when studying the Bible further, it clearly states that is not so.  So I had to choose which to believe.  I don't see any way to reconcile the many paths with either Islam or Christianity.
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« Reply #399 on: June 03, 2005, 12:26:00 PM »
My step dad?

He was a kind man, never spoke mean about anyone. He loved my mother in a way I have rarely seen any other man love another woman. He was my advocate and always believed in me, even when others in my family did not. He never judged anyone for their religious beliefs or lack thereof.

He was also an alcoholic and a chronic smoker. In the last 20 years or so he was able to shift his alcoholism to where he only drank a little wine, but he drank every day. The smoking in the end killed him, just as surely as it is killing my mother.

Was he religious? If so, he never spoke about it. He never went to church except when my mother wanted to go.  If I had to garner a guess, I would say no, he was not a believer.
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« Reply #400 on: June 03, 2005, 10:42:00 PM »
Your step dad sounds like a great man!  You were blessed to have him and he you  in each other's lives.  I'd love to stay online and explore the topic more tonight, but just can't.  Greg, I'll get back with you soon.  You'll love this...our church vacation Bible school is this week and I'm in charge, so the week end is booked.  Hopefully, we can talk soon.  Thanks for stayin'with the thread.  I'm enjoying your thoughts.  Also, thanks for not lumping me with the dogmatic, frustrated, closed minded, right wing conservatives.  However, the right wing stuff probably, usually fits.  Have a great weekend!
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« Reply #401 on: June 05, 2005, 03:08:00 AM »
Greg-  I don't need to reconcile *anything* with the Bible or Koran.  I look to Jesus for inspiration- being kind to the poor and sick, for example.  Not that that is always easy.  

I don't read the Bible or Koran, only studied it as a child at school.  I think much of it is nonsense.  Occassionally, I may read a bit of independent writings on, like, Mary Magdalene or Jesus or something.  

I don't really find these "holy books" to be valid or truthful.  I benefit much more from being out in nature, especially at the beach, surfing, or meditating.    

I realize more and more that a majority of Americans are members of a dangerous cult that calls itself "Christianity".  To me, Jesus teaches tolerance and love for all, and just how dangerous a ruling government can be, and I think that many Christian churches have perversed that.  

I understand that my boyfriend has "intellectual integrity".  Personally, I just try to think bigger than that.  I mean, if Christopher Columbus (in addition to commiting genocide), if he and everyone else just waited around for evidence that the earth was round, if they didn't just take a chance and go out to check it out...  I've experienced so many "supernatural" things myself- both by chance and also by actively seeking such things-  that I absolutely believe in such things.  Sometimes I feel like my b-friend is jaded, and thats kind of sad.  

I certainly would rather marry an aethiest than someone who believes that the first woman was made out of a man's rib.  But I would like to see him realize the amazing energy that comes from the earth and the stars and all that.
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« Reply #402 on: June 05, 2005, 11:18:00 AM »
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"Greg-  I don't need to reconcile *anything* with the Bible or Koran.  I look to Jesus for inspiration- being kind to the poor and sick, for example.  Not that that is always easy.  



I don't read the Bible or Koran, only studied it as a child at school.  I think much of it is nonsense.  Occassionally, I may read a bit of independent writings on, like, Mary Magdalene or Jesus or something.  



I don't really find these "holy books" to be valid or truthful.  I benefit much more from being out in nature, especially at the beach, surfing, or meditating.    



I realize more and more that a majority of Americans are members of a dangerous cult that calls itself "Christianity".  To me, Jesus teaches tolerance and love for all, and just how dangerous a ruling government can be, and I think that many Christian churches have perversed that.  



I understand that my boyfriend has "intellectual integrity".  Personally, I just try to think bigger than that.  I mean, if Christopher Columbus (in addition to commiting genocide), if he and everyone else just waited around for evidence that the earth was round, if they didn't just take a chance and go out to check it out...  I've experienced so many "supernatural" things myself- both by chance and also by actively seeking such things-  that I absolutely believe in such things.  Sometimes I feel like my b-friend is jaded, and thats kind of sad.  



I certainly would rather marry an aethiest than someone who believes that the first woman was made out of a man's rib.  But I would like to see him realize the amazing energy that comes from the earth and the stars and all that. "


Great Answer!!

you sound just like my oldest siser. She believes that Jesus was a "teacher" connected to the universal power, here to deliver a new message of peace and love (she is an old hippy). She calls herself a christian and prays along with the other christians, but her faith hardly resembles the fundies.

She has studied the bible and understands the old testament, the polygamous war god worshipped by the Jews (yahweh), and rejects that entire concept.

I disagree with her, pointing out that Jesus said he was here representing this same god, but she rejects that and says the god jesus spoke of does not resemble the god of the old testament at all.

She is wrong in a scriptural sense, but she doesn't believe the bible as an accurate portrayal of God at all.  In fact, she thinks the church itself is a corrupt institution, and to understand Jesus, you must go back to "ancient christianity", which was basically when christianity was pre church post Jesus. She doesn't believe in the ascention or any of the magical events in the bible, believes in science, and really doesn't believe in heaven in the same way christians do. She instead believes (or wishes to believe) in her own immortality as somehow a connection to the universe.

She has a kind of faith that is totally non judgmental, yet she still calls herself a christian.

While I think her christianity is a function of wishfull thinking, I would much rather have a world full of idealistic worshippers than the followers of the war gods of Islam and Christianity.

As far as your personal supernatural experiences, have you eliminated all other rational explanations, such as pyschological phenomena, pre sleep conditions, fear, stress, etc? You don't have to answer, because this is a personal thing, but what I witness is many "supernatural" occurances around stressfull events. For example, my step father just died, my mother announced at the wake that every time she approached the flag at their house, it would begin to wave. My other sister confirmed this (the other one who sees supernatural evidence of her dead son and cries if anyone suggests there is no afterlife) and it was presented as evidence of my step father contacting us.  I have seen many similar events proclaimed as supernatural when in fact these people (my family who I love) in every tragic circumstance go looking for anything to match a supernatural sign. we have many such lore in my family, and I have been around most of them, and I see nothing like they claim.  Why do they do it? Why is death or fear of death or serious disease almost always associated with these events?  What is the motivator?


By the way Bandit, you sure you aren't my sister?

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« Reply #403 on: June 05, 2005, 11:33:00 AM »
If I took a piss on the bible, would I go to hell?
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« Reply #404 on: June 05, 2005, 11:38:00 AM »
As far as the energy from the sun and stars, I would be surprised if your fiancee didn't understand there is an actual energy (radiation) emitting from these stars that does affect the earth and by proxy us. In addition, gravitational pull, a sense of wonder, a sense of smallness in a huge universe, connectivity to something bigger, a representation of infinite time and space, all of this and more are available for anyone looking up and wondering.....


No supernatural presense necessary.
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